I just got her schools letter (came home with SD) talking about the concert and it likened the "uniform" to that of a cheerleader or athlete (yes I spent $200 on SD's cheer stuff but... still not the same thing - she wore that every week for 3 months - not one night) anyway the letter states:
Any child not wearing the appropriate outfit may be kept from participating from the concert!
How freaking ridiculous!
Re: update to earlier post re: SD's school/concert