Today I got a letter from the AZ medical board regarding my complaint against my OB. They determined that she did not engage in "unprofessional conduct".
So I guess it's okay for doctors to treat their patients like crap and hang up on them when they ask too many questions. Nice message you're sending out Medical Board!!
*sigh*
Re: Wow... disappointed in AZ med. board
Wow.
I still think what your former Dr was completely out of line.
Have you written complaints on yelp, yahoo, and such?
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That's such CRAP!
I'm you're having to deal with all the stupid crap and I'm sorry you had to deal with that doctor. At least you know that you no longer have to put up with her crap, and I hope she doesn't treat any of her other patients the way she did you!
Sorry you had to deal with her, that's crazy. Anytime I've had a bad experience, whether it's a doctor, resturant, business, etc. I've told people to warn them of the way they treat people. Word of mouth is a common way most businesses lose customers or patients. It sucks, but at least you're able to move on along.
Some websites, yellow pages or white pages, may have where you can submit a review or rating...but that's a lot of work that may cause more aggravation than you've already had to endure.
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Well, apparently what she did is not considered "unprofessional" under statute, which, as a lawyer I should have looked up and when I have the energy to do it, I might do. But a large part of me just wants to put this whole mess behind me.
They did say that my complaint would remain with her file, so at least there's that.
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I'm sorry about the AZ med board. IMO you should write a letter to your doctor telling her how you feel about her services. While that would not accomplish anything, it might give you closure.
Filing a complaint with the insurance company might be an option. Also, if ever asked to recommend an OB/GYN you can tell people not to go to them because they treated you like sh!!t. You can say this without going into specifics.
However, you probably want to put this whole situation behind you. As much as it sucks, you can never inflict the same amount of pain on your doctor that she did on you. Sometimes the best way to move forward is to let things go.
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Nov '12-March '13 on a break
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Someone that acted that unprofessionally to you will most likely (if not already) treat other patients that way too. I'm glad your complaint is staying w/ her file. Hopefully others who are treated that way have the sense to file a complaint themselves.
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