My DH is a police sergeant and has been in this area for almost 16yrs. I have been interviewing nannies and daycares for our son, but this is a small town, so my options are already limited. He has shot-down two nannies and a daycare because there are people living near or next door who are "trouble". Now, I am also concerned for the safety of our son, and when he says "trouble" a lot of it is drugs and one neighbor of a nanny was arrested for murder...so I don't begrudge him doing due diligence. But I'm running out of options fast. We're down to one last nanny or else I have to go with a daycare facility I was less than thrilled with.
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Re: Vent - childcare frusterations
Sometimes having the inside track is not the best way to live. My DH is in pest control, so I hear all the roach, rat, bed bug and mouse stories I can take. It's so disappointing to be craving a certain food item, only to be told what's going on in the kitchen. Sometimes, you'd rather not know.
Good luck finding childcare. I guess you have to decide how near is too near. My DD's daycare is right next to a not-so-nice apartment complex. I'm sure there are drug users and other sorts living there. But, I have to I trust that her daycare has appropriate security and procedures.
It would be if it weren't so expensive. I doubt we could find someone full-time for $100-150 a week which is what we're looking at.