Okay - describe your dream guy's looks when you were growing up. Does your husband have any of those attributes? What about your SO - what kind of woman was he attracted to physically - and do you fit that description?
I always was attracted to men with dark hair, dark eyes, tall - yum! My husband has red hair, blue eyes and is kind of tall. He tended to go for blondes which I was but my hair keeps getting darker - so now I'm kind of a light brown haired girl.
Re: SM challenge - dream guys
Growing up, my dream guys were Rick Astley & Billy Idol. No shiiit. And that is partly why I lovelovelove to get Rick rolled. bahahahaha!
I had a thing for blue eyes. I dated very bad men just for their gorgeous eyes. Rowr. DH had blue/green eyes, and I like that. I also liked muscly men without being all brawn, no brain. DH is very much that, and smart to boot!
I always went for really tall guys with blonde hair and blue eyes. I always wanted some one that was good at sports and liked to do things around the house-I always wanted my H to be a SAHD since I knew I couldn't be a SAHM.
My H is only a little taller than me (I'm about 5'9" and a little extra) he has blonde curly hair and blue green eyes. He is super smart, good at sports, but is terrible at anything domestic. So we both work FT and I end up doing everything around the house too = (
My H always loved red heads with pale skin-and that's what he got. I have green eyes and DS ended up with strawberry blonde hair and bright blue eyes = )
I always liked tall guys with dark hair who would cook for me. DH is only about an inch or two taller than me and he has extremely limited kitchen skills (he's good at assembling, though). He was a swimmer in high school, and although he's gotten a bit squishy in the middle, he still has those dreamy swimmer shoulders and beautiful tight calves.
If I ask him what his type was he says something sweetly dorky like, "I like pretty women, just like you."
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I always wanted a tall, solid, blonde that plays guitar. I got the tall, blonde, and guitar player parts, but DH is pretty skinny.
IDK what DH's "type" really was; but I don't think I fit the description. Most of his exes were very short and thin. I'm taller and definitely not what I'd call "thin" lol
I always like tall, dark, built men. DH is short, so very white, and not very muscular lol. He does have gorgeous blue/green eyes and the dark hair that I always liked though.
If I asked him what his type was he would respond like KJ's with something about his type is everything I am or something lol