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April Fools!

NMscubagirlNMscubagirl member
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This was a good one!! Let me set the scene: Infertile couple (us) feeling lonely and isolated in the middle of our infertile hell decide to go to a friend's BBQ the night before. Couple has a fantastic time, meets another great couple same age, similar interests, no kids, who were lots of fun! Things were starting to looking up. Fast-forward to today i.e. April fool's day. All new friends go out to lunch and here it comes... are you ready... of course she is pregnant. April fools!!! We actually thought we could have a new set of great friends to have a good time with and not have to deal with IF all the time. What a silly silly girl I was to think that we could get out of this that easy. Now they are relegated to the group of people I might be able to spend time with again if this ever works. It is hard enough to deal with a pregnancy of a good friend let alone people we just met.

I made it through the lunch and just got to my car before the ugly crying started. I am so angry and bitter these days. I was hoping to get back to a better place and I felt like we were really getting there. I feel pathetic that something so small could be my undoing these days. April fools!
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Dx: DH - Azoo, Me - Mild PCOS
DH - sperm found! Seems to produce only for a few days every 70 days!
Over 1 million in cryo in 15 vials over 6 samples
IVF #1 - 1 beautiful expanded blast transferred, 4 snowbabies - beta #1 11/30/11 = BFFN
FET #1, transfered 2 embies 2/16/12 = BFFN; 1 snowbaby left in cryo
IVF #2 + CGH = 4 genetically normal embies on ice. FET September 26th
SAIF/PAIF always welcome

a special GL and prayers to my IF sister Gregermis

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Re: April Fools!

  • LaLe09LaLe09 member

    I'm sorry. That's one of my many fears.... a surprise pregnancy announcement and nowhere to run. You have to sit there with a smile on your face. I don't know how you did it. It just stings so badly.

    I feel especially bitter and angry lately too. Especially since i'm in the exact same boat I was in last April. And the April before that.

    Sorry you had to go through this today! :(


    DH: Severe MFI/Azoo Me: Compound heterozygous MTHFR
    IVF #1= m/c- methotrexate @6w2d
    FET #1= BFN
    IVF #2= m/c- D&C @8w5d
    IVF #3= Beta #1 9dp5dt= 252, Beta #2 11dp5dt= 417, Beta #3 17dp5dt= 4,952
    US #2 @ 7w2d= twins, baby B measuring behind
    US #3 @ 8w5d= Baby A doing well, no HR in baby B
    *S/PAIF always welcome* BabyFetus Ticker
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  • BeeBee08BeeBee08 member
    Booo fertile silly couple.  Not very cool all around and I'm sorry you had to deal with that.  Huge ((hugs)).

     
    me 33/DH 36
    ttc since 10/2008; d/x: mild MFI, stageII endo
    ~~PAIF/SAIF Welcome~~
    11 IUI’s = 1 m/c (7w4d)
    IVF#1 January 2012 BFN, FET #1 April 2012 BFN
    Surprise BFP October 2012 m/c (7w), Surprise BFP April 2013 m/c (6w4d)
    IVF #2: July 2013, ET 1 embryo 7/18, beta 1 @ 14dp3dt - 757, beta 2 @ 16dp3dt - 1762
    U/S 1 @ 6w4d = 1 little frogger with HB of 118, U/S 2 @ 7w3d measuring right on track with HB of 160
    Stick Frogger Stick! Please!!!!!!!!!!!!!   It's a Girl, EDD April 7, 2014

    BabyFruit Ticker

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  • GregermisGregermis member

    ((HUGS))  IF sucks!!!!!!!!!!!!

    TTC #1 Since 4/2010, Cycle 30
    Positive for HLA-B27, I'm a mutant :p
    Testing - Me ok, gluten issue? DH - borderline count, low motility
    4/28/11 IUI#1 = BFP!(5/25), EDD 2/2/12 - m/c 5w3d
    7/3, 7/31, 9/25 - IUI#2-4=BFN
    IVF#1 - 1 blast = BFP!! (12/30), EDD 9/9/12, confirmed c/p 4w2d
    FET#1 3/2/12 - 2 blasts =BFP!! EDD 11/18/12, us#1 = twins! Confirmed m/c 5w6d
    4/20-surprise BFP and another c/p 4w2d
    FET#2 7/16/12 - 2 blasts = BFN
    FET#3 8/20/12 - 1 blast - BFP!! Beta #1-2=177, 354
    1st u/s 5w6d, one beautiful little HB :), 2nd u/s 146bpm
    baby girl born 5/10/13

    TTC#2 since 12/17/2014, Cycle 8
    Repeat Testing...FSH=12, AMH=3.8, AFC=28. 
    IUI#5 5/10/15- c/p?
    IVF#2 8/19/15 - cancelled due to cysts
    IVF#2 take two 10/2015 - 5 blasts frozen
    FET#4 12/11/2015 - BFN - 4 blasts remaining
    FET#5 2/18/16 - BFP!!!  Beta1-3, 126, 250, 745!!

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    Tons of love and ((hugs)) to my IF sister NMscubagirl


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  • angela2004angela2004 member

    {{HUGS}}

    On Saturday we went to go visit my husband's godson's new 2 week old baby. I held the baby for over an hour.

    We start TTC before they met, before they got married, and before they TTC.

    IF SUCKS!

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