I'm 27 weeks pregnant and scheduled to go on a couple face to face interviews soon. I'm highly qualified for the job but they made it clear via telephone there are serveral applicants. I'm in the architecture industry so there are many looking for work so this is even harder with a visible baby bump. Any success stories put there? How did you make it through the interview process - any advice on how to talk or not talk about my pregnancy? Sorry for formatting, bumping from phone.
Re: Success stories of being hired while pregnant?
I have a positive and negative exp for you.
I got laid off at 20 weeks preg. I had a job intv and got hired at 23 weeks preg. I hated the job and at 30 weeks I kept the job and started interviewing again. I intervied for a wonderful dream job at 34 weeks and impressed the interviewer (he said so) and I was convinced I got the job....not! I never heard anything back. Then 5 months later out of the blue they called me and hired me.
So moral of the story is, you can get a job while pregnant. But it may not be for the best company. Don't let it discourage you. While you may not be hired right away you make an impression and who knows what could happen.
PS 7 months later I am still at job#2 and very very very happy here.
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Thanks for all of your replies! I've also been googling and there seem to be so many positive stories.
Here's hoping this is the 'right' company.
I don't know if this will be at all helpful to you, as I am in landscape architecture and companies tend to be smaller, unless you are looking at an interdisciplinary firm with multiple offices.
Second week of January, I got a call from a firm (sole proprietor) that I had interviewed with last summer. Last year they told me they liked me but were looking for someone with more experience. So I figured that was the end of it. When they called me I was 23 weeks along and pretty obviously pregnant. They had an opening at my level, the woman I was replacing is a friend from school and knew that I might still be looking for work. Also this is a company that prefers to advertise openings by word of mouth, as they don't really have the resources to sift through hundreds of resumes.
I figured it would be best to just come out and mention the pregnancy, as I had nothing to lose at this point. They said, come in, we'll chat. So I went in and said I would love to work with you but obviously I will need some flexibility for my checkups and I want to make sure that this will work for both of us. They said no problem and made me an offer, which I accepted, and we agreed on a schedule that seems to have worked well for everyone.
Bottom line, I just went with my gut instinct on this one. That may or may not be the right approach for you, but I have found in the past that when I try to be what I think an employer wants I risk ending up in a culture that might not be the best fit.
My advice -- do exhaustive research on the company before you go in for that interview. Is anyone in your network a current or former employee? Talk to them. Get a sense of the management culture, the communication culture, and whether they know of anyone who needed to take FMLA for any reason, and whether that person got the support and accommodations they needed in order to take care of their family and transition back to work when they were ready. Do people do a lot of OT, or are their workloads realistic so they can have a life outside of the office? The more you know going in, the better equipped you'll be when you go in for the real interview.
I interviewed twice while I was pregnant and didn't get either job, but don't let that deter you.
My current job, I was called for while I was in the hospital postpartum and I told them I couldn't make the interview 3 days later since baby would be 5 days old but I would be happy to do a phone interview. They said sure, I interviewed with 7 people on the line and 2 weeks later was invited in for a 2nd interview. They all knew I had a 2.5 week old at home and didn't care, they hired me anyway and I started following my maternity leave (and a few weeks of clean up work at my other job).
My dad is retired now but he hired 3 pregnant women in the 80's (when it was much less of the norm...) he encouraged me to interview while pregnant because in his words "the right candidate is the right candidate and a company will accomodate if they really want you".
I have gotten two jobs while pregnant - the first was at 18 weeks (and I was showing) and the second time I was 21 weeks (and is for my current company, which is an awesome company).
This is somewhat different, but I was hired by a law firm for an attorney position when they knew that I was actively in the process of adopting a newborn. I didn't bring it up during the interview process, but they knew because one of the partners was an acquaintance of mine who adopted, and I contacted her when we decided to adopt to ask some questions. I also told her when we signed up with the same consultant she used, so at the time I interviewed, they knew that I might need to drop everything at any time to go pick up a baby that was being placed with us. Honestly, we would have put our adoption plans on hold for six months or so had I gone to work with any other firm and wouldn't have brought this issue up at all during interviews, but this firm was very understanding since one of the partners had recently gone through the entire process.
I wouldn't talk about your pregnancy at all unless it is to let them know that you are able to accept less than standard maternity leave or something like that. For example, my husband was going to be a stay at home dad, so I was able to take just four weeks off. If I were visibly pregnant during an interview and knew that I could be very flexible and take only four weeks off, I would make that known during the interview. Otherwise, they will just assume that you will likely want a full 12 week maternity leave.
I work in the A+D industry and was laid off in December. I've had luck getting temp consulting work and about a dozen interviews but no full-time permanent offers. I did have one company that brought me in for a drug screen/background check and at that point I let them know I was pregnant. I called and emailed to follow up but they never contacted me again.
I agree with PP, do research on the company and don't bring it up until you have an offer. With so many people out of work in this industry there's no reason to give them an excuse not to hire you. GL