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Secondary IF
I'm calling it, ladies
12 dpo and a stark bfn. I'm calling this cycle a bust. To say I'mdevastated would be an understatement. We have one more iui and thenwe're d.o.n.e. done. I am so f*cking tired of this. I know there isstill a small chance. But I just can't believe that with a trigger andall, I wouldn't be getting a positive by now. Last medicated cycleI got af at cd25. That is tomorrow. I'll let you know. Thanks, ladies. I'm going to go crawl in my hole and drink a cup of coffee now.
Conceived DD after 15 cycles---
TTC #2 since 11/10---Me- Poor egg quality and supply---DH- Poor count and motility---2 rounds 75IU Follistim/IUI-BFN---5/12 150IU Follistim/IUI-Over-produced! Converted to IVF! 0 fertilized:( Rescue ICSI performed. 2 embryos transfered-BFN
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Re: I'm calling it, ladies
I'm so sorry. It does suck and you have every right to be mad. It's hard not to be discouraged each time you get a BFN.
Sending warm wishes & hugs your way!
When the world says, "Give up,"
Hope whispers, "Try it one more time."
~Author Unknown
Oh Linz
I'm sorry. I know you are disappointed. I'm not going to tell you to keep your head up and not lose hope and you're not out until you're out, because I hate when I feel like crap and people try to encourage me. I'd rather people just be pissed and sad with me sometimes.
XOXOX
Married: 6/27/2008
DS: 3/14/2010 Planned, PG first try
M/C 6/2012
DD: 4/22/2013 Planned, UnDx Infertility, PG on our own
BFP: 10/28/2016 Unplanned, HUGE SURPRISE!
M/C 12/12/2016
BFP: 10/27/2017 Unplanned, HUGE SURPRISE
EDD: 7/2/2018
Hugs, I am so sorry......IF just plain sucks and is so unfair.
Spoil yourself this weekend!
"Just keep swimming, just keep swimming..."
Miracle DD born 12.2005
TTC #2 since Dec 2008 w/ PCOS
***P/SAIF Always Welcome***
Keep it Natural, Baby!
I'm pissed and sad.
You really maintained a lot of positivity this cycle and I know it really hurts.
TTC #2 since 6/2010
10/2012 DH diagnosed with Epilepsy
A few failed IUIs summer 2012 and 2013.
DH taking clomid and waiting to see if he needs another vericocele repair.
Hoping for a 2015 baby or babies.
Wishing, hoping, waiting.
Ladies. You are all amazing. Thank you so much. I don't know what I would do without you. I am feeling much better after a good cry. I honestly don't know how I'm still standing. If I knew a year ago that I would be in the same exact place, I think it would have ruined me. I find new strength each day, partly because of all you.
I'm starting to realize that it is probably not going to happen for us. We haven't had even a whisper of success in 18 months and we are doing EVERYTHING right. We even still love having sex together!
I just got done reading Waiting For Daisy. She had one ovary and an A/F count of 2 and got KU. Maybe someday it will happen for us, but I really don't think my body likes treatment. We'll do one more IUI and then we are getting our lives back. We'll never avoid, but I will never worry about monitoring again.
Thanks, again, ladies! You truly are amazing!
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Moving on as a family of 3
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Weez, you are SO right! It drives me crazy when people don't validate my feelings and just tell me to feel better.
Coxity, I really was! This was the best I felt about a cylce...ever. Thanks for your support. I hope you're doing well!
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sorry to hear....
IF sucks.
~after 34 cycles we finally got our 2nd little bundle of joy~
My IF blog
this was exactly how i felt. i was thankful (in a way) that "i didn't know then what i knew now".
i was going through the motions of TTC #2, but had very little hope towards the end. i mean, how can you? but if someone had told me i would finally get a BFP on cycle 34, i would have told them they are crazy.
i wish you the very best on your next IUI!
~after 34 cycles we finally got our 2nd little bundle of joy~
My IF blog
Thanks, Byrne! I've been stalking you on PAIF. Congrats on the boy! I still can't believe that you made it to cycle 34. That is really unbelievable. The way I'm feeling now, I don't think we'll make it to cycle 24. Thanks for the words of wisdom.
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Lou's Infertility News
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All of this. I'm so sorry girl! Screw the coffee you need a margarita!!
3/11 DX: lean PCOS/anovulatory
9/11 ovarian drilling to remove cysts + 5mg Femara = BFN
10/11 5 mg Femara again = BFP, ectopic pregnancy at 5w4d
11/11 diagnosed with breast cancer
12/11 bilateral mastectomy with reconstruction
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"Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming"
TTC #2, Operative hysteroscopy March 2011; IVF #1 long lupron protocol April 2011-cancelled due to poor response; IVF #2 flare protocol May 2011=hospitalization due to abdominal hemorrhage during ER and no fert due to MFI issues. Moving onto international adoption from Moldova January 2013!