So I decided to start watching some newborn videos on youtube of how to bathe your newborn baby, swaddling, installing the car seat base and some other such videos. As if I wasn't paranoid enough, now I'm really nervous for some reason. I know eventually it will all come to me and we will figure out on our own how to get thing to work well for us (bathing and such) but just to hear those baby's cry because they didn't want to be messed with for a bath nearly sent me to tears. I'm going to be a mess when it comes time to give my little peanut a bath. But all of the videos were very informative. So I figure this info on top of what the nurses are going to tell me should at least give me a jump start
Re: Starting to watch newborn care videos on youtube
You are welcome kaybee! I have found that the ones that are uploaded by the bump, about.com and any that are vids taken while the hospital nurses are giving the bath seem to be the best. They give you step by step instructions and tell you what to watch out for, they explain why the baby quivers and it isn't because they are cold (which is what I always thought but that isn't the case) so it did shed some light on what we are going to go through. Like clipping baby's nails....UGH!!! I'm dreading that day!
Biggest thing that helped us (besides nice WARM water, not luke warm) was putting a little heater in the bathroom about 30 minutes before the bath and really heating it up. NB's hate being cold. So with the heater going and the room pretty warm (you'll likely be uncomfortable, lol) they were so much happier.
And you'll get it :0) it is stressful at first, but you find a groove faster than you'd think!
The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new.
I started watching baby care videos a while ago and I've found they really helped...mind you, this is my 3rd child so I "should" know all of these things, and instinctively I do.
But it's been 6 years since I had a newborn and the thing that I'm finding most helpful about the videos is seeing how calm and unruffled the caregivers are while the baby is crying.
With my previous 2 I would tense up when they cried and that would make me awkward and not confident and in turn, the babies get more upset.
So my takeaway from the videos is that it's ok to tune out the crying when you're trying to bathe them, get a bottle ready, change a diaper, sneak away to use the restroom for a few seconds, etc.
I don't know if the Happiest Baby on the Block is on YouTube, but there is a video companion to the book that demonstrates the 5 S's that I also found helpful when my second was a newborn.