Someone's post below made me wonder. I didn't get many pregnancy symptoms. I wasn't tired, or sick, or feeling sore boobs. I think my sense of smell was the only thing I really noticed. People on my birth month board said it's fine, not everyone has symptons (which I know is true)... but after having a m/c I wonder if something was wrong the whole time. I don't go for my follow up with the ob for a couple more weeks, and my m/c was natural, so I didn't do a D&C with testing. Just curious who else was like this...
Re: Who else had few symptoms of pregnancy?
2/13/12 Partial Molar Pregnancy diagnosed
Forced break for two cycles
TTC June 2012
BFP #1 ~ EDD 5.20.2012 ~ MC 10.1.2011
BFP #2 ~ EDD 11.15.2012 ~ CP 3.7.2012
BFP #3 ~ DS born 12.03.2012
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Nope, I had full-out nausea, almost 24/7; a lot of foods made me sick, even the thought of them, and especially the smell; my nipples hurt like hell and my boobs grew almost immediately, which made them heavy and sore; I was tired all the time, and napped for the first times in my adult life; plus, well, I was a b**** sometimes, something I'm not usually.
It was so bad that I told my boyfriend that was the only time I would ever go through pregnancy. I have obviously changed my tune post-loss, and know I'll do it as many times as it takes.
We lost our first (EDD 07/23/12) after finding out at 12 weeks there was no longer a heartbeat. Our rainbow was born 05/22/13 and was worth all we went through.
“So can you understand? Why I want a daughter while I’m still young? I wanna hold her hand and show her some beauty before all this damage is done. But if it’s too much to ask, it’s too much to ask … Then send me a son.” – Arcade Fire
Other than being tired (getting up to pee 3 times a night), sore boobs and hungry, I felt like a million bucks!
I know there's no correlation, but it's so hard not to think of these things.
Stick, baby, Stick!
Beta #1 (12dpo): 38.3; Beta #2 (15dpo): 202.7
Baby Girl born 1/17/13
I had few symptoms and the ones I had were minimal.
My boobs weren't sore, I had no mood swings, I didn't feel bloated. I had light morning sickness, but I only threw up twice; the rest of the time it was just heaving/gagging. I was tired, I guess, but I really second guessed myself about whether it was related to the pregnancy or not. Between people on TB and what I read, it was a can barely function or move a muscle tiredness. I was more sleepy, but I had that over-the-top tiredness after my M/C. Who knows. I also asked several times on my BMB and was assured I was fine and just lucky.
Cycle 9: BFP 5-3-12:EDD 1-24-13 It's a girl! Born 12-27-12
My sense of taste was the first symptom I noticed (Cheese tasted like metal).
Then it was breast soreness so bad I felt like some skin peeled off every time I removed my bra, nausea (I threw up for the first time after I started Spotting (2 days before the MC), and I could smell EVERYTHING.
נשמה שבאה לעולם למספר חודשים לשהות במעי האם, היא נשמת צדיק גמור שבאה לעולם רק לתקן פגם קטן ולאחר מספר חודשים אלו היא שבה למקומה לגן עדן להתענג על ה'. לעתיד לבוא נשמה זו תוכר באחד מבנייך ובזכות נשמת צדיק זה תזכי להיות במחיצת צדיקים
TTC Since September 2011
BFP#1:Dec.1.11 EDD:Aug.09.12 MC:Jan.11.12 (9WK5D)-Natural
BFP#2:Apr.18.12 EDD:Dec.21.12 MC:May.1.12 (6WK3D)-D&C
BFP#3:Sep.12.12 - Suspected CP | BFP#4:Dec.1.12 - Suspected CP
BFP#5: Dec.26.12 EDD:Sep.10.13 MC:Jan.7.13 (4WK6D)-Natural
BFP#6: Jun.11.13 EDD:Feb.23.13 Beta: #1=8000 #2=24532 US@6wk2d showed 7wk2d size with 143BPM HR * NT US@12wk6d looked good. A/S passed with flying colors and our team color is Blue! *Grow my little Pamplemousse*!!!
People always say that having morning sickness is a sign of a healthy pregnancy and didn't have morning sickness. I did have extreme fatigue, sore breasts, increased sense of smell and unusual weight gain in the lower abdominal area.
Sadly, now when I have any symptoms that feel at all familiar from when I was pregnant it gives me a misleading sense of hope.
Though pregnancies can vary from woman to woman, I wonder too if my lack of morning sickness was a sign that the conditions were right to carry to full term.
BFP 12/19/08- DS born 8/25/09 9lbs2oz via Zavanelli Maneuver
BFP 8/26/11- Missed miscarriage discovered 10/19/11 at 11w2d, measured at 9 weeks gestation w/ no HB. D&C 10/21/11
BFP 3/17/12 at 12dpo CP 3/21/12
BFP 4/23/12 at 10dpo Stick my little one! Beta #1: 83.3 @ 13dpo Beta #2: 197.7 @ 15dpo
Our little man is getting bigger every day!
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That's exactly how I feel. Miscarriages make you think weird thoughts! I am still waiting for my first post-m/c period, and I've never felt so eager to get it! Also, I really hope I feel sick next time around, for the peace of mind! I KNOW it's not always a sign that a pregnancy is good or bad, but you know we can't control how rational our minds are
When I was pg I felt like a different person. I had nearly every symptom in the book. The symptoms got worse and worse as the pregnancy progressed, then they changed into much scarier symptoms like extreme cramping and bleeding. I had an exteremely fast natural m/c, but up until that moment I knew my pregnancy was progressing normally. It was like I just hit a wall and stopped.
Now, I crave symptoms during the 2WW (which I'm in now). Today I got just a little bit constipated, and a little bit excited! What is wrong with me? Who gets excited over constipation? Only a TTCALer!
To answer your question.. I don't think pg symptoms dictate whether a pregnancy will continue or not. But like many women, I want all my symptoms in full force just for the re-assurance.
This is pretty much what it was like for me. I just knew something was wrong. I also had a healthy first pregnancy.
BFP #2, 12/12/11, m/c 12/25/11
BFP #3, 3/09/12, CP 3/10/12
BFP #4, 7/22/12, DD#2 born 4/2013
I had none with all 3. The only thing I had was slighty sore boobs for about a week after I tested then that went away. I also got bloated with the last one but I think that was from the progesterone only. Its funny you read about how few/no symptoms can be normal but in my experience they are not. Even after seeing the heartbeat twice I knew it wasn't right to feel as good as I did, kwim?
BFP #1 6.19.11 ~ EDD 2.23.12 ~ CP on 6.22.11
BFP #2 7.23.11 ~ EDD 3.28.12 ~ MC on 8.16.11
BFP #3 11.17.11~ EDD 7.31.12 ~ MC on 1.18.12
BFP #4 4.12.12 ~ EDD 12.25.12~ Born on 12.26.12
This. I was pretty fatigued right before we found out and for about two weeks after... but other than that... nothing. I maybe got sick once, but I blamed that on carnival food. I had cramping which scared me more than anything. I was constantly looking for symptoms in hopes that it would tell me everything was fine. Deep down in my gut a week after our BFP, I just knew something wasn't right. But - I also believe that I have a gift of intuition.