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Pregnant after a Loss
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I question humanity
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People surprise me in a bad way. Seriously, wasted air space.
https://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/64457764.aspx?MsdVisit=1
Married August 9, 2008
TTC Since September 2009
1st BFP | EDD 10/23/10 | Natural M/C 03/27/10 | 10w 0d
2nd BFP 06/26/10 | EDD 02/25/11 | Natural M/C 07/17/10 | 8w 1d
3rd BFP 12/17/10 | EDD 08/24/11 | Natural M/C 12/31/10 | 7w 4d
4th BFP 06/22/11 | EDD 02/25/12 | M/C D&C on 07/27/11 | 9w4d
5th BFP 09/17/11 | DD Paige Lily born 05/16/12
6th BFP 08/11/12 | EDD 04/11/13 | CP
7th BFP 09/29/13 | EDD 06/04/14 | Natural M/C 10/27/13 | 8w1d
8th BFP 12/16/13 | EDD 09/01/14
DX: Pericentric Inversion of Chromosome 8 & compound heterozygous for MTHFR mutations
RX: Lovenox/Heparin & Folgard
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Re: I question humanity
Wow.... I can't even begin to find words.
Poor OP.
Child #1 June 2012
Child #2 Feb 2014
Child #3 Feb 16
BFP 3/9/17
This! I cannot believe how rude the responses were and that people were thumb up-ing them
O.M.F.G.
I'm going to bed now in an effort to refrain from losing my flucking mind in that post. I almost want to start a useless multi-post attack of their board, just so they have to see more siggys with angel baby info. I normally say I wouldn't wish a loss on anyone, but there are a few twatwaffles on there who will never learn, unless they experience a loss themselves.
Unfluckingbelievable.
Sorry to lurk ... But I agree with every word here. That was the most disgusting thing I have ever read, and I didn't really want to believe people like that existed in this world. F*** that made me mad! There's a couple of girls there that have to be the lowest in humanity.
And Figgs, if you read this, know how sorry I am. I hope you find the board that you are looking for ... I think it is wonderful that you were looking for another place as not to surround yourself with loss. I am so sorry you wasted even one second on those s***heads.
We lost our first (EDD 07/23/12) after finding out at 12 weeks there was no longer a heartbeat. Our rainbow was born 05/22/13 and was worth all we went through.
“So can you understand? Why I want a daughter while I’m still young? I wanna hold her hand and show her some beauty before all this damage is done. But if it’s too much to ask, it’s too much to ask … Then send me a son.” – Arcade Fire
I feel awful for figgs. When the person you are talking about is not sitting directly in front of you, many are compelled to say whatever is on their mind unfiltered and without regard for the other persons feelings. Our experiences are what make us us.
As a rule we should be sensitive to anyone's feelings. The reply that figgs got was completely uncalled for and lacked any sophistication or tact. I would be willing to say that many of the responders were extremely narcissistic.
Even worse were the following threads. I'm so glad that I can't relate to the insensitive posters.
This is so sad to me.
This PGAL board is the only place where I have not seen pure rudeness. I see it everywhere else on all of these sites....
Some people just really like to go home and "fight" online. Maybe we should be happy these people aren't pro-creating... (<----- I know I am being mean too now, but that is my stabby thing to say right now!)
DD#1 9-4-04 *** DD#2 10-15-07
BFP#3 10-25-10 *EDD 7/1/11 * missed m/c @ 13w3d
BFP#4 7-30-11 *EDD 4/8/12 ~ DD#3 born 4/4/12
BFP #1 5/4/11 EDD 1/12/12 natural m/c 5/17/11
BFP #2 8/9/11 EDD 4/18/12 ectopic pregnancy (methotrexate) 8/24/11 ruptured tube and removal 8/29/11
BFP #3 3/9/12 EDD 11/19/12 Logan born 11/18/12
~*~*Everyone Welcome*~*~
dear god... seriously?
Clearly these women don't understand a thing about pregnancy loss. I'm sorry you had to deal with that Figgs!
BFP#1 EDD 11/8/11 - MC @ 9w6d, 4/15/11 we said goodbye
BFP#2 DD arrived 5/7/12
I hate these people. How dare they treat her like that! Who in the world do they think they are and what gives them the right to be so judgmental of her pain? I want to post just so they have to see Alexander's feet.
I'm not even sure how they can compare the loss of a child to some of the things they are talking about.
What is this board even? I don't get their acronym. I only got though the first page and had to stop reading though because it made my blood pressure go up.
This! OMG that thread made me so angry! Seriously, I want to throat punch alabaster or whoever she is! I cannot believe how insensitive people are. And Figgs was not even the one who mentioned her babies! Her siggy is two sentences...big deal! God forbid any of those women experience a loss. Life is not all rainbows and butterflies and horrible things do happen. Those stupid, ignorant, insensitive, disgusting so-called women need to get the he!! over themselves. Ugh I am so angry!
Figgs- Big, big, ginormous hugs to you. You are a very classy lady and you handled yourself so well on that thread...major kudos to you. And you keep your precious boys in your siggy....fluck those stupid women and whoever else has a problem with it!
Babies Not on The Brain
TTC #2 BFP 12/6/11 chemical pregnancy natural mc 12/18/11
TTC #3 BFP 3/19/12. 4/9: HR of 134! **Bake Turkey, Bake!**
**All ALs Welcome**
Oh, this just makes me sick.
I did see it looks like we have someone in another thread that is is probably from TN.
BFP #1- 11/7/10 ~EDD 7/20/11 ~M/C (bo) 12/6/10 @ 8wks ~Missing my Little Firework
BFP #2- 9/11/11 ~EDD 5/25/12 ~M/C (mmc10w)11/4/11 @ 11wks ~Missing my May Flower
BFP #3- 02/21/12 ~EDD 11/1/12 Audrey Lee Born 11/4/2012
BFP #4 ~EDD 6/20/14 stick baby stick!
I am absolutely disgusted with those cruel b1tches. Who the *** do they think they are?!! I want to be there when Karma punches them in the face, just in case she needs some help.
Figgs, I am so so sorry you had to deal with all of that. Big hugs & lots of love to you.
*lurking*
That thread was the saddest, most upsetting thing I've ever read on TB. I can't imagine how poor Figgs must be feeling.
Nosy, but does anyone know what that Alabaster "person" posted in a separate thread that was edited by a nest moderator?
BFP #2: 1.30.12 - missed m/c found on 2.27.12 - D&C 3.1.12 @8w
I read this this morning. Seriously disgusting.
=butting in=
That's crazy ! I'd like to say I can't believe that people would write such harsh things, but even over here on the bump there are several boards where the ladies aren't very welcoming and feel threatened by anything you say/write that isn't what they want to hear or that provokes some sort of jealousy in them. It's really hard to be on some of these boards. There are alot of angry, jealous people who don't care what you've experienced, all they care about is what they've experienced. I say to all these women who feel the need to insult others, Grow the F up. It's a board for christsake. A board where we are suposed to be supportive of one another. URGGGH> so sorry Figgs had to experience that.
And Alabaster, is she human? She's so sad. I wonder if she realizes that others realize that snarkiness just equals=sad, depressed and lonely. I feel sort of sorry for her.
[MC 11.20.11] [DS born 9.24.12] [DD born 10.15.14]
The crazy thing is that she actually has children (cute ones at that). How could she post such horrendous things? It makes me question if she's got all her marbles. Or is a sociopath.
www.facebook.com/alabaster.angel#
[MC 11.20.11] [DS born 9.24.12] [DD born 10.15.14]
I'll take your word for it. I can't even imagine worse that everything she already said. It's really quite scary that there are people who would say those kind of things, especially to a sweet lady like Figgs.
BFP #2: 1.30.12 - missed m/c found on 2.27.12 - D&C 3.1.12 @8w