Pregnant after a Loss

So when do you stop checking your TP?

Because I'm driving myself crazy looking for spotting! Every time I go to the bathroom I say a little prayer. Is that normal? I'm thinking this is going to be a loooong pregnancy if I'm being this neurotic.

Re: So when do you stop checking your TP?

  • I never stopped ;) and I am still going strong lol The only time I dont look is at night because I try not to turn the lights on and wake up DH
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  • Just wanted to pop in to give you a {{{hug}}}. I'm so happy for you!
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  • For me it slowed down after my a/s. I think around 30 weekday I went to the bathroom and realised I hadn't looked at the TP for a while. Of course, now I am back to checking it.
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  • I still do :( 
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  • imagedelino:
    Just wanted to pop in to give you a {{{hug}}}. I'm so happy for you!

    ((((hugs)))) Thank you, delino! I miss you girls already.

    Thanks ladies, I'm glad I'm not crazy! 

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  • I still check every time!
    Chemical Pregnancy 2001, Married 8/8/09, TTC April 2011, BFP 5/8/11, Missed M/C @ 9wk5d, D&C 6/21/11 BFP 11/13/11 Chase Everett born at 29wks 0 days on 5/7/12 at 2 lbs 14 oz, 14 1/2 inches long.
  • With DD and with this pg, I do a Christ glance still every time if there's enough light to. I don't do it at night (requiring me to turn a light on). 


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    BFP #2 via IUI ~ m/c
    BFP #3 via cancelled IUI ~ C (2lb 3oz; HELLP) 5/16/11
    BFP #4 via the natural (free!) way ~ E (8lb 11oz) 9/13/12
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  • I think it started decreasing with my NT scan, then much more after my A/S. I've been checking it lately looking for extra mucus though!

    It gets easier, the beginning is the hardest.

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  • I must say I still do that occasionally. Not all the time, but with all of the excess discharge I sometimes worry. I dunno if I will ever fully quit, but I don't do it EVERY time like I did at the beginning. 
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  • Dee! I can't believe I missed your BFP! Huge hugs and congrats!
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  • I never stopped. Sticky baby vibes for you.
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  • I check every time. Now though, it's more because there is so much CM that it feels very wet all of the time.

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  • I stopped around 9 weeks...but the urge to look is still there.  I force myself just to toss and not look!  I think what you're experiencing is very normal!

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    BFP #3 5/6/14, EDD 1/14/15

  • i still check from time to time, but not nearly as often as i did before the end of first tri.
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    4/26/11 HPT+ 4/28/11 +Blood test! HCG 67 5/24/11 Blighted Ovum.
    6/11-11/11 Non ovulatory cycles
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  • Now, I'm pretty early in this process myself, but I am pretty sure I will keep checking at least until after my loss milestone of 11w.  After that, who knows!
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  • *swooping down from TTCAL*  Just wanted to say I am so happy for you!!!  Also, for me, it never stopped.  When I was pregnant with DD, I would sometimes convince myself that I had to pee so that I could wipe.  'Cause you know, otherwise it just seemed bat sh!t crazy to wipe without peeing.  Yeah, that's it.
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  • I still check every time I use the restroom. I don't know if I will ever stop.
  • Never, but now I check it more for signs of a mucus plug.  I'm a lot less worried about spotting.

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  • I stopped after first tri with DD.  This time, I doubt I will ever stop.  I even turned on the light in the middle of the night last night to check. Embarrassed
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  • I'm one of the ones who never stopped.  It does get easier though.  I went from obsessively checking in the beginning of this pregnancy every time I felt some CM, to just checking when I actually needed to use the bathroom.  My checking obsession slowed down around the NT scan.  I don't think it hurts to check though esp. since bleeding in the second and third tri means a call to your practitioner. 
  • I still do it...but now Im checking for other things!
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  • I'm still checking, sorry. :)
  • Thank you so much, Ktnshn and Shanrob!! (((BIG HUGS)))
  • I still check every single time, but I'm no longer as worried about it.  I think the worry eased a little at the second tri mark, then at half baked, then at v day.
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  • I am still checking mine. It's has def. eased up some, but I'll check at least once to twice a day. And if I feel (TMI coming) a gush in my panties...I'll go to the bathroom right then and check still.
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  • I'm early in my pg, but I still check the TP every time. Reading this posts, I guess it won't stop for a while! 
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  • I still check it every.single.time AND I wear a pantyliner every.single.day just so I can see what is coming out, if anything.

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  • Never.

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    3rd  BFP 12/17/10 | EDD 08/24/11 | Natural M/C 12/31/10 | 7w 4d
    4th  BFP 06/22/11 | EDD 02/25/12 | M/C D&C on 07/27/11 | 9w4d
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    6th  BFP 08/11/12 | EDD 04/11/13 | CP
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  • I haven't stopped checking.  Embarrassed
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  • I have never stopped checking the TP.
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    BFP#4 02/23/11 M/C 3/1/11
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    I'm going to guess: when the baby comes out!  Wink  It's just a part of PgAL life, I think. *hugs*
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  • I'm just as neurotic, Dee....I can't help but do it every time I go to the bathroom.

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  • I'm another proud member of the "I obsessively check the TP" club. The only time I don't is at night when it's dark. I will say, though, that it's more of a habit and I'm not looking because I'm afraid or concerned, it's just what I do now.
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  • I still check mine every time I wipe.
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