Pregnant after a Loss

Update: ER visit and home now

Thanks for the T&P from earlier everyone. Sorry I couldn't update after the little vent. I am home now and resting. Apparently, I have bronchitis. 

I started getting sick last night (DH has been sick for a week) and during the night I was having shooting pains in my heart. They were gone this morning but I was still feeling like crap. I left work early and called the OB nurse to figure out what I should take that wouldn't conflict with the medication I am on for the the pregnancy. She said, call the primary doctor or go to the ER for the chest pains, which I don't have. So she gave me some number to the same day appointment and they said they wold probably just send me to the ER too.

On top of being sick, both my dogs were having dental cleanings today and they had to be put under for that. The last time Frenchie was put under she got dehydrated and almost died. Callie has a heart murmur so she called me before surgery and said she was a little concerned about her heartrate dropping during surgery. 

Next, a friend text me and was upset because she didn't think I was excited enough when she told me she was pregnant. Then we got in an argument and like the mature adult I am, I hung up on her because I didn't feel like having her yell at me when I did nothing wrong. I also felt like both our babies were more important than whatever we were doing to our blood pressure. 

Lastly, I have my a/s tomorrow and I am extremely nervous about that.  

So, off I went to the hospital with a blood pressure of 151/105 and crying. (SIL came with) 

We sat there for almost 5 hours and they did an CAT scan of my chest. They said if I was having a blood clot they needed to know. There would be some radiation to the baby but it shouldn't hurt the baby. I asked what if I didn't want it and they said, "Well, if you die the baby is going to too." Oh, ok thank you doctor for making me feel like I have no choice. He also basically said if I didn't want it there is nothing else they could do for me. My h/r was between 105 and 118 the entire time and they only checked the baby once on the doppler, even when I told them I was cramping. 

CAT scan conclusion is bronchitis.  

So here I am at home, where I checked the baby again since the nurse had such a hard time finding LO. I'm also listening to my husband try to clear his nose (sinus infection), watching my dogs walk around in a daze and still worrying about having the baby be healthy at the anatomy scan, especially after I subjected it to radiation. If you have any T&P left, I could really use them for our scan tomorrow. 

If you made it here, I owe you a non-alcoholic beverage in a fun glass.  

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Re: Update: ER visit and home now

  • Holy moley! What a stressful day!


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  • You poor thing...that is a lot going on all at once.  Stay hydrated and get some rest...I hope you are feeling better soon, and I will send loads of good vibes your way for your A/S tomorrow.  Big Hugs!
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  • Aw, big {{hugs}}.  That was quite an eventful day.  Many t&p's for a healthy quezzo baby tomorrow!

    Prop your feet up, stay hydrated, and run a humidifier if you have one. (I've had bronchitis twice now this pregnancy and it's probably helped more than anything else.)  Hope you feel better soon! 

  • Ugh, I am so sorry you had such a stressful day. Sending you lots of good vibes for a great a/s tomorrow and a much calmer day!
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  • So glad you are home. I really hope that you are feeling so much better soon. All the best and T&Ps for tomorrow. ((hugs)) 
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  • My goodness, big hugs for such a stressful day.  FX that the anatomy scan goes perfectly tomorrow!
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  • What an awful day! I hope you start feeling better soon, and FX that you have a great a/s.

    As for the radiation, in my opinion [NB: I'm a molecular biology PhD but not an MD]  it's not going to affect your a/s scan. Radiation causes DNA damage, which is a bigger deal in the first trimester (when all the body systems are forming and development is sensitive to even one-messed up cell). It's still not ideal to have radiation exposure later in pg, but the risks are super small and it almost certainly wouldn't cause birth defects at this stage.

    So relax and lower that blood pressure :)

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  • That was one very long bananas kinda day!  So glad you're finally home and can try to relax, that your diagnosis isn't too bad and that your dogs are both doing well!  Now just get DH to sleep on the couch so you can have some peace and quiet and tomorrow will be here for your scan before you know it.  :)
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  • Thank you all. I'm praying tomorrow goes well. 
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  • Wow, what a stressful day.  ((BIG HUGS))  Sending lots of T&Ps for tomorrow.
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  • Eek! Feel better soon. Best of luck tomorrow!
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  • Wow what a day!! I am sending you t&ps for a great a/s tomorrow!
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  • Wow...what a day.  I hope you don't have another one like it.  Praying for a great A/S tomorrow!

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  • Wow what a day! Im glad your home and you and LO are on :) sending T&P for a great a/s tomorrow. I will be thinking about ya :) 

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  • wow, I am sorry you had to deal with one of those things, let along all of them in one day.  I hope tomorrow is 1000 times better, and I am sure your anatomy scan will go smoothly.  Can't wait to hear all about it tomorrow.  GL.
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  • Oh wow, what a day! Sending some T&P's your way for sure! ((hugs))
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  • Good to hear that it's *only* bronchitis even though that's no fun. Thoughts and prayers for a great a/s tomorrow! Ps I'm pretty crampy too...
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  • I'm sorry you had such a stressful day!  Hope you feel better soon.  Sending many T&P for a great a/s tomorrow.  You could probably use some hugs too...here are mine ((hugs)), but I hope you get some from DH too!  Take care!
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  • Wow!  What a day!  ((hugs)) GL on your AS tomorrow!!!
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  • Ugh, sounds like one of those days. I'm sorry you had all of that to deal with at once. I hope you're feeling better very soon and have a great a/s tomorrow.
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  • Wow, talk about stressful. GL at your appt. today. I'll be thinking of you and waiting for an update.
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