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Just to let you know

MommaMel94MommaMel94 member
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hello. Im not sure if youll remember or not- but several days ago I mistook the purpose of this board and posted about a 'cultural difference my butt' in which I stated some frustrations I felt toward my baby's father.

Anyways, the thread got some very nice responses. But it also had some very negative ones as well. Due to that factor Ive since deleted the thread and appologize to the mommies of this page for posting it. If I had known the result I wouldnt have. Live and learn.

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Re: Just to let you know

  • Jessys_GirlJessys_Girl

    Aaand you deleted the one on the other board where you skampered off to call all the blended family moms "mean".  You actually got support in that thread, why'd you delete it?

    I was late to the game, but read the threads last night.  Here's my take, and I'll try to be "nice".

    1) You are 17.  With an eternity ahead of you.

    2) You should not feel trapped in a relationship with someone who you feel you need to change.  if that person is not able to be the significant other and the father that you need, then it's time to move on.

    3) Grammar and reading comprehension are your friends.

    4) I am going to call MUD because you only have 60 posts and I'm pretty sure you got them all in those two threads.

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  • FutureMrsWittigFutureMrsWittig member

    I hope you get things figured out.  I hope you don't waste your time on someone who treats you badly.  Just remember, our kids often end up living the lives we model for them.  If you wouldn't want to see your son/daughter (I'm sorry I don't remember which you have) in the same kind of relationship you're in, it's probably a good indicator that you should get out.  Not to say that people can't change, but when they do it's because they want to, and it doesn't sound like your man thinks there's anything wrong with the way he does things.

    Maybe someday we'll see you back here, when you find a relationship that's worth your while?  Hoping all the best for you.  You're so young!  I hope you have an amazing life with your LO.

    Mama of 2: one who grew in my womb, both who grow in my heart.
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  • honeybee #1honeybee #1
    I would just like to say that you came here for advice. You got lots of it. Please, please take it.
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  • MommaMel94MommaMel94 member
    imageJessys_Girl:

    Aaand you deleted the one on the other board where you skampered off to call all the blended family moms "mean".  You actually got support in that thread, why'd you delete it?

    I was late to the game, but read the threads last night.  Here's my take, and I'll try to be "nice".

    1) You are 17.  With an eternity ahead of you.

    2) You should not feel trapped in a relationship with someone who you feel you need to change.  if that person is not able to be the significant other and the father that you need, then it's time to move on.

    3) Grammar and reading comprehension are your friends.

    4) I am going to call MUD because you only have 60 posts and I'm pretty sure you got them all in those two threads.

    I didnt call the Blended moms mean. I simply asked if I took what one mother said too personally. The reason I deleted that thread was because of a girl on it. She is a 15 year old mother(or soon to be) and there were some rather inappropriate comments made towards her. I fully expected negative comments, as seeing that I asked for opinions. But I dont think it was right for several of the Bumpies to bully this girl. Which is exactly what happened. It was unnecassary drama due to my posting, so I simply decided to delete the thread. Therefore ending the never-ending argument.  

    Also, Im not sure what mud means?

    also i wanted to add that your little girl has the cutest freakin smile. (and no I'm no trying to be a kiss up. I find her very cute.)

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  • BabyCampbell312BabyCampbell312 member
    Here this one goes again with the posts.... MUD = Made Up Drama Now, while I'm sure you are 17 and your struggles are real.... The posting and then deleting and whatever, is childish.
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  • MommaMel94MommaMel94 member
    Fair enough. Thankyou for explaining what mud meant though.  And as I had said, the reason I chose to delete the thread was because of the drama it created. I didnt intend for that at all. So now I've learnt my lesson and know for future referance what kind of things not to post.
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  • honeybee #1honeybee #1
    imagerjbell08:

    imageMommaMel94:
    Fair enough. Thankyou for explaining what mud meant though.  And as I had said, the reason I chose to delete the thread was because of the drama it created. I didnt intend for that at all. So now I've learnt my lesson and know for future referance what kind of things not to post.

     

    *learned

    *reference


    Learnt is correct as well. If you're going to nit pick and be b!tchy, please do it correctly.
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