June 2011 Moms

Ugh, I feel so terrible!

This day has just been sucky.  N had to have a blood draw for hematocrit, hemoglobin and a lead screen.  I took him to our normal lab and they could do it but it would be an arm draw (that's what I was expecting) but said if we went somewhere else, they could do it with a finger prick.  Great!  I like that idea much better.  So I took him to the other lab and he did great, barely made a sound.  But his finger was bleeding quite a bit so they put a bandaid on it and told me to wait 15 or so minutes until it stopped bleeding and I could take the bandaid off so he didn't eat it in his car seat.

So we went to the cafe and I got us some lunch.  As I was buckling N into his high chair he started wailing.  I figured he just didn't want to be there so I told him it's ok and sat down and tried to offer him some food.  He wouldn't stop crying, so after a minute I got him out.  When I unbuckled him, I saw that I had pinched his belly in the strap!!  Crying  I felt horrible!  Poor little thing had to wait there in pain for me to clue in!

Then we got home and he was playing in the living room.  He pulled some paperwork out of the diaper bag and before I could get it off of him he ate the corner of it.  The corner with the STAPLE in it!!!  OMG, I let my baby eat a staple!!  I'm terrified it's going to cut his poor little insides :(  The pedi said just watch him and if he seems off or is vomiting or anything, take him to the ER.  I just cannot believe I let that happen.  I'm so on edge waiting for a poo diaper so I can see that it came out and didn't cause any damage.  This sucks.

I debated even posting about the staple.  I feel like someone should call CPS on me :(

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  • Awww don't blame yourself...they are soooo fast it's not even funny!  I hope you get a poop with a staple in it soon!  I know I would be totally on edge too, who wouldn't?  But, people swallow lots of weird stuff and are fine.

    (((hugs)))

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  • Oh, don't beat yourself up!! It does sound like a terrible day, but you're feeling worse than he is for sure! These babies are pretty hardy :) This from the mom whose baby rolled off the changing table on Sunday O_O I hate to say it, but this is probably not the worst that will happen to our helpless kids. Pour yourself a glass of wine and tell yourself tomorrow will be better!!

    I'm sure N will be fine!!

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  • I'm so sorry! I hope it passes through without any issues. I would think the fact that it was a used staple would mean it's less likely to scratch him on the way out. Hopefully there is still some paper attached to it which should protect him a little bit too.

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  • Oh gosh!  I'm sorry!!  For what it's worth, my friend's 18 month old son was eating fruit at our house when the pointed end of the plastic toothpick he was using broke off and he swallowed it.  She was very worried too, and it ended up totally fine.  I hope you can put your mind at ease soon.  :(
  • aww no worries mama! I'm surprised my daughter hasn't already swallowed something like that, they can get that stuff in their mouths so fast!! I'm sure it will just move right through him and he'll never know the difference.

    If it makes you feel better, we swaddled Alexis so tight that it pinched her arm and left a mark once she as a few months old. She was up all night crying and we never thought to unswaddle her, just kept feeding/rocking/even gave her tylenol bc we couldnt figure out what was wrong with her! :( She seems to have forgiven us :)  

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  • Don't feel bad! Any of those things could happen so easily to anyone. Especially eating the staple - they are just so quick with getting things they shouldn't in their mouths. If it makes you feel any better, just tonight Ev ate a chunk of a crayon while we were out at dinner (I know it's not the same as a staple, but same as you I just wasn't able to react in time - he was just too quick!). I'm sure the staple will come through just fine - fx crossed it passes quickly though so you can feel better and not worry!
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  • I'm not judging! That could happen to any of us! Babies are quick, even when you think you are watching them, they are faster than you. The staple was probably "closed" on the ends, so it should pass through with no problem. I hope you get a staple surprise in his dipe tomorrow!


     

      
  • OMG! Don't worry, the day is almost over. Fresh start tomorrow!  Poor monkey and poor mama!

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    Oh gosh!  I'm sorry!!  For what it's worth, my friend's 18 month old son was eating fruit at our house when the pointed end of the plastic toothpick he was using broke off and he swallowed it.  She was very worried too, and it ended up totally fine.  I hope you can put your mind at ease soon.  :(

    Thanks - that does help - glad he was ok!  I know there's like a 99% chance it'll be fine but I just keep envisioning that other 1%.

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  • Poor Mama and Poor Baby! (((HUGS)))
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  • Don't beat yourself up - this stuff happens to the best of us.  I'm sure the staple will pass painlessly.

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  • don't beat yourself up gym! you're a great mum and these things happen... it just sucks that they all happened at once for you :( I'm sure he'll be fine.
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  • Thanks for making me feel better guys :)
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  • I'll be praying for a poopy diaper for you, too! He will be okay momma. My MIL pinched Avery with her car seat and it had a sore for a few days. She didn't even act like it hurt her after the fact.
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  • Oh Gym. I am sorry about yours and N's day :(

    It seems like the staple was closed and not open right? I bet it passes just fine.

    No one is calling CPS on you! Things happen. Hugs.

  • oh and if it makes you feel any better....

    I let DD sit on my bedroom floor all the time. I lifted her up the other day and layed her on my chest. She threw up a little....there was a hairball in it...yes, she had eaten Pomeranian fluff from the carpet and I didn't even know it..

  • I'm sure it will be okay! I hope you get a poopy diaper soon! Yesterday, DD threw up a leaf. A leaf. And we didn't go outside! I have no idea where she found it and when she ate it. They are fast little boogers.
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  • Poor things. Don't beat yourself up. I'm sure all of our LOs will swallow something at least once.
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    I'm sure it will be okay! I hope you get a poopy diaper soon! Yesterday, DD threw up a leaf. A leaf. And we didn't go outside! I have no idea where she found it and when she ate it. They are fast little boogers.

    This happened to Carter, too. I'm assuming it was from one of our house plants. I'm also fairly certain C has had dog food ( probably more than once).  He also fell into the unbabyproofed corner of the coffee table trying to walk last week.  I figure as moms of boys, I better get used to pedi calls and ER visits.  

    No worries, mama. I think we will hold off on the CPS call. ;)

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    Oh Gym. I am sorry about yours and N's day :(

    It seems like the staple was closed and not open right? I bet it passes just fine.

    No one is calling CPS on you! Things happen. Hugs.

    Yeah, it would have been closed.  I actually stapled a piece of paper together and pulled it out with my teeth to see if it might have opened when he did that and I don't think it would have.

    Thanks again ladies!  Glad to know mine is not the only one swallowing random stuff!!  Not that I want them to swallow random stuff, but....well, you know what I mean :)

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  • Things happen. Babies are quick! If it makes you feel better, we were painting a room in our house and my daughter was tooling around in her walker. I went to the bathroom (my dad and brother were out there painting) and I came back to shouts. Apparently, my dad had turned his back on her for a minute and she scooted over, got the lid from the paint off the window ledge where my brother had just set it, and took a bite out of the paint.

    We were all freaking out, but Poison Control said it was NBD because it was indoor latex paint. 

    But it was a very terrifying couple minutes!

    She's come close to eating dust balls (more than once), and she has pooped out grass, so I guess she ate that at some point. (I'm thinking she picked it up from our carpet. It was a tiny bit.)

    And probably a handful of other things I can't remember. The kid is crazy quick.

    Point is, try not to beat yourself up. 

     

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  • I'm sure he'll be fine. These things happen! Babies/kids are sooo resilient. ((hugs)) mama
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    oh and if it makes you feel any better....

    I let DD sit on my bedroom floor all the time. I lifted her up the other day and layed her on my chest. She threw up a little....there was a hairball in it...yes, she had eaten Pomeranian fluff from the carpet and I didn't even know it..

    Aw, baby's first hairball!

    I can't figure out why the only finger food my LO will eat is puffs - he just rejects all sorts of other things - but he tries to eat leaves off the floor, and the other day he chewed up a whole Post-it. He didn't swallow it, I found it balled up in his mouth like 10 minutes after I'd last seen it in his hand. Tongue Tied

    Hope the staple comes out soon and safely!

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    Yeah, it would have been closed.  I actually stapled a piece of paper together and pulled it out with my teeth to see if it might have opened when he did that and I don't think it would have.

    Thanks again ladies!  Glad to know mine is not the only one swallowing random stuff!!  Not that I want them to swallow random stuff, but....well, you know what I mean :)

    1-- he's going to be fine!! You are an awesome mama

    2-- your staple experiment made me giggle-- I would have done the same thing :)

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