2 nights ago. But before that it was like 2 weeks. We go through phases where we do really good and have it like twice a week and then not for a week or 2. I'm hoping to "get some" Friday AND Saturday
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Valentines Day. We've probably had sex less than 10 times since Kyle was born. It's killing me! But he's always way too tired by the time he gets off work, showers, eats, put Kyle to bed... He just wants to zonk out
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2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14
I can't wait for the "im getting a divorce" post in 5 years or so because your husbands were fed up with your disgusting chair asses from playing on the knot all day and getting fired 4-5 times for not doing any work. you guys are all winners!! ~ Laur929
Same here! I just have no desire, I'm scared it might hurt.
We don't have sex often (25 times a year maybe), but I'm pretty sure that if we went over a year, my husband would want to have a serious conversation with me.
Are you denying them, or are you on mutual ground?
Same here! I just have no desire, I'm scared it might hurt.
We don't have sex often (25 times a year maybe), but I'm pretty sure that if we went over a year, my husband would want to have a serious conversation with me.
Are you denying them, or are you on mutual ground?
Well, it was mutual during pregnancy. But now, he definitely is not thrilled. But I just have less than no desire, and he is very adamant about not wanting to do it if I don't actually want to, so that's where we stand for now.
Same here! I just have no desire, I'm scared it might hurt.
I am so glad I am not alone! I have no desire either. At all. I feel bad, but I can't like, make myself want to, you know?
How are you not the crankiest chicks in the world? I go a week & I start getting mean.
I think you should try & fake it. Ive watched/read enough about this stuff that if you can at least fake it to start then when you're doing it you'll start enjoying it. & if not with it having been that long it wont last a horribly long length of time anyway. Just make sure theres lots & lots of foreplay for you.
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Same here! I just have no desire, I'm scared it might hurt.
I am so glad I am not alone! I have no desire either. At all. I feel bad, but I can't like, make myself want to, you know?
How are you not the crankiest chicks in the world? I go a week & I start getting mean.
I think you should try & fake it.Ive watched/read enough about this stuff that if you can at least fake it to start then when you're doing it you'll start enjoying it. & if not with it having been that long it wont last a horribly long length of time anyway. Just make sure theres lots & lots of foreplay for you.
ITA - just do it and you may be surprised how much you enjoy it!
Re: sex
Time change is killing us this week by the time he gets home Im barely awake.
Thats the problem, Mike works 2nd shift so by the time he comes home I'm in bed and the kids hate sleep so they dont nap.
This...and it started out as asking DH to rub my lower back because it ached from work....Ya know...All I wanted was a backrub...LOL
Suuuuure
Maybe I'll the back rub ploy tonight.
2 years, 2 surgeries, 2 clomid fails, 2 IUIs, 1 loss, IVF #1 - 10/25/10 = BFP!, DS is now 3.5yrs!
TTC #2 - 6/12 surgery #3, FET #1 & 1.2 = BFN, 12/2012 FET #2 = BFP! DD is 1.5 yrs!
Surprise! 12/16/14 BFP, loss #2 12/31/14
I can't wait for the "im getting a divorce" post in 5 years or so because your husbands were fed up with your disgusting chair asses from playing on the knot all day and getting fired 4-5 times for not doing any work. you guys are all winners!! ~ Laur929
Same here!
I just have no desire, I'm scared it might hurt. 
Damn guys... getting jiggy with it on the holy day?! lol
Been too long for me since FI is gone now. Just me and mr. shower head, oh so romantic.
We don't have sex often (25 times a year maybe), but I'm pretty sure that if we went over a year, my husband would want to have a serious conversation with me.
Are you denying them, or are you on mutual ground?
Well, it was mutual during pregnancy. But now, he definitely is not thrilled. But I just have less than no desire, and he is very adamant about not wanting to do it if I don't actually want to, so that's where we stand for now.
I am so glad I am not alone! I have no desire either. At all. I feel bad, but I can't like, make myself want to, you know?
Haha. Basically this. Although mine is close to 1:3 since DH has learned not to ask 5 times a day anymore.
Last time was also Saturday night/Sunday morning.
Same here, us single moms gotta do what we gotta do .
Saturday... For the first time PP! It was... meh... but Im glad I can say we did it LOL.
How are you not the crankiest chicks in the world? I go a week & I start getting mean.
I think you should try & fake it. Ive watched/read enough about this stuff that if you can at least fake it to start then when you're doing it you'll start enjoying it. & if not with it having been that long it wont last a horribly long length of time anyway. Just make sure theres lots & lots of foreplay for you.
ITA - just do it and you may be surprised how much you enjoy it!