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My MIL is moving in with us temporarily. Eek!

rsrn02rsrn02
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I think I posted about my IL's losing their house.  Well my fil and bil moved in with g-ma but my mil refuses to do so.  She was staying with her BFF but apparently they had a tiff so she needed a place to stay.  She refuses to move in with g-na apparently because it's unsanitary.  G-ma is a pack rat and there are flies every where and mouse traps and you can hear them scurrying across the floor at night per my mil.  Not to mention they hate each other but whateva 

 

My FIL shows up yesterday and point blank asks us if she can stay with us. No hi how are how are things.  Just mom needs a place to stay can she sleep on your couch.  All before I unlock the screen door and let him in the house.

 Me being naive and nice of course I say yes she can stay but for how long.  Oh, they have places they are looking at probably not more then two days. 

Well,  MIL arrives in the late afternoon.  They didn't even start looking for places until they were forced out of their house last week.   Theyve known for months that they were losing the house but my FIL got a lawyer and believed he would save them so he refused to start packing and refused to start looking for a place.  

So the kicker is because they lost their house their credit is in the shitter    

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Re: My MIL is moving in with us temporarily. Eek!

  • rsrn02rsrn02

    Sorry that was so long.  I'm just a bit freaked out. Wondering how long it really is going to be.  

    My MIL and I tolerate each other.  So I'm wondering how this is gonna go.   

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  • LauraLynneCLauraLynneC member

    I have a VERY stressful relationship with my MIL.  I'd have to be in a coma for her to stay with us.

    Hopefully they get their collective $$it together and find a place.  Meanwhile I'll send harmonious vibes for making it work!!

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  • EastCoastBrideEastCoastBride member
    imagersrn02:

    Wondering how long it really is going to be.  

    You and your DH need to take control of this now.  Stop sitting and wondering how long.  You both need to sit her down and say "You have until ___".  If you don't do this, I suspect she'll be on your couch a LOT longer than you anticipated.

     

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  • rsrn02rsrn02
    I told my husband she has a week then needs to move on 
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  • CheezeFaceCheezeFace member

    I.WOULD.DIE.

    Weekend visits are too long for me with MIL.

    Good luck to you, good luck.

    Please keep us posted.

     

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  • rsrn02rsrn02
    Thankfully they've found a place and MIL will be gone by Saturday. 
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  • LauraLynneCLauraLynneC member

    imagersrn02:
    Thankfully they've found a place and MIL will be gone by Saturday. 

     

    This is awesome news!

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  • BrideBuddiesBrideBuddies member

    You're a much better person than me.

    Hey MIL, there's a perfectly nice hotel right down the street.

     

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  • Mrs_MMrs_M
    oh goods news indeed!
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  • pnemay30pnemay30 member
    Good luck a nd have patience!! My MIL moved with us for what was supposed to be 6 months, didn't have to pay us anything, just save and she ended up staying for 1 yr. I finally put my foot my foot down and she had to go. I am The horrible DIL that put her out. It is a very strained relationship between us now. 
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