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My heart hurts

zapgurl44zapgurl44 member
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I had some bad cramps this am and the bleeding starting.  Went to the ER and no heartbeat and my hcg levels do not correspond with gestational age. I am now home, lost. What do I do, I just feel heartbroken. The doc said I could only take tyelenol, I am having excruciating cramps, is some motrin really something I shouldn't take. Ugh...
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BFP #1 9/6/2009 EDD 5/29/10. Missy Moo born 5/12/10 after 3 months of bedrest due to PTL, IC and a bicornuate ute causing IUGR
BFP # 2 1/28/12 EDD 10/6/12 No heartbeat seen @ 10 weeks, Autumn
BFP #3 8/18/12 EDD 5/2/13 No heartbeat seen at 7w3d, Mae
BFP #4 01/31/2013 EDD 10/15/2013 No HB seen in our little girl at 10w2d due to trisomy 12, Abigail
BFP #5 6/27/2013 EDD 3/10/2014 diagnosed with protein S deficiency heparin twice a day. Luke's HB stopped at 8wks
BFP#6 12/22/2013 EDD 9/4/2014 No HB seen at 7w2d, Leia

BFP #7- 5/12/14 EDD 01/2015, ruptured ectopic 5/31/14

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  • bcpjtbbcpjtb
    My heart hurts too!!! I lost my baby today as well and am bleeding but the cramps aren't that bad yet....I wish we didn't have to go through this!!!!! My doctor told me to alternate Tylenol and Motrin....I hate this for us!!! I'm not going to say sorry because I'm sure you will hear that enough but know I'm right there with you!!!!
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  • zapgurl44zapgurl44 member
    Thanks love, I am having some good and bad moments. Don't know how to break the news to everyone. Everytime I think about it I start to bawl. I think I am going to trysome motrin too, make it a little easier.  Hope your doing as well as possible, hang in there.
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    BFP #1 9/6/2009 EDD 5/29/10. Missy Moo born 5/12/10 after 3 months of bedrest due to PTL, IC and a bicornuate ute causing IUGR
    BFP # 2 1/28/12 EDD 10/6/12 No heartbeat seen @ 10 weeks, Autumn
    BFP #3 8/18/12 EDD 5/2/13 No heartbeat seen at 7w3d, Mae
    BFP #4 01/31/2013 EDD 10/15/2013 No HB seen in our little girl at 10w2d due to trisomy 12, Abigail
    BFP #5 6/27/2013 EDD 3/10/2014 diagnosed with protein S deficiency heparin twice a day. Luke's HB stopped at 8wks
    BFP#6 12/22/2013 EDD 9/4/2014 No HB seen at 7w2d, Leia

    BFP #7- 5/12/14 EDD 01/2015, ruptured ectopic 5/31/14

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  • Laurakat81Laurakat81 member
    I've never heard of only being allowed to take Tylenol. They tell you that during a healthy pregnancy but during a loss it doesn't matter what you take. My doctor told me to alternate the Percoset the prescribed and Advil.

    I'm so sorry you're going through this. (((hugs)))


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  • pinktrojanbride120107pinktrojanbride120107 member

    I'm so sorry to you both for your losses.  I know how devastating it is.

    I think you should be able to take anything for the pain, and I know others have gotten heftier pain killers prescribed by their doctors.  Hopefully you won't be in too much physical pain, but if you do, don't hesitate to ask your doctor.

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  • jonesdouglasjonesdouglas

    ((hugs))

    Im so sorry.

    I lost my baby back in January at 9 weeks and my heart still hurts. Some days it's a little better and others are horrible.

    T&P's going to you and your family. 

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  • AtleighdanAtleighdan member

    Many prayers to you as you go through this.  It is a rollercoaster of emotions and feelings. (((hugs))) I have had a couple of better days, then today has been much more difficult.

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  • MrsLeleMrsLele member

    I'm so sorry for your loss.  It's truly heart wrenching. :(

    (((hugs)))


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  • kpowers982kpowers982 member
    I'm sorry for your loss and that you are hurting so badly.  That's how I felt after my loss; I just couldn't wrap my head around the fact that something that was only a part of me for 9 weeks could hurt so profoundly.  Hoping you can begin to heal physically and emotionally soon.
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