Libido?

phq2011 · March 2012

So this may be a bit TMI but I am not sure who else to ask. I am 15 weeks and still see little to no sex drive. Before the pregnancy I had a very high sex drive. Not only that but I am already unable to do certain positions because of discomfort and pain. Has anyone else experienced this and can give me an idea of what is going on?

carson&cj · March 2012

I have no sex drive as well... sometimes it makes me sick...

ItsSupaFly2U · March 2012

Eh...not me...I've been a freakin horn dog the whole time I been preggo...unfortunatly my Man doesnt feel the same... Hmm

I wish I DIDN'T have the sex drive to go along with not gettin any. *sigh*

But from what I hear, your normal, it's diff for everyone.

kincaid44 · March 2012

My sex drive has been non-existent this entire pregnancy. It's pretty common unfortunately. Your body is going through all kinds of changes, so I wouldn't let it bother you too much!

trojas · March 2012

Libido? What is that?

punkrockabye · March 2012

I have zero sex drive but honestly that is how I always am. I am pretty much asexual; not that I am opposed to sex (if I say yes, I mean "yes, I'm willing to have sex right now"), but I generally have no actual desire for it. Pregnancy certainly hasn't changed that.

carson&cj · March 2012

punkrockabye:
I have zero sex drive but honestly that is how I always am. I am pretty much asexual; not that I am opposed to sex (if I say yes, I mean "yes, I'm willing to have sex right now"), but I generally have no actual desire for it. Pregnancy certainly hasn't changed that.

lol, but you got pg some how .

kjem182 · March 2012

Mine was missing until about 18 weeks. I don't go looking for sex, but when I take the time to snuggle on a weekend morning, I am well rewarded-the ending is MUCH more intense now! The positions do have to be a bit different-usually dh won't come in to the picture until right at the end, but he helps out if he can.

punkrockabye · March 2012

carson&cj:
punkrockabye:
I have zero sex drive but honestly that is how I always am. I am pretty much asexual; not that I am opposed to sex (if I say yes, I mean "yes, I'm willing to have sex right now"), but I generally have no actual desire for it. Pregnancy certainly hasn't changed that.
lol, but you got pg some how .

Because we were trying for a while (not too long, but more than one shot). As I said, I am not against sex. I just get no real emotional response out of it. Essentially, I feel nothing, and I don't really think I need to fix it. DH and I can do plenty of other things that we both do enjoy. When we want to make babies, it's not a problem.

carson&cj · March 2012

sorry, i didnt mean for you to take it like that. Just thot it was funny. no hard feelings

punkrockabye · March 2012

carson&cj:
sorry, i didnt mean for you to take it like that. Just thot it was funny. no hard feelings

No, it's okay! I just know that pregnancy tends to seriously change some women, either making them want TONS of sex when they didn't before, or making them hate it completely. I'm one who it has done nothing for!

kknapik · March 2012

Libido, what's that?!?! Lately, I have the sex drive of a stick. I feel bad for my DH but when he has the opportunity to feel what a bloated hippo feels like, then he can complain!!

kknapik · March 2012

PS. I just noticed we had the same EDD Big Smile

SBmomma · March 2012

None so far. There have only been a few random encounters. People keep telling me how great the sex is in 2nd tri....hmmmmm.....I guess not for everyone.

Airmans Wife · March 2012

My sex drive has definitely gone way down. We are down to about 1x a week, which at least my DH is still getting some lol. Positions have definitely had to change some, our old fav's now actually are quite uncomfortable. Also lube has now become my BFF which I never needed in the past. However, even through all that, the endings are SO MUCH BETTER than before being pregnant!

JKS21 · March 2012

carson&cj:
I have no sex drive as well... sometimes it makes me sick...

Me too

mrsj0423 · March 2012

You are certainly not alone. I have zero sex drive. I give in once a week though because I do enjoy keeping MH satisfied and hey, it's a little added exercise to the usual routine. Lol

lewispm · March 2012

I had no sex drive until about 18 weeks, and then it slowly started to come back. The problem? Now that my DH has felt the baby move, he is slightly weirded out by sex so now HIS sex drive is low! Haha

ballstar · March 2012

ItsSupaFly2U:
Eh...not me...I've been a freakin horn dog the whole time I been preggo...unfortunatly my Man doesnt feel the same...

I wish I DIDN'T have the sex drive to go along with not gettin any. *sigh*

But from what I hear, your normal, it's diff for everyone.

Ditto, unfortunately. DH said he can't get past the fact that I'm the mother of this baby growing in my belly that he adores. It's a sweet and wonderful thought on its own, but it also just makes me think of the long, sexless months I've got ahead of me . . .

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