F/U to visitation question below

cmanmom · March 2012

I was asking below about replying to xh continuous question of when he is going to see DS again after the judge ordered his visitation to occur via a counselor.

I took your advice and replied to the effect of - when you coordinate the counselor let me know a couple openings and I will choose which one works best for our schedule and DS will be there.

His reply 3 days later: "I'm free anytime to meet"

....um, okay. Kudos to you for that, that is typically how a schedule goes when you don't work. I KNEW he thinks I am going to do the work to set this all up! You would think that when "everything I do is for DS" and "I will protect my rights as a father" (his words in his ranting e-mails) that you would be all over scheduling a time to get the show on the road to see DS right. Blech.

kmartinez80 · March 2012

I think your reply was great and you should definitely keep that for your records. Ultimately, I think you've done all you need to do, if your XH wants to see your DS then he needs to take the steps to make it happen as you stated in your response.

cmanmom · March 2012

Thank you for the support. I agree...no judge would expect ME to be the one to do all the work. I think I've given him more than enough information, we heard the same ruling so even by me researching the counselor the judge assigned and giving him that information was above and beyond in my opinion. Plus also, he could be having regular visitation and we wouldn't be in this place to begin with if it weren't for his actions (or lack of I should say).

jtrayers · March 2012

agreed. you're not his mom...he's old enough to take care of his responsibilies on his own.

tsmomma42 · March 2012

Good for you! It's not your responsibility.

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