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I've kind of avoided the bump like the plague after miscarrying in november... and I feel horrible about that. There were a couple of weeks post m/c that thebump was literally the only thing that made me feel okay to cope. I sincerely hope I encounter some of those amazing and supportive ladies here in this forum :).

 I found out I was pregnant again a week ago :). My emotions have been so different than my last pregnancy (the m/c). I've been hesitant to make appointments, or tell anyone, or really get settled into this whole idea that I'm pregnant again. I am excited though... just excited with reservations, I guess. From what I've heard, getting over the m/c hump is a big sigh of relief, but I'm honestly wondering if that worry in the back of your head ever goes away?

Anyways, hello to all of you :). I'm looking forward to electronically bonding with you, haha. Have a great evening!

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  • RedRose84RedRose84
    Congrats and welcome!  I'm still struggling with putting that worry in the back of my mind, but I love having this board and all these amazing women!  Wishing you a very happy and healthy nine months.
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  • catdwg83catdwg83 member

    Congrats & welcome! I know how you feel about the hesitation. I  found myself not getting excited to spare myself the pain again if anything happened. I'm still pretty early & looking forward to getting out of first tri, but that worry is still there for me. Hopefully when I can feel the baby move I'll feel better.

    Anyway, congrats again! 

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  • LSzwayaLSzwaya member
    Congratulations! Welcome to the board. I don't think that worry in your head ever goes away. But you just have to take it one day at a time. 
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    Rainbow Jude 
    born: 12/31/09
    Pre-E Induction at 36w4d
    11 Day NICU stay due to GBS infection

    TTC#2 10/2010
    M/C: 4/09/11 5w
    CP: 12/26/2011 
    CP: 1/28/2012 
    MMC: 4/16/2012 at 11w2d 
    Ectopic: 6/25/2012 MTX 07/03/12
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    born: 9/11/13

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  • izziebeeizziebee member
    Congratulations and welcome! I too am super nervous and find myself not wanting to even think about it let alone talk about it. I don't even want to call my Dr. to schedule an appt yet knowing that he won't see a reason to see me any earlier than normal. So for me, I'm just trying to stay positive and focus on other things and I keep telling myself, today I am pregnant and I love my baby! GL and here's to a H&H 9months!
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  • KJsbabeKJsbabe member
    Welcome and congrats! Everything you're feeling is very normal for being PgAL. I don't think the fear of another loss will ever go away, but it does get easier with time. I hope this is your sticky baby!
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    BFP #3 10/27/11 Please stick, LO!! 2/6/12 It's a Girl! Alexis Grace born 6/29/12
    BFP#4 4/27/14 Stick, stick, stick!! 8/11/14 It's a Boy! Evan Wesley born 1/8/15
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  • katharine25katharine25 member
    Congratulation! I remember you from the MC board - I hope you found peace after your loss -These women will take great care of you. The happiest & healthiest nine months to you (and I hope to join you on this board soon!)
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    BFP#2 3/13/12 Weird CP/Possible EP @ 6w0d
    BFP#3 5/28/12 CP @ 5w0d
    BFP/WTF#4 10/26/12 CP
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  • chusumchusum member
    Congratulations & welcome!

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    2nd BFP 06/26/10 | EDD 02/25/11 | Natural  M/C 07/17/10 | 8w 1d
    3rd  BFP 12/17/10 | EDD 08/24/11 | Natural M/C 12/31/10 | 7w 4d
    4th  BFP 06/22/11 | EDD 02/25/12 | M/C D&C on 07/27/11 | 9w4d
    5th  BFP 09/17/11 | DD Paige Lily born 05/16/12
    6th  BFP 08/11/12 | EDD 04/11/13 | CP
    7th  BFP 09/29/13 | EDD 06/04/14 | Natural M/C 10/27/13 | 8w1d
    8th  BFP 12/16/13 | EDD 09/01/14

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  • DianaChristineBDianaChristineB
    Congrats & welcome :)
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  • KJohnson826KJohnson826 member
    Congrats and Welcome! The women here are amazing, we all have our freak-out moments and it is nice to come here and talk with people who understand what it is like to be PgAL. H&H 9 months to you!
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  • HBayliesHBaylies member
    The worry may or may not ever go away. Regardless, congrats and welcome to the board!
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  • peaceisthewaypeaceistheway member

    Thank you for all the support! I know these feelings are normal... I think after what we've all been through, we ALL know it's normal. But it's still nice to have a place for freak out moments :).

     And Hello Katharine! Nice to see you again :). I'm so wishing for you to join us too! Looking forward to encountering everyone from the MC board on here :). This forum has a far different vibe already... and I am so liking it :).

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