Community› The Bump Message Boards› Pregnant after a Loss
Pregnant after a Loss
New Discussion

Update to Intro :-(

MAtoNCMAtoNC member
in Pregnant after a Loss

Thank you to everyone who welcomed me last night after my BFP. It is great to feel so embraced by this community.

Although I got a BFP last night on a CBE digi, this morning I got a BFN on both a CBE digi and a FRER with FMU. Looks like this was a c/p, and I'll get AF as scheduled; OR false positive on the digi (which I'd heard sometimes happens) OR it is really early, and concentration in the urine is variable depending on my hydration status. Who knows.

Part of me is actually hoping that I'm not pregnant this time if I'm not getting consistent BFPs. Last time I was pregnant, I got a BFP 14dpo and then a BFN 16dpo (followed by positives). The betas were low and slow, horrible doubling time, and I held onto hope until I miscarried at 7w5d. If that happens again, I am afraid that DH will want to stop TTC (which would suck).

In any event, I am putting off calling the RE to go in for a beta.

I feel like the minor league player who gets to go up to the majors for a few days and is sent back down...

I hope that I get to join you all soon!! 

Married 4/12/08 DS born 11/17/2009 via c-section at 39 weeks. 11/12/2011 BFP #2!! m/c 7w5d. 2/28/2012 BFP #3 Beta #1-12dpo = 18; Beta #2-16dpo = 185; Beta #3-18dpo = 505. EDD 11/10/2012. Ectopic discovered at 5w4d. D&C followed by methotrexate.
Report Reply to Post

Re: Update to Intro :-(

  • jessalynn521jessalynn521 member
    I'm sorry <<hugs>> 
    imageimage
    Report Reply
  • Loading the player...
  • MeatballEsqMeatballEsq member
    Keeping my FX for you! I'm sorry you're going through this ((HUGS))
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

      image

    Report Reply
  • Krissy2388Krissy2388
    I am so sorry :( Lots of (((HUGS)))
    <a href="http://s536.photobucket.com/albums/ff326/kjbrand/?action=view
    Report Reply
  • keiralkeiral
    So sorry.
    <a href="http://s644.photobucket.com/albums/uu167/klemonisphoto/?action=view
    Report Reply
  • CnAnACnAnA member
    I'm so sorry sweetie!  ((hugs))

    image

    After 7 years of no ovulation...
    BFP#1 10/24/11 ~ EDD 6/29/12 ~ Natural m/c 11/2/11
    BFP#2 2/3/12 ~ Alice born 9/26/12


    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker

    Oct Angel Babies
    Report Reply
  • jenada2011jenada2011
    I'm so very sorry! ((hugs))
    Warning No formatter is installed for the format bbhtml
    Report Reply
  • jullybeanjullybean member
    So sorry to hear this :-(
    Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker
    Report Reply
  • panacea05panacea05 member
    I'm so sorry. ((hugs))
    It was a rough road, but Arlo Daniel was born April 1, 2013—and our second rainbow is due October 12, 2014.
    Report Reply
  • MAtoNCMAtoNC member

    Thanks so much everyone. The support means a lot. I hope to see you all soon. If not next week, sometime in the near future.

    H&H 9 months to all of you wonderful mamas! 

    Married 4/12/08 DS born 11/17/2009 via c-section at 39 weeks. 11/12/2011 BFP #2!! m/c 7w5d. 2/28/2012 BFP #3 Beta #1-12dpo = 18; Beta #2-16dpo = 185; Beta #3-18dpo = 505. EDD 11/10/2012. Ectopic discovered at 5w4d. D&C followed by methotrexate.
    Report Reply
  • KJsbabeKJsbabe member
    I'm sorry ((hugs))
    photo e9455f4d-9751-469e-a19f-460104cd2e5c.jpg photo jan15.jpg
    BFP #1 5/20/10 Natural MC at 5w4d 5/28/10
    BFP #2 11/3/10; BO at u/s 10w6d 12/16/10; Natural MC 1/7/11; D&C 4/21/11
    BFP #3 10/27/11 Please stick, LO!! 2/6/12 It's a Girl! Alexis Grace born 6/29/12
    BFP#4 4/27/14 Stick, stick, stick!! 8/11/14 It's a Boy! Evan Wesley born 1/8/15
    "Patience is waiting. Not passively waiting. That is laziness. But to keep going when the going is hard and slow, that is patience."  Let it Be (blog) ♥ My BFP Charts
    Lilypie Third Birthday tickers Lilypie First Birthday tickers
    This time I'm not leaving without you.
    Report Reply
  • LSzwayaLSzwaya member
    I am so so sorry. 
    MC 4/09 at 6w2d 
    Rainbow Jude 
    born: 12/31/09
    Pre-E Induction at 36w4d
    11 Day NICU stay due to GBS infection

    TTC#2 10/2010
    M/C: 4/09/11 5w
    CP: 12/26/2011 
    CP: 1/28/2012 
    MMC: 4/16/2012 at 11w2d 
    Ectopic: 6/25/2012 MTX 07/03/12
    CP 11/24/2012 
    Rainbow Violet 
    born: 9/11/13

    All ALers welcome! 
    Report Reply
  • morkmork member
    Oh hun!  I'm holding out hope that your urine concentration is the problem.  It's cliche, but it's still very early.  *HUGE HUGS*
     Image and video hosting by TinyPic
    Mama to 5 angel babies, 1 rainbow baby, and 2 more angel babies. 
    My beautiful Ella/ToT arrived 10/10/12. 
    Report Reply
  • chusumchusum member
    I am sorry.

    image
    Married August 9, 2008
    TTC Since September 2009

    1st   BFP | EDD 10/23/10 | Natural M/C 03/27/10 | 10w 0d
    2nd BFP 06/26/10 | EDD 02/25/11 | Natural  M/C 07/17/10 | 8w 1d
    3rd  BFP 12/17/10 | EDD 08/24/11 | Natural M/C 12/31/10 | 7w 4d
    4th  BFP 06/22/11 | EDD 02/25/12 | M/C D&C on 07/27/11 | 9w4d
    5th  BFP 09/17/11 | DD Paige Lily born 05/16/12
    6th  BFP 08/11/12 | EDD 04/11/13 | CP
    7th  BFP 09/29/13 | EDD 06/04/14 | Natural M/C 10/27/13 | 8w1d
    8th  BFP 12/16/13 | EDD 09/01/14

    DX: Pericentric Inversion of Chromosome 8 & compound heterozygous for MTHFR mutations
    RX: Lovenox/Heparin & Folgard

    image

    Report Reply
This discussion has been closed.
Choose Another Board
Search Boards
"
"