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ladies who charted: EDD question

My doc declared my EDD to be 10/12. Thing is, that goes by LMP, not by my o date. so when I had my u/s the other day, he said Little Bit was measuring a couple days behind, until I told him exactly when I o'ed. Those dates line up, and Little Bit is measuring on track. But doc didn't change my EDD. I know in the grand scheme of things, 3 days doesn't really matter. But when I use 10/12 on the tracker I have on my phone, it shows conception date of 3 days before I even o'ed and it really annoys me. So, the point of this longwinded rambling post is this: if your doc gave you an EDD that you know was wrong based on your O date, did you use that EDD or the one you knew was closer to being correct?

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Re: ladies who charted: EDD question

  • My EDD is april 19th based on lmp. LO actually measures right on track with that now. In the beginning she was a few days behind because my EDD based on O should be April 23rd. So she is actually measuring ahead but doesn't get credit for it. I just use the lmp one, but chances are, she'll be born on some other day anyway.
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  • When my Dr asked my LMP, I just gave my due date based on O. But I had also figured out when my LMP would be if the day I Oed was on CD 14 (does that make sense? I Oed on CD12 so I was going to say last AF was 2 days before it really was.)

    With the last one, I always measured right with EDD based on O.

    I am only 2 days off from the date given if I used LMP, so it really wouldnt matter much,

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  • My EDD of LMP is 1 week a head of where my O EDD is...I told the Dr a few times I know exactly when I Oed.  I had an u/s too and that measured 2 days ahead of where Oed was ;).  I am going by my u/s date- figured if baby is measuring that then Ill go by that. 
  • Same thing happened to me. My doctor is going by my LMP, but I'm going by my O date. It's only a 2 day difference so it's not a huge deal, but I just feel like it's more accurate. With our 8w u/s LO was measuring right on track with my O date. I guess if she had been measuring differently I might have changed my mind. My doctor has never been concerned about her measuring "behind", so I haven't made a big deal about him having the wrong EDD. Smile
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  • Use the one your dr gave you. It will make everything much easier. 

    After first Tri, 3 days won't make any difference anyways.  


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  • Mine always goes off LMP.  However, at my first u/s, baby was measuring a few days small (which did not completely shock me - I know I o'd a few days later than 'average' and have slightly longer cycles).  Doc did not change due date based off that u/s but she said she will based on my u/s on Monday (a bit over 8 weeks) if baby has not caught up on growth which I am not expecting.  We'll see what happens. 

    You're right, 3 days makes no difference because baby will come when it is ready but I'd still be annoyed doc didn't listen to me!

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  • I think this early they don't usually change them, but you could also just press the issue, since further along this would definitely mean something!
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  • I know how you feel! While I haven't had my first appt yet to get my official EDD, FF and the Bump have been fighting about it. Based on LMP I should be due 10/23, but I o later than typical and FF says based on o date my EDD is 10/30. While my ticker lines up with LMP (I think, I can't remember now), I'm sticking with my o's EDD of 10/30. I'll let the doc sort things out in 12 days!
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  • Like you, my O is 3 days off of LMP. I didn't want to deal with it so I just gave them an adjusted LMP so it would be the same and I didn't have to worry about the difference. I know a few days doesn't really matter, but I was measuring behind at first (based on O) and I didn't want that to be compounded by a different LMP. 
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  • I use my own...my O date...What does he know? He's only a doctor Big Smile

    Plus when I go in I just tell him that according my O date we are right on track and he usually just stops then and agrees. He gave me a due date range which is only 2 days. I say use yours because in the big picture it really doesn't matter.

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  • I'd use what I know to be correct.  And since I know my O date without a shadow of a doubt, I'm going with that.
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  • I always used the one I knew was right, based on my O date.  I would just ignore the annoying techs/nurses/etc. that would spout off a different EDD.  After the twins, I learned never to give my LMP.  I just say "sorry, I can't remember, but I know my O date."  Works every time.
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