Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss

My loss

After several days f bleeding, abdominal and lower back pain I had a miscarriage. It's really hard to swallow the loss of my 7week baby. I knew something was wrong, I didn't feel pregnant and my pain wasn't normal. It will take some time to get back in the routine of life. The hardest part of all is to tell those who knew of the pregnancy. Having to explain the is tough. I don't wish this upon anyone.

Re: My loss

  • I'm so sorry for your loss.  This is a great board for support, we all feel your pain :(
    Me 41  DH 33  Married 09/03/2011
    DD1  EDD 08/18/01, born 08/03/2001 ~ 9lbs 10oz, 21.5 in
    DS1  EDD 4/30/2004, born 05/04/2004 ~ 10lbs, 22 in
    mc 02/14/12 @ 5 weeks
    DD2  EDD 12/25/12, born 12/30/12 ~ 10lbs 11oz, 21.25 in
    mc 12/05/15 @ 12 weeks
    Cautiously expecting 12/02/16



  • I'm so sorry for your loss. It will take time but the pain does get easier. This board has been a wonderful place to come when you have questions, advice or just want to vent. (((hugs)))
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    Diagnosed w/ endometriosis 12/2010 Laproscopic surgery & 6 months of Lupron
    BFP 12/17/2011,EDD 8/23/12,ectopic discovered 12/29/11 at 6 weeks recieved methotrexate
    Dec '12 HSG & ultrasound showed abnormalities & more endo. Laproscopic surgery in January '13 showed significant damage & scar tissue from Endo. IVF is our best shot to concieve our rainbow.

    June '13 Decided to go the adoption route!

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  • I am so sorry for your loss. I just found out we lost our baby yesterday and already this board has been such a comfort to me.

    He's my fairytale, a dream when I'm not sleeping.

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  • I'm so sorry for your loss. 

    Thoughts & prayers for you!  

  • I'm sorry for your loss. The un-telling part is so difficult, but I did find comfort in the few people who did know about my pregnancy. 


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  • I am so sorry for your loss. I hope that you can find the support that I am finding on this board. I agree that "un-telling" people is just the worst.
    Me (25) DH (33) BFP #1 on cycle #4: 2/7/12 - M/C 2/26/12 BFP #2 on cycle #1: 4/3/12 - DD born 12/18/12
  • So sorry for your loss.  You are right, the hardest part is telling others, and hearing others try to express their sorrow to you.  But every day gets a little bit easier than the last.  And that gives a little peace.
    BFP#1 1/24/12 ~ EDD 10/3/12 ~ Natural m/c 2/23/12 8w/3d. Hysteroscopy 4/20/12 - 2 fibroids removed
  • im sorry for your loss.

    DD1 born 5/24/10.

    Missed M/C at 14 wks Feb 2012.

    DD2 born 5/14/13.

    Missed M/C at 9 wks July 2015.

    Expecting someone new 4/17/17.
  • So sorry for your loss. I m/c at 12w, so we had told almost the whole world it feels like. I had to think of everyone who knows and still haven't contacted everyone. Also, because of certain circumstances and an insensitive email, everyone at work also knew. In hind sight, I wish I wouldn't have told so many people, but we were excited and it was our first. I've found most people have been nothing but supportive and even sharing their own stories. This experience has made me grateful of all of the amazing people I have in my life. I hope you find the same. (hugs) We're here for you too. :)
    BFP #1: 12/26/11, EDD 09/05/12; m/c discovered: 02/22/12 @ 12w u/s,
    D&C: 03/08/12 Waited for AF for 146 long days!
    Hysteroscopy/D&C on July 10th to fix blocked cervix (DX: Cervical Stenosis)
    BFP #2 12/8/12, EDD 08/21/13 Our rainbow arrived 08/24/13!
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  • So sorry for your loss. 
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    BFP #3: 01/28/12, EDD: 09/23/12, MMC (BO), D&C 2/16/12 at 6.5 wks
    BFP #4: 05/23/12, EDD: 01/31/12, Early MC at 5 wks

    RPL Workup: + LPD (7DPO Prog = 7.8, Endometrial Bx = out of phase)
    Elevated Alpha 2-glycoprotein IgA and antiphosphatidylserine IgM -->
    Hematologist said not to worry and no need for treatment!

    Dx: LPD
    Cycle #1(08/2012): Clomid 50 mg CD3-7, Ovidrel CD13 + Progesterone = It worked!
    BFP #5 on 09/10/12 (11 DPO). HCG #1 @ 14DPO = 131.6 HCG #2 @ 16DPO = 509
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  • Thank you all for your kindness and encouraging words. I find the board to be a great resource to vent and hear others that been through the same experience. 

    I didn't have the courage to tell every person. Instead I told my mother and she shared it to each one of my siblings. My very good co worker informed my boss. So that worked for me. It's hard to be repeating over and over your sorrow.

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