Ok so my dr informed me yesterday that she feels the next step in our TTC journey is to take BC for 3 months and then I "will be regular" after that. Has anyone else done this? Seems kinda counter productive to me personally, but I do not have a medical degree. Sometimes I feel like Military Drs tend to take the cheap route vs the most effective route, but again I have no idea. I am mostly confused because I was on BC 2.5 years ago and when I got off it I didn't have a period for 6 months! Yes I had them while ON the pill, but nothing after it.
Background info if you care... we have been TTC for about a yearish. I have very irregular cycles, and have for my whole life with the exception of when I was on the pill from age 17-22 (I am now 25). I had a miscarriage in Nov and have not had a period since then. She says that taking the pill for 3 months will jump start my cycle.
Re: Birth Control to regulate period while TTC???
First of all, I'm sorry for your loss.
I've been put on birth control to end long cycles (90 days +) in order to start back on medicated cycles. Has your doctor ever prescribed Provera to jump start your cycle? Even though it doesn't work for me, it works for a good number of women.
I'm also a military spouse and depending on the doctor, it does seem like some take the easy way out with treatments. Since you've been trying for a year, you could request a referral to see an RE. I'm assuming you're not seeing one already. Have you had an infertility testing done? Irregular or missing cycles could signal PCOS.
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Have you had any testing done to see why you might be irregular (hormone testing, maybe PCOS, etc) ?
I've heard of people going on bcp for issues like excessive bleeding (e.g., AF for 2 weeks) and people starting IVF. I haven't heard about it to treat irregular cycles though.
I was having crazy long cycles this past year and my doc prescribed prometrium to jump start AF and the next cycle. It seems to me something like progeterone/Clomid/metformin, depending on the underlying issue might be more effective. I don't see what bcp would do. Could you request another opinion or RE referal?
Are you ovulating? Do you chart? That's something you might want to start understanding what your body is doing. Also, if you open to it, acupuncture might help regulate your cycles as well. GL!
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I am surprised that they have not brought up simply starting you on a round of provera or prometrium to jump start your system. Perhaps you could suggest that, as it is only for a short time. I had to do that 3 months after my m/c and now my doctor is discussing another round of it (3 months after the first round) or BCP.
I understand your frustration and you need to discuss with your doctor why they feel BCP may be the better option for you.
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This was my first visit back, just with my PCM. She told me to come in after I have been trying for a year, so I did. And she told me BC for 3 months was the next step. She is referring me to an OB/GYN in the near future and maybe they have another option and can do some testing. I haven't had any testing yet. I guess I was just expecting them to try to DO something vs just tell me to take BC and wait longer. I want to know WHY my cycles are so off and how we can treat the problem instead of the symptoms. She also said I could not get referred to a RE until I had been TTC for a year with no pregnancies, which means I have a while.
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I did take BCP to regulate my cycle when I still didn't have a period about 7 weeks after a miscarriage. However, I am raising my eyebrows at the three month prescription. I did only one month, and I found that annoying but necessary (I will say I felt much better on the pills). I would be super irritated to be held up for three months on BCP. I did one month followed by Clomid. The next month, I picked up after a perfect 28 day cycle (thank God). I don't have underlying issues or a consistent history of irregularity (stress or illness causes me to miss periods, but if I am feeling okay, I am usually fairly regular). I would ask your doctor about Provera or even a single month of BCP to start your cycle. Three months seems a little long to me.
ETA: I also feel that your doctor should be pushing to figure out what is causing your irregular cycles. I would ask about that.
This does seem odd to me. I'm currently on BC in order to be able to effectively time my next treatment cycle.
I have PCOS and along with that, rediculously long cycles. Whenever I was past 60 days, my dr would prescribe Provera rather than the pill. I'd ask for that instead.
Additonally, I'd really recommend hormonal testing (if you haven't already) to see if there's an imbalance to to figure out WHY your cycles are so irregular. My RE sympathizes with me and this is why I'm on BC rather than waiting for my body to decide to do it on its own. GL!
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I second this.
As other posters said, I would be hesitant to go on the pill if the point is to regulate in order to TTC. While being on the pill will regulate you while on it, it doesn't mean it will continue to be regular when you stop again. I would look into alternate ways of regulating rather than the pill if I was in your shoes.
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It was Petra. I don't recall the specifics of the post, but the gist of it was everyone was saying her doctor was crazy and the woman should switch. Petra said it all made sense once she realized it was military.OP, ask this doctor about Provera instead of Birth control. And see if there's anyway you can get covered for an actual OBGYN
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