Adoption

Raleigh Adoption Agencies

I will find out in two days if my IVF cycle worked and if not, DH and I are going to pursue adoption.  Has anyone adopted in the Raleigh area?  Any recommendations for reputable agencies?  I've been looking at Amazing Grace Adoptions.

Thank you!

Married Since 09/2006, TTC Since 09/2010 
DX: Unexplained infertility, DH normal 
3 Femara cycles - Oct, Nov, Dec 2011, all BFNs 
IVF #1, ER 2/15 (5R, 4M, 4F), ET 2/18, Beta 2/29 = BFN :( 
Follistim + IUI on 6/25 = BFN 
Home Study Finalized 8/14/12! Profile Active - 8/17/12! 
Officially Matched 8/29/12, Our perfect angel born 9/25/12! 
Biggest surprise ever, unexpected BFP on 4/12/13! 

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Re: Raleigh Adoption Agencies

  • I know nothing about them but their website turns me off immediately when I see this:

    ? Plan to provide full-time maternal care once a placement is made. Please know this last requirement is not meant to be rigid. Families have been very creative in this area. The heart of this requirement is that the parents be the primary caregivers, rather than a daycare worker. 

    Sounds pretty judgmental and downright assholish for families where both parents work. And the fact that they want a stay at home MOTHER specifically? Yeah. Major turnoff for me.

    (This could be irrelevant to your situation entirely, but I wouldn't work with an organization like that even if I were going to be SAH.)

    ETA: Further reading leads me to their statement of faith and I couldn't sign it. 

    https://www.agadoptions.org/images/Form-StatementOfFaith.pdf

    Six years of infertility and loss, four IUIs, one IVF and one very awesome little boy born via med-free birth 10.24.13.
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  • We are working with the Independent Adoption Center.  They are licensed in several states but have an office in Raleigh.  They are a non-profit agency and have very ethical practices.
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  • That is great, I was just talking to one of their representatives. GL!
    Married Since 09/2006, TTC Since 09/2010 
    DX: Unexplained infertility, DH normal 
    3 Femara cycles - Oct, Nov, Dec 2011, all BFNs 
    IVF #1, ER 2/15 (5R, 4M, 4F), ET 2/18, Beta 2/29 = BFN :( 
    Follistim + IUI on 6/25 = BFN 
    Home Study Finalized 8/14/12! Profile Active - 8/17/12! 
    Officially Matched 8/29/12, Our perfect angel born 9/25/12! 
    Biggest surprise ever, unexpected BFP on 4/12/13! 

     Our Angel through Adoption
     Lilypie Third Birthday tickers


    Our Little Miracle
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  • imagecrene84:
    That is great, I was just talking to one of their representatives. GL!

     

    If you have any questions about them, I don't mind answering if I can! :) 

  • imageamm78:

    imagecrene84:
    That is great, I was just talking to one of their representatives. GL!

     

    If you have any questions about them, I don't mind answering if I can! :) 

    That would be great.  I have my beta tomorrow and if it's negative, we'll be trying to get into the seminar this Saturday to learn more about IAC.  If we go that route, I may send you a private message. Thanks!

    Married Since 09/2006, TTC Since 09/2010 
    DX: Unexplained infertility, DH normal 
    3 Femara cycles - Oct, Nov, Dec 2011, all BFNs 
    IVF #1, ER 2/15 (5R, 4M, 4F), ET 2/18, Beta 2/29 = BFN :( 
    Follistim + IUI on 6/25 = BFN 
    Home Study Finalized 8/14/12! Profile Active - 8/17/12! 
    Officially Matched 8/29/12, Our perfect angel born 9/25/12! 
    Biggest surprise ever, unexpected BFP on 4/12/13! 

     Our Angel through Adoption
     Lilypie Third Birthday tickers


    Our Little Miracle
    Lilypie First Birthday tickers
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  • We live in NY but are thinking very strongly about going with IAC after reading/hearing about them. If we do we'll be going to the Raleigh office for our seminar. 
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