TTC After a Loss

Popping in to say hello

Hello ladies! I'm not coming back from my break yet as I do think it is the best thing for me right now but I miss you all so much! So I thought I would just drop in to give you all a big hello and see how you're doing.

I'm doing alright. February has been rough and I can't wait until it is over. We got rear-ended the beginning of the month so my car is in being fixed and I have a rental. DH burned himself quite badly last week and is now off work for a while. He's healing nicely though and nothing was too serious. Just second degree burns on his hands/wrists and first degree burns on his face. It was scary and stressful though. This month also marks the one year anniversary of our last loss which means its been a year of TTA. I'm feeling really discouraged lately and I don't know how to get out of this slump. I'm still seeing the psychologist and that is helping.

So ya, nothing much has changed with us and we aren't any closer to TTC. Just thought I would update anyone who cares.

Miss you guys! Big Smile

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Started TTC June 2010
BFP #1
07/04/10. EDD 03/14/11. Missed m/c 08/09/10. D&C 09/27/10. }Casey & Jaimie{
BFP #2 01/14/11. EDD 09/25/11. Missed m/c 02/18/11. D&C 02/24/11. }Dustin{
TTA for 18 months and then TTC for 12 months
BFP #3 08/18/13. EDD 04/30/14. Missed m/c 09/25/13. D&C 09/26/13. }Daylin{
TTA for 7 months
Jan-Mar 2014 - RPL, SHG, karotyping: all results normal
TTC Again May 2014
Progesterone & baby aspirin combo for 5 cycles
- All BFN's
SA with DNA fragmentation = Perfect results

Diagnostic cycle monitoring = Polycystic ovaries leading to premature egg release
TTA Oct 2014 - Jan 2015
Jan 2015 - Medicated cycle with timed intercourse
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  • I'm sorry things seem to just keep piling up on you. It's just not fair to see such crappy things happen to such nice people. Thank god your husband is healing. Sending you lots of (((hugs)))
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  • (hugs) I'm so sorry hun that this month has sucked. T&P's to your DH for a swift recovery!! I know this break is good for you, but I would be lying if I said we didn't miss you. I hope things start to turn around soon!! 

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  • ((((Hugs)))) hi Jenn!!
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    Hi, Jenn!! Been thinking about you recently! I am so sorry to hear this month hasn't been very kind to you and DH. I hope he heals up soon! How have you been feeling? Still working on your diet? Found anything that has helped?

    (((Hugs))) to you and can't wait until you come back for good!

    No, I'm still feeling sick. Sad I'm trying to get a hold of my doctor to get a referral to see a doctor of internal medicine. If that route doesn't work, I'm going to go see a naturopath. I've given up on my diet, it wasn't helping so I went back to eating whatever I want.

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    Started TTC June 2010
    BFP #1
    07/04/10. EDD 03/14/11. Missed m/c 08/09/10. D&C 09/27/10. }Casey & Jaimie{
    BFP #2 01/14/11. EDD 09/25/11. Missed m/c 02/18/11. D&C 02/24/11. }Dustin{
    TTA for 18 months and then TTC for 12 months
    BFP #3 08/18/13. EDD 04/30/14. Missed m/c 09/25/13. D&C 09/26/13. }Daylin{
    TTA for 7 months
    Jan-Mar 2014 - RPL, SHG, karotyping: all results normal
    TTC Again May 2014
    Progesterone & baby aspirin combo for 5 cycles
    - All BFN's
    SA with DNA fragmentation = Perfect results

    Diagnostic cycle monitoring = Polycystic ovaries leading to premature egg release
    TTA Oct 2014 - Jan 2015
    Jan 2015 - Medicated cycle with timed intercourse
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  • Hi Jenn. I was just thinking about you this morning and wondering how you were. I'm sorry that this month has been so difficult for you. So glad your DH is okay but I can't imagine how scary that must have been.

    Milestones of our losses are so tough but know we are thinking about you and sending you T&P's. Stay strong and do whatever you need to do for yourself to continue to heal.

    We miss you and will be here when you are ready to return. Big (((hugs))) 

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  • I am sorry that you have had such a rough month.  I hope that you can do some real healing during your break!  ((HUGS))
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  • Hi Jenn! I was wondering about you as well...Nice to see you!

    I'm sorry you and DH have had a rough month.  Hopefully the spring will bring a positive outlook for you both! ((Hugs))

     

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    BFP#2 ~ 8/2/11, EDD 4/11/12, D&C 9/12/11 at 9w5d
    BFP#3 ~ 4/15/12, EDD 12/21/12 ~ DD born 12/22/12
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  • Hi Jenn!  Nice to "see" you!

    I'm sorry things have been so rough lately.  I'm sending tons of squishy ((HUGS)) your way!

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  • Jenn, I'm so sorry you're having such a rough month! (((HUGS))) to you. I haven't been very active here lately either, but I still know you're missed around here! I wish nothing but the best for you and hope that March is a much better for you and your H.
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  • We all care! Hope things get better for you! ((HUGS))
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    TTC #2 BFP 12/6/11 chemical pregnancy natural mc 12/18/11
    TTC #3 BFP 3/19/12. 4/9: HR of 134! **Bake Turkey, Bake!**
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  • So sorry to hear of these accidents but glad to hear everybody and everything is on the mend! I'm sure it doesn't feel like it, but you are moving closer to better things.  Thinking of you and wishing you continued success with therapy. ((hugs))

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  • Hello! I think I speak for all of us when I say we miss you!!

    I'm so happy that your DH is ok, and that going to a psychologist is helping you heal. Smile

    I've been praying for you and hoping you'll be able to come back soon!

    **HUGS**

  • Hi Jenn ((Hugs)) I'm glad to hear your DH is healing nicely. I hope that March is a better month for you.  Thanks for popping by to say hello.  You are missed. 
  • I'm glad to hear that taking a break has been a good thing for you, but I'm so sorry to hear about your car and especially about your DH!! I'm glad to hear that he's ok!! T&P for both of you! ((hugs))
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  • Hi Jenn!  It's good to hear from you.  We have missed you!  I'm sorry to hear about your crappy month.  I hope things pick up for you and your husband.  March can't get here soon enough! Smile
  • Hi Jenn! I'm sorry to hear that it's been such a crappy month. And I'm so sorry for what happened to your DH! I hope things start looking up for you soon. ((Hugs))
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    BFP #2 ~ EDD 11.15.2012 ~ CP 3.7.2012
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  • Hi, Jenn, I am glad to see you, but I wish you had had a better month!  I hope March is much kinder to you.  ((hugs)), and we always care and are delighted to hear from you!
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  • I'm so sorry you're having such a rough time but I'm positive things will look up. You have such a bright attitude and even though you might feel discouraged now, you're being proactive in still getting treatment. That is a good thing. *hugs*
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  • Thank you ladies for all the warm words. You're the best and I really needed this today. Smile
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    Started TTC June 2010
    BFP #1
    07/04/10. EDD 03/14/11. Missed m/c 08/09/10. D&C 09/27/10. }Casey & Jaimie{
    BFP #2 01/14/11. EDD 09/25/11. Missed m/c 02/18/11. D&C 02/24/11. }Dustin{
    TTA for 18 months and then TTC for 12 months
    BFP #3 08/18/13. EDD 04/30/14. Missed m/c 09/25/13. D&C 09/26/13. }Daylin{
    TTA for 7 months
    Jan-Mar 2014 - RPL, SHG, karotyping: all results normal
    TTC Again May 2014
    Progesterone & baby aspirin combo for 5 cycles
    - All BFN's
    SA with DNA fragmentation = Perfect results

    Diagnostic cycle monitoring = Polycystic ovaries leading to premature egg release
    TTA Oct 2014 - Jan 2015
    Jan 2015 - Medicated cycle with timed intercourse
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  • Wow, talk about a rough month!  Keep your chin up.  Thanks for the update and we'll keep a look out for your return when you're ready!
    BFP #1 - Chemical Pregnancy ----BFP#2 - DD born at 32 weeks-----BFP #3 Spontaneous Identical Twin Boys lost due to Missed M/C - on 7/1/11----BFP #4 Baby girl lost due to Trisomy 22 on 1/6/12 PGAL and PAL Always Welcome! Image and video hosting by TinyPic
  • (((hugs)))) it's good to see you here Jennie!

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    BFP #1: 12/2009 m/c 1/2010 BFP #2: 6/2010 m/c 8/2010

    BFP #3: 10/2011 ectopic 11/2011 (right tube removed, learned left tube was probably nonfunctional due to scar tissue from infection after m/c)

    3 failed IUIs, IVF #1: 18R, 12M, 10F, 3 poor quality 5d embryos transferred= BFP #4!!!!!

    Betas: 9dp5dt: 64 ~14dp5dt: 91 (expecting miscarriage, doubling time of 236 hours) ~16dp5dt: 200~18dp5dt: 500

    First Ultrasound at 6w2d revealed two sacs, only one with a heartbeat

    LK arrived after 42 weeks on August 14, 2013! Beautiful, healthy, and happy!

    TTC#2: IVF booked for April 2015

    Surprise BFP#5 February 19, 2015 EDD: November 2, 2015

    Betas: 10dpo: 10, 14dpo: 77, 17dpo: 270

    First Ultrasound at 5w1d showed a miracle UTE baby! And right ovary ovulation to left fallopian tube.

    JD arrived at 38 weeks on October 20, 2015.

    TTC #3: Since October 2017. BFP #6 July 2, 2018 EDD: March 16, 2019 [/spoiler]


  • sending lots of hugs your way.. keep the faith..
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  • I'm glad you checked in with us!  So sorry you guys are having a rough month, but at least it's almost over. 

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    BFP #1 5/4/11 EDD 1/12/12 natural m/c 5/17/11


    BFP #2 8/9/11 EDD 4/18/12 ectopic pregnancy (methotrexate) 8/24/11 ruptured tube and removal 8/29/11


    BFP #3 3/9/12 EDD 11/19/12 Logan born 11/18/12

    BFP #4 10/21/14 EDD 6/30/15


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  • Hi Jenn! I am recently back from a break myself. I have been thinking about you, so I am glad you popped in with an update. I hope you get your car back soon, and that your DH continues to heal nicely. I hope you can get that referral from your doctor soon. ((hugs))
    BFP#1 7/09 DS born 3/30/10 BFP#2 5/11 M/C 6/11 BFP#3 9/11 M/C 10/11 BFP #4 5/20/12 Pregnancy Ticker
  • Hello love!! Sending lots of ((hugs)) and love your way!! We miss you!
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  • I'm sorry to hear things are piling up so much right now.  Glad to hear your husband is doing ok though.  I miss you being around!  ::HUGS::

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  • Hi Jenn! Thanks for checking in and I'm sorry things are still so rough. Lots of t&p that your dh will heal quickly. ((hugs))
    Me: 38 l DH: 41
    Gavin - 8/27/10
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    Gabriel - 2nd tri loss 5/17/16 Trisomy 18 & 21
    Hope -  2nd tri loss 12/7/16 complications from pneumonia


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  • Great to "see" you again. I still think about you often. Sorry things aren't good right now; I hope you can find some joy soon. (((((HUGS))))) from all of us.
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  • I was just thinking about you. I am sorry that it has been rough lately.  We miss you around here. 
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  • Hi Jenn! I'm sorry to hear about the rough month you have had...hope March is a better month for you. Miss you being on the board :)
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    BFP #1 6.19.11 ~ EDD 2.23.12 ~ CP on 6.22.11
    BFP #2 7.23.11 ~ EDD 3.28.12 ~ MC on 8.16.11
    BFP #3 11.17.11~ EDD 7.31.12 ~ MC on 1.18.12
    BFP #4 4.12.12 ~ EDD 12.25.12~ Born on 12.26.12
  • Hope dh heals quickly. Sending hugs your way.

    Jenn

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    IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN

    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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