Im pretty sure it depends...My friend was dilated and effaced and her baby never dropped, but sometimes baby dropping will cause you to dialte and efface...
With both my kids I went in in labor and triage looked at me and thought I would get sent home because I hadn't dropped (that i wasnt actually in labor not *just* because of dropping), but both times I was 100% effaced and 5cm.
The moment a child is born,
the mother is also born.
She never existed before.
The woman existed, but the mother, never.
A mother is something absolutely new.
Re: What happens first? I can't remember...
There is no special order.
With both my kids I went in in labor and triage looked at me and thought I would get sent home because I hadn't dropped (that i wasnt actually in labor not *just* because of dropping), but both times I was 100% effaced and 5cm.
The moment a child is born, the mother is also born. She never existed before. The woman existed, but the mother, never. A mother is something absolutely new.
as pp said - doesnt matter. plus for 2nd + mom's you can drop at the end or in labour.