Parenting after a Loss

Update: our dog

We talked to our vet and the county and legally euthanasia is our only option. We have to have it done today.

We're hoping the county will let us take her to our vet where we can be with her as she goes. Either way I hope to take her out and fill her belly with ice cream, her favorite treat, and go on a last walk through the park. 

I want to thank you ladies for your support in my OP. This community so amazing.

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Re: Update: our dog

  • I'm sorry.
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  • I'm so sorry. Saying goodbye to a beloved pet is never easy. 

    I know she'll enjoy the day with you.  


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  • I'm so sorry.  ((HUGE HUGS))
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  • I am so, so sorry.  ((huge hugs))
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  • Oh this breaks my heart~ big hugs to your family
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  • I am so so sorry  :(  what a difficult situation.  (((HUGS)))
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  • I'm really very sorry that you have to deal with this. Huge hugs
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  • I am so, so sorry.  ((hugs))
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  • I am so sorry I know you will make sure she has a wonderful day today.
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  • I'm so sorry. Sad I am sure she will enjoy the day with you and that she knows how much you love her. Thinking of you today. ((HUGS))
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  • I am so sorry.  I am in tears reading this post.  Hugs
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    I'm so sorry. Sad I am sure she will enjoy the day with you and that she knows how much you love her. Thinking of you today. ((HUGS))

    Totally this.  ((Hugs))

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  • I'm so sorry.

    Hopefully the county will let your vet take care of it or at least let you be there.

    ((hugs))

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  • I'm so very sorry you have to do this. I'm sure she will enjoy her day with you and know that she is loved. I know this has to be heartbreaking for you. I hope you can find peace with the situation knowing that sometimes things happen and you are doing the best you can in an awful situation. ((((huge hugs))))
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  • I am so, so sorry.  This must be incredibly difficult.  Make sure you get some ice cream for yourself too.  (((hugs)))

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  • I'm so sorry ((Hugs))
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  • I am very very sorry Ernie.
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  • I'm so sorry.  ((Big HUGS))  I hope she goes peacefully and I'm sure she will know how loved she is.
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    BFP #2 - 2/9/11, EDD 10/13/11, LO lost 2/13/11 @ 5w4d
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  • I'm sorry honey.  (((Hugs)))
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  • I'm so sorry. :(
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  • So sorry. (big hugs)
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  • I'm very sorry :(
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  • Oh I am so sorry. I hope you got through the day alright. 
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  • I am very sorry. It is never easy to say goodbye to a pet, but take comfort in knowing she will feel loved to the very end. 

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  • Oh I'm so sorry!
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  • I'm so sorry. ((hugs))
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  • I'm so sorry.  I hope your dog had a good last day - my heart really goes out to you!  ((HUGS))

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  • I know you don't know me (I lurk from PGAL), but I read your original post the other day.  I just wanted to tell you how sorry I am that you were forced to make this decision.  I hope that time will heal your pain as you have to say good-bye to your dog.  I know what the dog did was wrong, but she was apart of your life before your child and that has to make it difficult.  ((hugs))
  • So sorry! You are very strong and are doing the best thing for your family!
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  • I am so sorry...I am sure she knows how loved she is and I hope it was a peaceful last day for her...
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