Just wanted to find out how far everyone commutes to see their RE? Since we all spend SO much time there, I just wanted to know if I'm the only one making a long and stressful commute at least a few times a week.
Little vent...yesterday, I left work early to drive to the 30 miles to my RE appointment at 3:55. I live in the suburbs of Phoenix and any freeway at rush hour driving into downtown Phoenix is mostly a parking lot. I made it to my appt. 5 minutes late and was all stressed out. I know the driving to and from causes me so much stress...not good!
I'm making DH drive me home from my IUI next week, so I can sit stress free in the passenger seat.
Re: How Far Is Your RE Office?
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On a good day with little traffic--3o minutes.
IRL--with morning commute traffic so I don't have to miss work all the time--60min.
The things we 3Ters do...
Wow...many of you drive MUCH further than me! I should be fortunate that I don't have to make the 100+ mile commute many of you do. My commute takes me about 40 minutes without traffic, but an hour and half in traffic.
Just a side note...this year when I was doing my taxes I saw that you can write off mileage to and from doctors appointments. I'm trying to keep a log of the miles I drive so I can write it off on my taxes next year. Just wanted to pass that info along because every little bit helps.Me: 29, Mild DOR
DH: 31, SE mostly normal, 1st SE morph 5%, 2nd SE morph 15%...yeah!.
BFP July 2011, Natural MC August 2011.
3 cycles of 50mg Clomid = BFN
*New RE* Feb/Mar 2012 100 mg Clomid + Trigger + IUI = BFN
*3rd RE* April-June -Break Cycles begin prep for IVF by doing 2 Heparin injects daily....fun fun!
IVF #1 - ER 7/19, ET 7/24, 2 beautiful embies transferred. Beta 8/2 = BFN
*New RE...yes again* FET Nov 2012 with our lone ranger = BFFN
RE Suggests Trying IUI Again, Jan. 2013 IUI #2 =BFN
Feb. 2013 IUI #3 = BFP!!!, Beta #1 (15dpIUI) = 90, Beta #2 (17dpIUI) = 210, U/S Scheduled for 3/18
My RE has 3 different offices. The one I usually go to is about 20 min. But Yesterday I drove over an hour to her other office. That doesn't happen very often though.
Dx: PCOS and MFI
3 IUIs, 4 IVFs = BFFN
3rd RE: IVF #5/FET = BFP
14dp5dt=1170 16dp5dt=2573
1st u/s=TWINS!
It's a Boy and a Girl!
Born at 34w3d!
When it is not beach season it takes me about 45 minutes. However, depending on if I have to go for a monitoring appointment on a Saturday or Sunday during beach season it could take well over an hour. To get to the office where they do the ER/ET (the main office) it takes a little under 2 hours.
Sept '11-April '13 ~ Testing, failed multiple MFI treatments, saving & TONS of praying
January 2014 ~ IVF/ICSI & PGS ~ no response to stims ~ converted to IUI ~ BFN
February 2014 ~ On to donor embyros ~ 5 blasts!!!
March 2014 ~ FET #1 ~ Transferred 2 blasts ~ BFN
July 2014 ~ Kliman's mock cycle with endometrial function test
Sample too small for EFT, HE slide showed immature cells
New protocol planned, saving for another biopsy for EFT
January 2015 ~ Considering adoption options
April 2015 ~ Privately arranged adoption of planned pregnancy
DD#1 ~ Lillyana Violet Marie born 6/15/16, Finalized adoption 12/20/16
July 13, 2018 ~ BFP....WTF?!?!
7/16 Beta #1 ~ 466...7/18 Beta #2 ~ 1,077...7/23 Beta #3 ~ 5,291
7/23 US #1 ~ 1 gestational sac seen and yolk sac
7/30 US #2 and 1st OB appt ~ 1 perfectly round gestational sac, 1 perfect yolk sac and 1 teeny tiny heart beat seen!!!
First round of Clomid in May 2012= BFP #1, DD born January 2013
BFP #2 in January 2014, DS born September 2014
Severe MFI. Me: supposedly all clear but eggs showed vacuoles.
IVF #1 January 2012, ER Jan 14th: 34R, 27M, 23F. Day 3: 18 embies still strong. Day 5: zero "good," one "fair," the rest "poor." Transferred 3. None made it to blast or to freeze. Jan 28: BFN.
Lucky IVF #2: Transferred two beautiful day three embies on St. Patrick's Day. BFP on HPT 7dp3dt. Beta 1 (14dpER)=106; Beta 2 (16dpER)=140; Beta 3 (19dpER)=264! First u/s 4.17.
Hope is the thing with feathers - that perches in the soul - and sings the tune without the words - and never stops - at all - (Emily Dickinson)
I too am blessed to be close to my RE. It's about 35 minutes from home and about an hour from work. I haven't had an appointment during rush hour yet but that would add at least another 30 minutes.
TTC #1 since 3/2011
DX: anovulatory and severe MFI
DH is a testicular cancer survivor
IVF#1 w/ICSI lupron, gonal f, ovidrel
ER 6/15/12 6R 6M 6F! ET 6/20/12
Beta #1: 154 Beta #2: 509 Beta #3: 7326
Baby Boy born 3/1/2013
TTC#2: 6/2014 all testing came back normal
IVF#2 (#1 for LO#2) 9/2014 - 17R 10M 10F 4 blasts frozen on day 6.
FET #1 10/15/14 - Beta #1: 216 Beta #2: 823
Baby Boy born 7/10/2015
From my house with little to no traffic: 20ish minutes
From my work depending on lights: 12-17
Emerson Lily 6 lbs 13 oz & Ellis Willow 6 lbs 9 oz
My first RE: 5 minutes.
My current RE: 1 1/2 hours.
I've had friends think I was crazy, but we all just know when one RE isn't a good fit, the distance just doesn't matter.
3/12 150mg Clomid + B2B IUI =BFP!! TWINS!
Vanishing twin at week 6
Tater-tot born January 3rd 2013
2 IUI's in 2016- BFN
3 IUI's in 2017- BFN
8/17 IUI BFP!!!!!!!!
TTC #1 since October 2010 | Began Testing in January 2012
DH SA - low motility with 0% morph; varicocele (repaired); low T (on Clomid)
IVF w/ICSI (long Lupron w/ Repronex and Follistim) in September 2012
We live about 3 minutes from the highway and the RE is about 3 minutes from the highway, so a quick jaunt down the highway and I'm there. 10 minutes max with no traffic (google maps says 8), 15 on a weekday morning.
When I wanted to schedule my CD 3 bloodwork with them, the nurse said 'don't you have somewhere closer that you want to go?' Uhh.... Nope. 10 minutes doesn't bother me!
I feel bad for you ladies with long drives. That blows.
Chemical Pregnancy
I'm 10 min from my RE (when leaving from work, which is always where I am leaving from).
However, my stress comes in the waiting for the doctor/nurse part. My last apptmt I waited for an hour bc my RE saw the couple (who came in after me) first- the walls are very thin, so I could hear that he went in there first.
Born via emergency c-section - 8lb, 19.75 in, 100% stubborn BFP Chart
8 cycles of unmedicated trying = BFP!! - EDD 1/10/18
*Waiting for Baby Eags 2.0*;
I live in a very remote and rural area. Closest RE is 200miles it takes me about 3 1/2 hours one way. Sometimes we stay the night there other days we just stop in for my appt and then head back home.
Positive for HLA-B27, I'm a mutant
Testing - Me ok, gluten issue? DH - borderline count, low motility
4/28/11 IUI#1 = BFP!(5/25), EDD 2/2/12 - m/c 5w3d
7/3, 7/31, 9/25 - IUI#2-4=BFN
IVF#1 - 1 blast = BFP!! (12/30), EDD 9/9/12, confirmed c/p 4w2d
FET#1 3/2/12 - 2 blasts =BFP!! EDD 11/18/12, us#1 = twins! Confirmed m/c 5w6d
4/20-surprise BFP and another c/p 4w2d
FET#2 7/16/12 - 2 blasts = BFN
FET#3 8/20/12 - 1 blast - BFP!! Beta #1-2=177, 354
1st u/s 5w6d, one beautiful little HB
baby girl born 5/10/13
TTC#2 since 12/17/2014, Cycle 8
Repeat Testing...FSH=12, AMH=3.8, AFC=28.
IUI#5 5/10/15- c/p?
IVF#2 8/19/15 - cancelled due to cysts
IVF#2 take two 10/2015 - 5 blasts frozen
FET#4 12/11/2015 - BFN - 4 blasts remaining
FET#5 2/18/16 - BFP!!! Beta1-3, 126, 250, 745!!
Tons of love and ((hugs)) to my IF sister NMscubagirl
Mine is about 1 1/2 hours away......depending on traffic it takes longer.....no more than 2 hours though usually!
65 miles each way, it is totally getting old...
Praying unceasingly for a miracle. ALL welcome!
If my appt happens to fall on a Tues or Thurs I can go to the satellite office that is across town from where I live, so 30 minutes with traffic. If its any other day though I have a 2 hour and 30 minute round trip to get up to the office and back. Those are not fun days b/c we have to wake up at 5am to be out the door by 15 til 6, so we can try and beat as much rush hour traffic as possible. Yuck!
TroubleTTC
Every new beginning comes from some other beginning's end --Semisonic
**TTC since 04/09, C/P 02/02/10; 4 weeks, 3 days**
**Dx: Anovulation, Hypothryroidism, Mild Endo, Pituitary Adenoma (prolactin issues), PAI-1, MFI **
**7/10: Clomid + TI= BFN**
**3/2/11: 1st RE appointment**
**DH= Morph= 2%, Motility= 30%**
**HSG= All clear!!**
**3/11: Femara + Pregnyl + TI= BFN**
**5/17/11: Laparoscopy / hysteroscopy = mild endo**
**7/11: Novarel + IUI #1= BFN (7mil, 75% motility, 2% morph)**
**8/11: Femara + Novarel + IUI #2= BFN (11mil, 35% motility, 1% morph)**
**11/11: Femara + Novarel + IUI #3= BFN (9mil, 2% morph)**
**Jan 2012: Follistim (75ius) + IUI #4= CANCELLED due to cyst -put on bcp**
**Feb 2012: Follistim (75ius) + Novarel + IUI #4.2= BFFN (2.5mil, 13% motility, 1% morph)**
**Mar 2012: Follistim (100ius) + IUI #5= CANCELLED due to 35mm & 14mm cysts**
**On med break indefinitely...IF Sucks!**
Congratulations Cutebride!! --TWINS!! Congratulations, Luvie, on your sweet boy! Congrats, Jess! So happy for you ladies!
~~Also best of luck to Kati, illinigal, and youngin!~~
NTNP 2009-2012 TTC since 2012:
Jack has handpicked his sibling up there
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