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alysiasienickialysiasienicki member
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Hi,

 January 28th was the beginning of my loss. I learned that im RH negative. The ER doctor told me that was probably the main reason we had our loss. Although, we talked it over and are now trying to concieve, i still have, deep down, a bit of blame on myself because i feel i should have known my blood type. 

 

Has anyone felt this way, or had a similar situation? 

 

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  • JuddandJessicaJuddandJessica member
    First, I'm so sorry about your loss. This totally stinks. This board has already helped me a great deal and I hope the same for you. I think all of us feel guilty in some way. That's normal. We just need to remember that this is never ever our fault. Hugs.

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  • amwallaceamwallace

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    Sorry for your loss. I am also RH negative. From what I have read and heard about people like us is that it usually doesn't impact the pregnancy unless you are past 28 weeks or have bleeding in which the baby's blood is mixed with your own. And usually, it will not happen during a first pregnancy only during a later one. I don't know your story, but I would guess that being RH negative had very little, if anything, to do with your miscarriage. Again I'm really sorry for your loss but most likely there was nothing you could have done to prevent it. It is a terrible thing and one that I will never understand. 

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  • Greenbean0906Greenbean0906
    I agree with PP. I'm also RH- and this was my very first question after learning about my mc. She said it was absolutely not the reason.And gave me the same explanation as PP. Although, everyones situation is different. I'm so sorry for your loss. ((hugs))
    BFP 12/25/11 , 1st U/S @ 8wks diagnosed BO, 2/6/12 D&C,
    2/13/12 Partial Molar Pregnancy diagnosed
    Forced break for two cycles
    TTC June 2012

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  • gberg1331gberg1331
    So sorry to hear about your loss.  T&Ps coming your way.
    BFP#1 1/24/12 ~ EDD 10/3/12 ~ Natural m/c 2/23/12 8w/3d. Hysteroscopy 4/20/12 - 2 fibroids removed
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