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Late Term and Child Loss
ChevTrucksr4Grls
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Loss my little boy - 2/16
ChevTrucksr4Grls
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I'm very new to this board... my husband and I tried for a year on our own, did 2 years of IVF - we had one ectopic... the very next ivf round we got pregnant with our twins - it was amazing. One twin was always measuring smaller.. and passed away at 9.5 weeks. I had four times that I hemmorhaged - but I never passed the deceased baby - he remained the entire pregnancy. The other baby did wonderful... he thrived... Well, at 10pm on Wednesday February 15th - I woke up - went to the bathroom - and my water broke. I was 18 weeks pregnant. We got to the hospital and our little boy was still alive - but the sac was ruptured... we either had to have a dne or be induced and deliver our baby too soon - the night was doomed. We decided to wait a few hours in hopes that there were any chance in the fluid being replaced - in that time - my husband felt his son move in my womb for the very first time... about a half hour after that - I knew something was different. We looked at ultrasound and our little man had passed away. I then chose to be induced. The first doctor and nurse I had - sucked... they tried a morphine drip which was doing nothing for pain except causing me to vomit. The next doctor who came in.. and nurse (they were all changing shifts) were wonderful. I had an epidural - and after 4 hours of being induced- I delivers my little boy in a matter of minutes. Hudson Edward was born 7inches long and 8.5ounces. He was beautiful. He has his daddy's long toes, his hands, and definitely his daddy's nose. He had my lips.... and a certain expression on his face that my husband tells me I get when I am sleeping. I love that little boy.I know time is the only thing that will help heal me... but the question will always remain as to why my water broke. The placenta was sent for testing - and I wonder if there was some type of infection ... I also wonder if I will ever have a live baby... all these questions I guess no one could answer.That's my story... thank you for reading... I hope I can manage to mentally be better some day.
~Heather~ TTC Since 12/2009
Septated uterus, pcos (on metformin), MTHFR
Clomid # 1- July 2010 = BFN / #2 Sept 2010= BFN
IVF#1 - 1/2011 = BFN (Severe AF started 7dpo)
IVF#2 - 3/2011 = Ectopic
Aug 2011- FE - Thaw all - cancelled - embryos didn't make it!
Oct 2011 - IVF#3 = BFP!! ~ TWINS!!
Said goodbye to Twin B @ 9w5d
Hudson Edward ~ Pprom 18 wks 2/16/12 - We love you forever. You have our hearts.
8/15/12 5dFET = BFP! ~ Said goodbye at 7wks gestation
11/9/12 5dFET = BFP! ~ Said goodbye at 5wks gestation
12/28/12 - Septated Uterus Found (was misdiagnosed as bicornuate!)
Septated uterus, pcos (on metformin), MTHFR
Clomid # 1- July 2010 = BFN / #2 Sept 2010= BFN
IVF#1 - 1/2011 = BFN (Severe AF started 7dpo)
IVF#2 - 3/2011 = Ectopic
Aug 2011- FE - Thaw all - cancelled - embryos didn't make it!
Oct 2011 - IVF#3 = BFP!! ~ TWINS!!
Said goodbye to Twin B @ 9w5d
Hudson Edward ~ Pprom 18 wks 2/16/12 - We love you forever. You have our hearts.
8/15/12 5dFET = BFP! ~ Said goodbye at 7wks gestation
11/9/12 5dFET = BFP! ~ Said goodbye at 5wks gestation
12/28/12 - Septated Uterus Found (was misdiagnosed as bicornuate!)
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Re: Loss my little boy - 2/16
Our baby boy,Logan, was born still at 19w3d on 7/1/2011
Our 2nd baby boy, Mason, was born still at 20w3d on 1/31/2012
After a much needed sanity break... we are praying for our rainbows
((BFP 7/29/13)) ((EDD 4/12/14)) It's BOY/GIRL twins!!!
Were they ever able to tell you anything as to why it happened? (I noticed you went through it twice... I am so sorry for that... no one should ever have to) How long did it take you to get back to work... I still do not know when I will be able to... also (TMI ALERT) I just today noticed my bbs are lumpy and swollen.. am I seriously going to have to go through milk let down too?!?!
Septated uterus, pcos (on metformin), MTHFR
Clomid # 1- July 2010 = BFN / #2 Sept 2010= BFN
IVF#1 - 1/2011 = BFN (Severe AF started 7dpo)
IVF#2 - 3/2011 = Ectopic
Aug 2011- FE - Thaw all - cancelled - embryos didn't make it!
Oct 2011 - IVF#3 = BFP!! ~ TWINS!!
Said goodbye to Twin B @ 9w5d
Hudson Edward ~ Pprom 18 wks 2/16/12 - We love you forever. You have our hearts.
8/15/12 5dFET = BFP! ~ Said goodbye at 7wks gestation
11/9/12 5dFET = BFP! ~ Said goodbye at 5wks gestation
12/28/12 - Septated Uterus Found (was misdiagnosed as bicornuate!)
BFP #2 - Sylvie V. Q. born and died on 10.28.11 at 21w.
BFP #3 - Evie V. Q. Fetal demise @ 16w. DC 7.8.12
BFP #4 - Beatrix V. Q. Born 6.2.13 at 23w6d.
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Married the love of my life 7/11/09 - Our first baby, Peyton Mark, was born sleeping 10/25/11 at 33 weeks - Our second baby, BFP 2/4/12, welcome to the world Raylan! Holy Moly, BPF 2/4/14, please be safe and sound little one!
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Unfortunately, your milk is probably coming in... Where a tight shirt or sports bra and don't touch them. Also, try not to let the water hit directly on your breasts. All this stimulates the milk production. If it gets painful, try stuffing your bra with cabbage leaves. It sounds gross, but actually helps. I also took Advil every 4 hours. Once the engorgement starts, you will probably have a good 3 days of pain, before the milk starts to dry up.
Each loss I was out for 3 weeks. I could have taken longer, but it is very difficult staying home alone. It gets depressing and lonely. I physically felt better after the first week, the bleeding stopped after 2, and you may spot for a bit longer.
I recently found out that my first loss was due to an infection and partial placenta abruption. The 2nd is still being looked at. I had a number of bleeding episodes in the early 2nd tri, so they think it is possible there was another infection. It also may have been a partial clotting disorder. We are waiting for the blood tests to come back in the next week or so.
The waiting is the hardest part. Keep on your doctors to get answers. Sometimes they take their time. If I had my first results prior to this last pregnancy, we may have been able to save our son or at least prolong it until viability.
If you have any other questions, feel free to PM me.
Our baby boy,Logan, was born still at 19w3d on 7/1/2011
Our 2nd baby boy, Mason, was born still at 20w3d on 1/31/2012
After a much needed sanity break... we are praying for our rainbows
((BFP 7/29/13)) ((EDD 4/12/14)) It's BOY/GIRL twins!!!
I, too, had a ton of bleeding in the first tri (and once in the 2nd tri) with this pregnancy... (originally it was a twin preg) when I go in for my 4 week checkup, I think I am going to request they test me for bleeding disorders also. Thank you so much for the advice... it's seriously greatly appreciated.
Septated uterus, pcos (on metformin), MTHFR
Clomid # 1- July 2010 = BFN / #2 Sept 2010= BFN
IVF#1 - 1/2011 = BFN (Severe AF started 7dpo)
IVF#2 - 3/2011 = Ectopic
Aug 2011- FE - Thaw all - cancelled - embryos didn't make it!
Oct 2011 - IVF#3 = BFP!! ~ TWINS!!
Said goodbye to Twin B @ 9w5d
Hudson Edward ~ Pprom 18 wks 2/16/12 - We love you forever. You have our hearts.
8/15/12 5dFET = BFP! ~ Said goodbye at 7wks gestation
11/9/12 5dFET = BFP! ~ Said goodbye at 5wks gestation
12/28/12 - Septated Uterus Found (was misdiagnosed as bicornuate!)
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Jenn
IVF#1 BFN IVF#2 BFP, loss at 19 weeks FET#1 BFN IVF#3 BFP, m/c FET#2 BFN
Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10
BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11
Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11
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Congrats to Heatherhah! Baby girl has finally arrived!
Congrats to my Labor Buddy SouthernBellaKS
TTC Since 10/08 4 IUIs=BFNx4
IVF#1=BFP!! Twins!!
Bradley and Billy born and lost on 2/2/11 at 19w2d due to pPROM/PTL. I miss you, little angels.
IVF#2=BFN
IVF#3=c/p IVF#4=Empty Follicle Syndrome; 1 mature, fertilized, & made it to blast. 5dt of "the lone ranger" on 9/6. Please stick, little one!
I am just so sorry for all your losses. Just heartbreaking.
(((hugs)))
BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
Too beautiful for this earth
BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
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