Late Term and Child Loss

***update on careyalis*** (with pictures)

Hello Ladies,

Carey gave me permission to update you with everything. In her words:

"Everything was perfect. She is so beautiful and lived for a little over an hour.  Labor was quick and she never suffered. She cried little squeaky cries and opened her blue eyes.  All of our family was able to meet her and she passed peacefully in my arms.  It has been a wonderfully hard day, but everything went as good as it possibly could."

Below are a couple of pictures of the beautiful family:

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Please keep Carey, DH, and their families in your thoughts as they start the healing process.

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Re: ***update on careyalis*** (with pictures)

  • Wow, thanks for updating us!  My prayers are with her! 
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  • Those photos are beautiful, thank you so much for sharing Carey.  My thoughts and love continue to go out to your family on this day.  I'm so glad you got to hold your sweet angel before she passed and I hope you continue to find comfort on this board as you begin the grieving process.  Big huge hugs.
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  • I'm thankful that Carey got to spend time with Avery, hold her, hear her, and see the color of her eyes.  I love the pictures - she has the cutest little bum!  Thank you for sharing with us, Carey.  Thank you foxxy for keeping us updated.  
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  • I am glad they got to spend time with her. Thanks for sharing.
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  • Thank you for sharing this journey with us.  You have a beautiful family and I am so happy that you got the time you desperately needed with Avery.  My heart is with you and your family.
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  • Aww, such a beautiful family.  My prayers will be continueing for this family and I am so glad they got to spend some time with her before she grew wings.

     Our baby boy,Logan, was born still at 19w3d on 7/1/2011
    Our 2nd baby boy, Mason, was born still at 20w3d on 1/31/2012

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  • Wow, I am so, so glad they got to spend some time with Avery! To hold her, hear her little voice, see her eyes- all of those things will be precious, precious memories to cherish.

    Carey, she is just beautiful, you should be so proud! Sending lots of love to your whole family as you start the next part of your journey.

    Thanks for the update Foxxy!

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  • The pictures are wonderful. What a beautiful family. I am so happy they were able to spend time with Avery. What a blessing!! Thinking of them today!!!  

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  • OMG, what a beautiful momma, beautiful baby, and beautiful family pictures!!!  I'm in tears over how beautiful and tragic this is at the same time.  I'm so very happy that Carey had those precious moments with her angel!!!!
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  • Wow, Carey you looked so put together and composed! I am so happy for you and DH that you were able to spend time with Avery. She is beautiful.
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  • What a sweetie. Their family is in my prayers.
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  • Thank you for sharing that with us, Carey and thank you for updating is foxxy. The pictures are beautiful and so is Avery. Thoughts are with Carey and her family. Big hugs.
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  • Avery is precious!! What a sweet, sweet baby!! Carey I am thinking of you, hubby and sweet Avery. Big, big hugs.  

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  • Beautiful pictures! Thank you for sharing them with us. Keeping everyone in my thoughts tonight
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  • Thank you for sharing.   My prayers are with her and her family.   Bless that little Angel...
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  • Thank you so much for updating us and sharing pictures of beautiful Avery! I am so happy Carey got to hold Avery before she became a beautiful angel!
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  • Wow I'm an emotional mess right now. Thank you Carey for giving us the opportunity to see those pictures. Thank you foxxy for updating us. The pictures are beautiful and Avery is a beautiful baby . T&p for their whole family. I'm glad you got to meet Avery while she was still alive. Lots of hugs!
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  • Congrats Carey!  You and your whole family looks so beautiful, peaceful, and happy in these pictures.  I am glad that you got time with Avery before she passed away- and I am glad things went as well as could be expected in the situation.  I know the road ahead is not going to be easy, but I am glad you have these moments to look back on.  You had 31 weeks in pregnancy and an hour after birth- she only felt your love and now she is dancing with all our angels.  (((HUGE HUGS)))
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  • What a beautiful, beautiful baby. Thinking and praying for her and her entire family
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  • What absolutely beautiful pictures. I'm so glad you got to spend time with her. Thank you for sharing.
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  • Absolutely beautiful family.  Thank you for sharing, Carey.  Thinking of you and your family.
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  • I'm praying for their family.  Avery is so beautiful and that little bum!  Oh my goodness!  How adorable.  I just read her blog all the way through and she is such an amazing mother.  Broken Heart
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  • Carey, your little girl is beautiful and I love her sweet little bum~ Sending you, your DH and family many, many thoughts and prayers. We are here for you. (((HUGS))) and lots of love.
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  • The pics are beautiful, thanks for sharing them.  She is adorable and I love the one of her little bum. :)   I am so glad you got to spend time with her.  Thinking of you and your family.
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  • What a beautiful sweet girl and a beautiful family.  I am so, so glad you were able to have some time with her before she passed away.  Thank you for sharing her with us.  Thinking of you today as you start the next phase of this process.  We are here for you.  

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    We are so thankful that our second daughter, Lillian Elizabeth "Lily", was born healthy and happy on February 11, 2013.  We love her to pieces.  

    We lost our first daughter, Hannah Grace on May 4, 2011.  She was buried on May 14 during a beautiful service at my home church. We are grateful that if she could not be here with us, that she is healed and whole with the Lord. We look forward to the day when we will get to meet her. We love her so much.


  • She's so beautiful! I'm glad you were able to spend time with her. My T&PS are with you and your family now. ((HUGS))
    Dx: High FSH, stage IV endo, homozygous C677T MTHFR and PAI-1
    Early loss 10/08
    Lap 1/09
    IVF #1 "natural IVF" - 1 egg retrieved, missed m/c
    Tried several mini-stim cycles with no response
    Switched clinics - dx'd as carrier for Fragile X
    IVF #2 MDL protocol Jan/Feb converted to IUI, BFN
    IVF #2 take 2: Antagonist, one embie, BFN
    IVF #3: Antagonist, no fertilization
    One last ditch effort at OE IVF (antagonist with Clomid) cancelled
    DE cycle #1 Jan/Feb 2011, BFP, ectopic
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    DE cycle #3 June/July 2012 - BFP, twins, both heartbeats stopped, D&C
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  • Avery is beautiful. Carey, you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
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  • These are gorgeous.  ((Big hugs)) to Carey and family. 

    Thank you Foxxy for updating.  Let us know if you need anything Carey.

  • I am so glad everything went smoothly and you got to meet your beautiful daughter. I will keep your family in my prayers and you begin the healing process.
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  • Beautiful pictures. Many prayers and thoughts being sent to all of them.
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  • Thank you for sharing her beautiful photos.  T&P to careyalis and her family.
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
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  • She is absolutely gorgeous.

    Lots of T & Ps for you and your family during this time.  ((hugs))

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    Me: PCOS, Blood/Immune Issues DH: Low all 3
    Jun.- Sep. 2010 IUI#1-#3 = BFN
    Oct. 2010 = IVF #1 = B/G Twins (passed away Feb. 2011)
    May 2011 = Myomectomy and trans-abdominal cerclage (TAC)
    Sep. 2011 = Surprise BFP = C/P
    Feb. 2012 = sFET #1 = BFN
    Feb.2012 = Hail Mary IUI #4 = BFN
    April/May 2012 = FET #2 w/our last two embies = BFP (Please let this be it!)
    Beta #1 8dp5/6dt = 234 Beta #2 10dp5/6dt = 695 Beta #3 12dp5/6dt = 1796 Beta #4 17dp5/6dt = 17,888 U/S #1 May 17, 2012 = Twins
    Baby B's heart stop beating at 9 weeks 5 days
    Our little miracle baby is a boy. :)

    Baby Boy Owen and Baby Girl Avery were born too early on Feb. 13, 2011 due to a pedunculated fibroid, incompetent cervix and suspected placental abruption.
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