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Jenvy just kicked in...

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I finally lurked the PGAL board. I've never done it... and tonight I did. Now I'm super jenvious and kind of sad that we are all over here Sad
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  • Allycat11Allycat11 member

    ((hugs))

    The first time I went over there I cried my eyes out. I am getting more comfortable with it now though. 

    11/2010 Diagnosed with PCOS 
    10/31/11 M/C at 9 weeks
    1/12/13 DD was born
    4/9/16 DS was born 
    9/17 CP 
    6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19 

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    ((hugs))

    The first time I went over there I cried my eyes out. I am getting more comfortable with it now though. 

    I was definitely on the verge of tears. I'm so happy and jealous at the same time.

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  • Allycat11Allycat11 member
    Now I like lurking because it gives me hope.  All of those women have been in my shoes and they were able to get pregnant again. 
    11/2010 Diagnosed with PCOS 
    10/31/11 M/C at 9 weeks
    1/12/13 DD was born
    4/9/16 DS was born 
    9/17 CP 
    6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19 

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  • maxsommaxsom
    I do it often to check on graduates and check for new ones, but I'm starting to get jenvious as well to see my once fellow August moms posting bump pics and early gender announcements. 
    BFP #1 9-15-11; EDD 5-28-12. US 6w2d, growth

    BFP #2 12-6-11 and 12-7-11; EDD 8-17-12. US 6w6d measuring 5w6d. Misoprostol Assisted m/c 1-16-12 at 9w3d.

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  • AnoraStarAnoraStar

    imageAllycat11:
    Now I like lurking because it gives me hope.  All of those women have been in my shoes and they were able to get pregnant again. 

    I try to keep that in mind. Still...I feel a little jealous. I want my turn. :(

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  • jonesdouglasjonesdouglas

    Totally understand where your coming from especially when I see anything with an "August mom" heading.

    However, I always tell myself that those women, we're once in my shoes and soon I will be on PGAL.

    :) 

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  • jinxycat24jinxycat24

    I lurk there frequently to check on all the TTCAL graduates. I'm so happy for all of them but a little jenvious at the same time especially since some of us went over there at the same time and yet I'm back here and they're posting pics of their darling baby bumps.

    BUT I have to stay hopeful that someday we'll all be there. FX.

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  • nanabanana06nanabanana06

    imagemaxsom:
    I do it often to check on graduates and check for new ones, but I'm starting to get jenvious as well to see my once fellow August moms posting bump pics and early gender announcements. 

    This is me in a nutshell. I like to check up on the graduates. However, I do get a lot of Jenvy when I see bump pics and gender reveals for the ladies due in August. I should be there too. I once went back to my BMB and just about cried when I saw that almost all of them were in their second trimester. Though seeing the ladies on PgAL does give me hope. :) I cannot wait till I can join them. 

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  • pinktrojanbride120107pinktrojanbride120107 member
    I felt that way when I lurked on my old birth month board.  It just hurt so much. Hopefully we'll all be over there soon!
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  • melly918melly918 member

    I feel the same as you all. When I look over there I am surprised to see who is over there. I am sad they are not with us but we all do not want to be on here too. It is just a lot of mixed feelings.

    The ones that get me are the ones who were around when I joined TTCAL and I see how far along they are already and I am reminded of how long I have been struggling. 

    DS born 2009
    BFP#2 ~ 8/2/11, EDD 4/11/12, D&C 9/12/11 at 9w5d
    BFP#3 ~ 4/15/12, EDD 12/21/12 ~ DD born 12/22/12
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  • atmidwoodtobeatmidwoodtobe member
    It's definitely a bitter-sweet feeling. Bitter because I wish we weren't all here, but sweet because it gives me hope that one day I will be the re too. Hope that there is in fact life after TTCAL. **HUGS**
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  • tashpedetashpede member

    imageatmidwoodtobe:
    It's definitely a bitter-sweet feeling. Bitter because I wish we weren't all here, but sweet because it gives me hope that one day I will be the re too. Hope that there is in fact life after TTCAL. **HUGS**

    Exactly!

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  • minicheezburgminicheezburg member
    Aw honey, I lurk, I almost see it as a step towards healing. (((((HUGS)))))  
    Me(26)DH(33)
    TTC for #1 since Jan 2010
    BFP #1 Oct 1 2010 MC Oct 3 2010
    DX PCOS w/ AO Nov 2011
    3 rounds of Clomid all BFN
    BFP #2 10/12/12 Beta #1 45.1 Beta #2 160.7 * 2/27 diagnosed with IEF in utero.
    Dalaney born @ 35w2d via emergency C-section due to Pre-E after 30 hrs of labor & losing her HB twice. She weighed 5lbs 8oz & was 19in long on May 26th 2013 @ 605am

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  • lau1021lau1021 member
    true, I agree with a PP .. the 1st few times are really hard. But, eventually that sting will wear off. It will take some time ((BIG hugs))
    BFP #1 - 10/10/11, 1st U/S 12/5/11 @ 8w, BO discovered, d&c 12/9/11. HCG @ 0 - 1/4/11.
    BFP #2 - 04/04/12, 1st Beta @ 9DPO 19, 2nd Beta @ 13 DPO 168. 1st u/s - 4/30/12 - we have a heartbeat!!
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  • mijakachmijakach member
    I completely understand how you're feeling. I'm constantly lurking on PGAL. I always have weird feelings when I see new graduates. I get super giddy seeing those BFP announcements since I'm so happy for them. But then of course I get those feelings of "when will it be my turn?"
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    BFP #1 ~ EDD 5.20.2012 ~ MC 10.1.2011
    BFP #2 ~ EDD 11.15.2012 ~ CP 3.7.2012
    BFP #3 ~ DS born 12.03.2012

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  • graceb25graceb25
    Another would be august mom here..... i definitely feel the PGAL/BMB jenvy when I lurk... but it also makes me happy to see that people I remember going through so much rough stuff are on the other side now which gives me a lot of hope.
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