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thewife1101 · February 2012

I had my 8 week ultra sound yesterday, found out I had a miscarriage. It stopped growing I believe 2 weeks ago.

I'm calling my doctor tomorrow morning to get my d&e done.

It was a miracle thought for even getting pregnant because I was on the lupron shot.

I don't know what to do or say. I feel like a zombie.

Everyone keeps saying it's not my fault. So whose is it?

We didn't want to tell anyone I was pregnant until this ultra sound in the first place, but I had looked so very pregnant it would been impossible to hide it. I thought for once I had something good happen out of 4 years - that I should shed some good news for once.

Now I feel like I can't show my face. I hate even looking at my stomach or my maternity clothes.

What is the next step.

- Amanda

dandywarhol · February 2012

I'm so sorry for the loss of your little one. One of the most difficult things we have to accept is that it wasn't anyone's fault. This world is not fair and it sucks.

You might want to check out the Miscarriage/Pregnancy Loss board as it will have more women who have experienced an early loss. This board is for women who have had a later loss or experienced the death of a child. You are welcome to post here but I think the other board might offer you a bit more help.

thewife1101 · February 2012

oh thank you. i didn't know there was one until now. i always seem to post on the wrong board.

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