EMMA!
Sorry to vent about this but I need to let it out. This has been the name that we have had picked out for a while & now I'm not so sure anymore. I didn't like it then I did. I know it's VERY popular & that doesn't bother me but I personally don't know any IRL. I just wish I could decide whether I like/dislike it or just get SO to pick another name. Being 34 weeks I think our time has ran out to find anything else.
Re: I wish SO liked something other than...
There are worse names, honestly. Yes, it's incredibly popular. And yes, I think you WILL know 10 others after you choose it for your daughter (which has happened to us with Vivian). But your first child has a very popular but classic name, and I think Emma fits with it. If it's what you truly love, go for it.
That said, I think you still totally have time at 34 weeks. Have you played with nymbler? I went through about 10 pages of suggestions before I started finding a few I liked for this baby.
(read it. you know you want to.)
anderson . september 2008
vivian . february 2010
mabel . august 2012
ITA. Nymbler is a great site. I know Emma is pretty popular but I think it is a great name.
I think if you are unsure, you should continue your name search. That way, if you don't find something you like better than Emma, you might be more sure of your choice. If you do find something you like better, that's good too and you'll be glad you didn't settle.
Agree with the others on this - it is a very nice name - if it is the one you and H love, use it. If you really aren't sure - you should look around some more (you still have time!) and create lists you and H can go through. If you find something you like better - cool. If not, use Emma
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Psh, we didn't even DECIDE on DD's name until 34 weeks. I promise, time hasn't run out. Six weeks is plenty of time.
I think it's worth re-evaluating. Sometimes you have to compromise and use a name you like but don't love; however, the baby belongs to both of you, and you get equal say.
ETA: I meant to say, we didn't even come up with DD's name. Definitely didn't decide until she was born.