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Reached out to my pg friend finally

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I have a friend who is due about a month after I was. I've only seen her once since my loss and it was really hard. She has been in touch but I can tell she's holding back a bit since she probably feels awkward.

She sent me a birthday card this week so I took her cue. I just texted her & said thanks for the card, I miss her & I hope all is well. Then I said I hope everything is going okay w/ the pregnancy and that I wish I could check in on her more but it is hard. I mentioned that my due date is approaching and it's hard to not think of what could have been, but that I genuinely hope everything is going well for her & the baby. I said that I hope she can forgive me if I am being a bad friend.

I feel like I swallowed a big girl pill! Kind of proud of myself. I hope it is received well.
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  • LuckEinLuvLuckEinLuv member
    I am so proud of you!  
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  • krysiahamatykrysiahamaty
    That was very strong of you. Hugs.
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  • magdalina.hmagdalina.h member
    Good job
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  • Jackie2200Jackie2200 member
    That's great.  Very mature.  I wish I had the strength...I have avoided everyone and everything pregnancy since my loss.  I barely have a friend left and haven't spoken to my sister since she had her baby in August... :/

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  • MandynStephenMandynStephen member

    That is great that you were able to do that!

    My sister (who I am very close with) is pregnant and due about a month after my EDD as well.  It is hard and I know that come July when she has her baby, I will be happy for her, but sad at the same time.  It just stinks!!

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  • Petunia844Petunia844 member
    Good job!!
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  • foxxy1foxxy1 member
    That was very awesome of you! Seriously. You should be very proud on how you handled it. 
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  • pottermommypottermommy member
    I am so proud of you! That was a huge step.  Be proud of yourself and if she is half as good a friend as you are she doesn't think you are being a bad friend.  I am sure she understands.
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