I have a friend who is due about a month after I was. I've only seen her once since my loss and it was really hard. She has been in touch but I can tell she's holding back a bit since she probably feels awkward.
She sent me a birthday card this week so I took her cue. I just texted her & said thanks for the card, I miss her & I hope all is well. Then I said I hope everything is going okay w/ the pregnancy and that I wish I could check in on her more but it is hard. I mentioned that my due date is approaching and it's hard to not think of what could have been, but that I genuinely hope everything is going well for her & the baby. I said that I hope she can forgive me if I am being a bad friend.
I feel like I swallowed a big girl pill! Kind of proud of myself. I hope it is received well.
Re: Reached out to my pg friend finally
***Congratulations to my TTCAL buddy Roxyttandme!! It's a GIRL!! Charlotte arrived on 9/29!!!!***
PGaL/PAL Always Welcome!!
TTC Since 10/08 4 IUIs=BFNx4
IVF#1=BFP!! Twins!!
Bradley and Billy born and lost on 2/2/11 at 19w2d due to pPROM/PTL. I miss you, little angels.
IVF#2=BFN
IVF#3=c/p IVF#4=Empty Follicle Syndrome; 1 mature, fertilized, & made it to blast. 5dt of "the lone ranger" on 9/6. Please stick, little one!
That is great that you were able to do that!
My sister (who I am very close with) is pregnant and due about a month after my EDD as well. It is hard and I know that come July when she has her baby, I will be happy for her, but sad at the same time. It just stinks!!
Married the love of my life 7/11/09 - Our first baby, Peyton Mark, was born sleeping 10/25/11 at 33 weeks - Our second baby, BFP 2/4/12, welcome to the world Raylan! Holy Moly, BPF 2/4/14, please be safe and sound little one!
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