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My mom called a psychic...

Allie-JoAllie-Jo member
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Now, I LOVE psychics!  I love watching them or listening to them.  I mostly like people connecting about the past with loved ones who have died.  It's my favorite thing in the world.  However, my mom's call to the psychic kinda has me depressed now.

 My mom had asked about me, and when I would wind up pregnant.  She was told I would wind up pregnant in december.  Now, if I was just the average 24 year old banging it out with DH every month, I would ALMOST be ok with this.  But I'm not.  I invest about $500 every month for medicated cycles.  I will be moving to IUIs after the cycle after this, not to mention an HSG in my future.  It seems stupid to just say "to h*ll with" and not continue treatments because a psychic says it wont happen for 10 months...BUT REALLY?!  I hate the thought of putting all this money down the drain for nothing, the only thing that keeps me going every month is thinking "potentially, this may be the last month."

So now that I am all h*ll-bent on proving this psychic wrong, I know IF I do wind up pregnant before December, on top of the impending doom I will get thinking that it will end like the other two, it will be in the back of my mind that it wont be a take home baby because it isnt December yet...

I know Im sounding crazy, I just hate the 2ww and this one has so much added pressure as we  are now staring IUI in the face...pardon my ramblings.  I would give you chocolate and  wine for getting this far, but I am on my phone at work...

TTC since June 2009 DX: PCOS October 2010
6 medicated cycles, 2 pregnancies, 1 ectopic April 2011, Early Miscarriage August 2011
7 more cycles, 1 IUI, No success after last pregnancy
7/1/2012 No more fertility coverage
8/17/2012 started pursuing domestic infant adoption!
11/26/2012 HOME STUDY APPROVED!!!
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Re: My mom called a psychic...

  • VikingQueenVikingQueen member
    ((hugs)) I love psychics too but I would take what they say with a grain of salt.. The reading I got about 3 months after C left said I would be back with him and pregnant by December 2011.. obviously I'm not. It's fun and it gives you hope but not always right. I would continue on with your treatments and hopefully you get your BFP and take home baby soon!
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  • TA110980TA110980 member

    imageVikingQueen:
    I love psychics too but I would take what they say with a grain of salt..

    ^^ This. Sorry the psychic didn't have better predictions, but I would try not to take it too seriously.  Big ((HUGS)) coming your way. 

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    BFP#1 - 09/12/11, EDD 5/18/12 - Stopped growing at 6w3d, m/c induced 10/14/11
    BFP#2 - 04/01/12, EDD 12/12/12, Arrived 12/4/12!!
    BFP#3 - 12/31/13, EDD 09/10/14 - Grow baby, grow!

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  • Allycat11Allycat11 member
    Sorry that you didn't hear what you wanted to, but I would take it with a grain of salt. ((hugs))
    11/2010 Diagnosed with PCOS 
    10/31/11 M/C at 9 weeks
    1/12/13 DD was born
    4/9/16 DS was born 
    9/17 CP 
    6/23/18 BFP EDD 3/4/19 

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  • panacea05panacea05 member
    Like PP's said, please try not to take the psychic's words to heart. I'll be praying that you get your BFP waaaaay before December. (Hugs)
    It was a rough road, but Arlo Daniel was born April 1, 2013—and our second rainbow is due October 12, 2014.
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  • raashtonraashton member
    I'm so sorry that she didn't have something better for you.  However, I've noticed that conception is just one of those crazy things that are hard to pin down.  I've gone to see a reader quite a few times and while 90% of what she said was scarily spot on, her timings of my first pregnancy was not- well, it kinda was, she said I would be announcing a pregnancy in March, it could still technically happen, I am not putting all my eggs into that basket. 
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  • mrsashleynmrsashleyn
    Maybe she means you will HAVE your baby in december :P I hope she's wrong and you get your rainbow wayyyy before December
    Me 24 DH 26 Happily married since September 2005 BFP #1 August 2007 CP 5.5 weeks BFP #2 Jan 2011 MMC found 10w D&C March 2011 at 10w5d BFP #3 2-25-12 EDD 11-5-12 DX PCOS, Factor V Leiden- Prenatals, Metformin 1000 mg daily and Lovenox 40 mg daily
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