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C/P: Would you ever...

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  • kcisthebombdotcomkcisthebombdotcom member
    I would if one of my 3 closest friends couldnt get pregnant or family only.
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  • ffejsGirlffejsGirl
    I would gladly do it for any of my sisters. As long as DH had no objections I would be happy to do it for any of my 4 close friends. To clarify, DH and I would have to agree on it. It would mean a big commitment for our family. When you consider the possibility of multiples or any other number of complications that could result in bed rest, loss of pay etc.
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  • CaniacMomCaniacMom member

    If I had know how easily I could carry a baby I would have probably done this years ago.  I am getting to the age that they probably would not let me.  Plus I have Type II Diabetes.  So while I had an incredibly healthy pregnancy with Joshua I don't think anyone would want to use my ute for their baby.

    I think I would rather carry for someone that I don't know that well.  My brother & his wife can't seem to get pregnant and I would have a hard time volunteering to do this for them because I know they would not raise the baby/child in any way that I find acceptable.  If it was someone I did not know well I could probably do better because i would not be so busy judging them. 

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  • SweetHurricaneSweetHurricane member

    I would for my sister in a hearbeat. Anyone else (even for money), I'd really have to think about. My first pregnancy was really rough and I'm not sure I'd want to risk that happening again. I think I'd need to know that DH would be home the entire time. I don't think I could handle being pregnant while chasing around 2U2.

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  • RedZeeRedZee member
    I'm having a hard enough time thinking of going through pregnancy again for us to have another kid. I'm not sure I could really handle it emotionally either.
         
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  • freeatlast2014freeatlast2014 member

    I chose SS because I really don't know. It would be a tough decision to consider, my DH would have to be on board, and it would have to be the right circumstance for both me and the mother. Not sure what the "right" circumstance would have to be though. 

    No idea. 

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  • broccolitreebroccolitree
    I have a gay friend I was seriously mulling over surrogating (is that a word?) for and donating an egg to, but since I got cholestasis the first time around it's pretty much a horrible idea.
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  • Doodle2011Doodle2011
    I'm too old for anyone to want me to, but I would for close friends or family.  I liked being pregnant.  To be able to help someone I love become a parent would be a pretty awesome feeling.
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  • jcole32444jcole32444
    I loved being pregnant and in general had a very easy, healthy pregnancy with a very healthy baby. I would do it, but H and I have already had this talk. And he said he would never be ok with it. So it will probably never be somthing I do.
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  • MrsHollywood1023MrsHollywood1023
    If I had a sister or someone I thought of as a sister then I would.  I think it would be an amazing, selfless thing to do for someone but I know I would get attached to the baby and would want to be able to watch it grow and learn so I couldn't just do it for anyone.
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