I am sad.. (baby mentioned)

VikingQueen · February 2012

C's little brother's 1st birthday is today and I hate that I haven't seen him in over 6 months.. I love that little boy to death.. I love C's dad and have really became good friends with his stepmom after we sorted out our issues when she was pregnant. I feel like I am missing a whole side of my family thanks to our seperation.. I just keep thinking how everything is so different this year than it was last year.. how we were all excitedly awaiting the arrival of my little brother in law.. and how bittersweet it was when he got here because I should have been 8 months pregnant. I think that plays a factor too.. that in just a month I should be celebrating Shiloh's first birthday.. that they should have been best friends growing up and I feel like I have hardly anything now.. no husband, no baby.. everything changed in such a short year..

smcjmk09 · February 2012

Sending hugs - sorry for your sadness. It's hard to avoid that "I remember when" type of thinking sometimes. I think anytime we experience a loss of any kind (marriage, m/c, death, etc....) it's human nature to have those memories fill us up at times. I have no words of solace but just want ya to know you're not alone. Sending good thoughts.

lebongo · February 2012

smcjmk said it so well....

((((hugs)))) and T&Ps coming your way

raashton · February 2012

I am so very sorry sweetie.

It is perfectly natural for you to feel what you are feeling right now. And it sucks ball sacks. I wish there was some magic cure that I could give.

Hugs and love to you today.

angielayne926 · February 2012

So sorry you're sad hun. ((((HUGS))))

mijakach · February 2012

I am so sorry you're having these emotions right now. Unfortunately, we all reach those crappy points in our lives. But it will get better! You're a strong girl, so I know you'll make it through all of this. ((Hugs))

JimiKirkman · February 2012

(((GINORMOUS SQUISHY HUGS))) My T&P are with you as you cope through these emotions. I wish so much I could take away the pain. You deserve so much more than this drama and pain.

VikingQueen · February 2012

Thanks ladies.. It's just so hard to deal with. I was a huge part of baby J's life for 6 months and then suddenly I don't see them anymore. I still talk to C's dad and stepmom from time to time but I don't ever get a chance to see them and it sucks.. cause they are my family, they were a huge part of my life. We would spend every weekend with them and then suddenly there is nothing.. just because I think we don't want to make it weird, ykwim? Like if I'm over there and C shows up or something like that..

aussiedaze · February 2012

((HUGS HUGS)) I'm sorry you're missing them.

shanrob · February 2012

{{HUGS}}. That's tough. Lots of emotions going on, for sure. But, just think: if things changed so drastically in one year, imagine what things could be like for you next year if things go your way. Another {{HUG}}

FreyaWin2382 · February 2012

((Hugs))

QuigleyCat1 · February 2012

I'm sorry VQ! ((HUGS))

thatlauragirl · February 2012

((hugs)) You're an incredibly strong person and I'm so sorry you're dealing with so much stuff. I really hope there's tons and tons of happiness just around the corner for you!

atmidwoodtobe · February 2012

I'll be praying for you today. These milestone are definitely the hardest part of this whole process Just remember you are a strong and beautiful woman and even though it may not seem like it now, things will get better!

**HUGS**

ashpink25 · February 2012

Oh VQ I am so very sorry. I wish I could say or do something to fix it. All I can offer is ((hugs)) and to let you know I'm here for you whenever you want/need to vent. I hope something happens today that will brighten your day....

lau1021 · February 2012

(( big hugs )) - I think we all have these days .. those "what if" days. Its hard to get passed them. i do not know much about your background and info but from reading all your posts these past few weeks it sounds like you are a super strong woman. ((big big hugs))

raashton · February 2012

Honestly, if you want to see them, I see no problem with you extending the invitation to meet up with them. I would just make it clear that you don't want a run in with C.

I grew very close to my first boyfriend's mother. After we broke up, I continued to visit her often, just made sure he was not going to be home, and she respected that. However, when he started dating someone knew, I kinda of backed off as I didn't want it to be an issue between him, his mom, and the new girlfriend. I'm still friends with her on FB and send her messages.

It's a little unorthodox, but not crazy or unheard of.

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RizzaTs · February 2012

(((hugs)))

I'm sorry, VQ. You've got brighter days ahead. Hang in there.

Sunrise6 · February 2012

I just wanted to stop in and give you a huge squishy bear hug

I'm so sorry that so much has changed for you in just a year

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