I have a friend and her boyfriend wants her to only adopt. Not because it's the nice thing to do but because he doesn't want her ruining her body! That really made me angry. Does pregnancy really ruin your body that much? I've seen many women that have had babies and when they exercise and eat right their bodies look fantastic. I guess I'm venting because that is so rude of a man to say and how can he actually be in love with her and say that. I'm also wondering is it really impossible to get your body back?