Is anyone else having the most intense orgasms ever? My first trimester was a special kind of hell, but I would do this whole pregnancy thing again just for the super-charged orgasms.
You can get "hell yeah, amen!" from me. I'll never forget the O's I had when pg with DD. It was like the tightest, most intense sex ever!! Now we can't do it due to spotting and my hypersensitive cervix. : ( Sad.
I'm still not nearly at my pre-PG level of sex drive, but it's definitely better than the first trimester. I explained to my manfriend like this: it's not that I'm uninterested in sex, or that I find him less attractive, it's more like...my body feels preoccupied. It's like you're juggling and someone comes up and asks you for a high five. It's like "yeah, man, I LOVE high fives and you're awesome, but I'm kinda busy right now." It feels like going from work mode to play mode and it's a huge leap. But since my body is ALWAYS in work mode now, I'm trying to find a way to make pregnancy compatible with feeling sexy. I always thought I would be one of those women for whom it came naturally, feeling sexy during pregnancy, but not so much. I don't feel gross or unattractive, just...distracted by the weird science experiment my body has become.
I think maybe the more I get used to being pregnant, and certainly in subsequent pregnancies, it might feel less distracting and leave more room to concentrate on normal body functions like sex.
And with the delivery trifecra of one twin vaginal, one c-section with general anesthesia for twin B, Spencer and Sidney joined us at 35 weeks exactly on June 18.
Some are intense and some are almost non-existent. Maybe TMI but I was done in about 3 min in missionary the other day with a huge O and DH was like "really already" it was kinda funny.
Actually just this last week my sex drive has come back, much to my hubby's delight! I have found it;s easier then ever to orgasm now then before and I've never had trouble orgasming with hubby. so yes better than ever!! I hope this lasts!
AMEN!!!!!!! For the first time ever, I'm able to orgasm from intercourse alone! Plus, now that I'm not exhausted and vomiting all the time, my sex drive has cranked back up. I am definitely enjoying this!
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I'm still not nearly at my pre-PG level of sex drive, but it's definitely better than the first trimester. I explained to my manfriend like this: it's not that I'm uninterested in sex, or that I find him less attractive, it's more like...my body feels preoccupied. It's like you're juggling and someone comes up and asks you for a high five. It's like "yeah, man, I LOVE high fives and you're awesome, but I'm kinda busy right now." It feels like going from work mode to play mode and it's a huge leap. But since my body is ALWAYS in work mode now, I'm trying to find a way to make pregnancy compatible with feeling sexy. I always thought I would be one of those women for whom it came naturally, feeling sexy during pregnancy, but not so much. I don't feel gross or unattractive, just...distracted by the weird science experiment my body has become.
I think maybe the more I get used to being pregnant, and certainly in subsequent pregnancies, it might feel less distracting and leave more room to concentrate on normal body functions like sex.
OMG....I died when I read your juggling metaphor.. thank you for that...hilarious. I was having such a blah day, and I am in tears from laughter now.
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I'm still not nearly at my pre-PG level of sex drive, but it's definitely better than the first trimester. I explained to my manfriend like this: it's not that I'm uninterested in sex, or that I find him less attractive, it's more like...my body feels preoccupied. It's like you're juggling and someone comes up and asks you for a high five. It's like "yeah, man, I LOVE high fives and you're awesome, but I'm kinda busy right now." It feels like going from work mode to play mode and it's a huge leap. But since my body is ALWAYS in work mode now, I'm trying to find a way to make pregnancy compatible with feeling sexy. I always thought I would be one of those women for whom it came naturally, feeling sexy during pregnancy, but not so much. I don't feel gross or unattractive, just...distracted by the weird science experiment my body has become.
I think maybe the more I get used to being pregnant, and certainly in subsequent pregnancies, it might feel less distracting and leave more room to concentrate on normal body functions like sex.
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And with the delivery trifecra of one twin vaginal, one c-section with general anesthesia for twin B, Spencer and Sidney joined us at 35 weeks exactly on June 18.
amen with 1st pregnancy. So far, not as intense this time sadly.
DD 1/29/07 -
I'm with you guys - I've always had the higher sex drive, but now with schedule issues, we're lucky with once a week. But boy is it GOOD!
JodieLyn, if you've got a secret to all those multiples, I'm all ears
OMG....I died when I read your juggling metaphor.. thank you for that...hilarious. I was having such a blah day, and I am in tears from laughter now.
You put it perfectly. Im going to have to borrow that