Having a boy! What can I expect?

giggles09 · February 2012

We just found out today that #2 is a little boy! We are so happy! But I'm curious what you seasoned moms and dads can tell me, especially when it comes to the differences between boys and girls. Do you think there are major differences regarding behavior, your own experiences, etc., or not really?

Beth1031 · February 2012

I am a FTM having a boy, but I work with young kids.... boys tend to take longer to potty train (on average, and from my experience anyway).

I will be watching this to see what others say I'm in for!

Tash13 · February 2012

For them to pee on your. And in the yard. And in the tub. And in a water bottle if you're stuck in traffic and can't get to the bathroom fast enough.

trish051003 · February 2012

My sons are very active and have a lot of energy. I don't give them sugar - if someone does - I'm not responsible for their actions : )

They play wrestle and love sports and action and dirt. They also love their mommies and give kisses and cuddles. Adorable!

But I'm excited for my girl too!!!

Meg&Jesse · February 2012

I love, love, love having a boy! He is energetic and always on the go. He is very hands on when playing and loves to get dirty. We are outside all the time, digging in the dirt and getting messy. He also has a sensitive side and can be super sweet. There are so many things I love about having a boy (although I do think you are happy no matter what....if I had a girl I could be saying the same thing!).

reinedecajun · February 2012

There great until they hit 14 then the hormones are murder..then they even out at 16 and they love you again Cool

LOL

JG362009 · February 2012

My only experience is with boys and it's awesome. They are so sweet, and absolutely adore their moms. I've never been peed on, either, and my little guy is so sweet and gentle with everything. Our daycare teacher told us last week that he was rocking the baby dolls in their room to sleep. He's a total sweetheart.

CLeigh03 · February 2012

Boys are ACTIVE. I did not sit from when my son was 18 months to 3.5 years. Literally did not sit, and ran most places (after him). He calmed down a bit after 3.5. Also? He is the love if my life. Boys LOVE their moms! Oh and he potty trained himself at 3. Don't push it - I literally didn't do a thing.

brideofscowboy · February 2012

Busy, busy, busy, busy, a complete blast, your #1 little big man, they make you feel like a kid again, and I agree with PP, they LOVE their moms!

AmberMH08 · February 2012

be prepared for your best friend to be born... your buddy for life he may not want to go shopping but he will be there to listen as u get older... there to love u and protect u when no one else is there to... my son is 3 but he is sweet and loving... and i see my little brother who is 15 the way he is so close with my mom its awsome... my DD is 8 already getting moody and distant...and thinks im sooo lame lovely

so it is alot different but its well worth any extra potty training or wrestleing roughness you may have to go thru...

pixieprincss · February 2012

I have worked with hundreds of kids over many years and yes--there are differences between boys and girls (both documented in child development research and antecdotal). That said, in terms of parenting--I like to not focus on that knowledge and instead focus on who my child is. For example, I have a little boy who is not a risk-taker. He has a larger vocabulary than the standard for a 1-year old. He like to play with his toy 'baby'. He's able to communicate some of his bathroom needs. Those are all things that generalizations tell us are less likely for boys, yet there he is. All boy and all himself!

Now, I in no way have any reason to believe that you won't parent to who your child is, but I wanted to write because sometime posts like this lead to gender stereotyping and I think it is always nice to have another perspective in the mix.

Really, I think the only initial parenting decision that is different with a boy than a girl is that you have to decide if you will circumcise him or not.

giggles09 · February 2012

Thanks for all the advice!! Many of you brought a tear to my eye and some laughter too!! And of course I worry that i won't have enough energy to keep up with another little monster around here, especially if he's more energetic than my dd! I appreciate what PP said about not stereotyping too. A great point! I try to do the same with my dd - parent the child, not the gender. But still, all great advice and I can't wait to meet my son! Thanks!

Blue990 · February 2012

Well I have only had 10 mos but they sure do love their mommas! He is definitely very attached to me. He loves to throw his toys around and be rough already. He peed on me many times when he was a newborn but as long as it wasn't in my mouth then it was okay! lol

Sawyerplus1 · February 2012

Congrats on your baby boy!

My DS is definitely more of a challenge than my DD. His 'terrible 2s' lasted from about 1 year old to recently at 3 years old. He's incredibly active, curious, hands-on, and dependent. He's goofy and funny, and doesn't really like to cuddle (esp. with momma). He's a good kid and little boys are definitely a fun handful.

In contrast, DD is a lot more independent. She walked and talked earlier (mind you, DS has a severe speech delay), likes to read and play with babies. She is also very active though and can keep up quite well with her big bro. They're great friends and I love to see it (Not sure how much of their differences have to do with gender, and how much they have to do with birth order, b/c that definitely plays a role.)

ChubbyCheekiesMom · February 2012

Sure, I think boys and girls are different beyond penis and vagina. But not in an totally obvious way. I really think it's how you raise your own child. My son is ALL boy, he's a daddy's boy. He loves cars, boxing, soccer, football, Marines, and me of course. He is a spitting image of his father. We totally work with him on the things he loves most. My son never sits, he is always playing, running, jumping and being active unless he is eating or sleeping. He farts like a little man, and thinks it's hilarious even though I tell him it's not. He's strong willed, stubborn, independent, and loving. But I guarantee a mother of a little girl could say the same about her daughter!

shanpren · February 2012

DS is full of energy (even worse when he's overtired). He LOVES cuddling and giving hugs. He's crazy smart and always eager to learn something. And he would choose his mommy over anyone!

I only have my niece to compare him to, but the major differences I've noticed are less sassy mouth with DS and that she plays more independently that DS. Of course, the parenting styles are different so it's hard to compare apples to apples.

Boys are a ton of fun!

EDIT: Don't be worried that you won't have a shopping buddy. I've trained DS to love the mall! It helps that they have a playground, ride on toys, a target, etc, but he's content shopping with me for a couple of hours.

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