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List of Desired Qualities?

Have any of you made a list of what qualities you want in a future partner/boyfriend/husband? I'm trying to make a list of things important to me in a relationship and I'm sure I am missing some important ones.
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Re: List of Desired Qualities?

  • Everytime I try that, I leave something critical off. This time, I left off: accepts me for me and is not a bigger girl than I am.

    Truthfully, no. I have a handful of things that are nonnegotiable: religion, views on abortion and gay marriage, has to believe the space program is real (my fathers friend was an astronaut), cannot be intimidated by a strong woman, must be as smart or smarter or nearly as smart as me (I hate not being able to carry an intelligent conversation with someone). 

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  • I have a list of undesired qualities. Everything my STBXH is. LMFAO!

    Honestly I'm really starting to believe I'm better off alone. I hate relationship drama.

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  • imageDHYGchica3:

    I have a list of undesired qualities. Everything my STBXH is. LMFAO!

    Honestly I'm really starting to believe I'm better off alone. I hate relationship drama.

    Ugghh..this! Me too lol.

    One of my things is he must be sweet and generous because that's the way I am. My ex is the biggest effin miser! I hated that about him grrr.  And if he did something for you, you better gotdamned well have a shiny trophy made for him, inscribed with all the compliments and praises that he is owed and entitled to!!!Ick!

  • Keep up or get out of my way.

    I told him that on our first date, and well, see ticker...he's kept up. 

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  • Not exactly a list, but there are some things I won't put up with as in dealbreakers.  Mainly I desire someone who will enhance my life.  And since it's pretty fantastic already that's going to be a bit of a tall order (although I am sure there is someone out there that fits the bill). 
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  • My grandma once told me that the number one most important quality in a man is HONESTY. It took me awhile to understand that, but as long as you are with someone who is honest, you shouldn't have any drama, insecurity, jealousy, etc.

    Of course I also wanted someone who's kind and smart and funny, but I think if you make honesty your first priority, you won't wind up in a bad situation anyways.

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    Keep up or get out of my way.

    I told him that on our first date, and well, see ticker...he's kept up. 

    I love this!!!!!  Yes

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