this question is prob asked so many times. I am anxious and really starting to get nervous. I am not a wimp by any means but I am def hoping I can handle this. I am just starting to get scared. I have never been in the hospital before for anything. I was just curious on others laboring times, maybe it will make me feel better that there will be an end in site
Re: Second time moms - how long was your labor ?
Bubblegum Explosion
Lost our first angel, 10/24/08 7w6d
Proud mama to Cameron
Lost our second angel, 2/16/11 8w
Proud mama to Melanie
I was induced at 40 weeks 2 days. I was already 3 cm/50-75% effaced, but he hadn't dropped much.
Anyway, the pit started at 12:30 pm, they broke my water at 2:30 pm, and DS arrived at 3:43 AM. So ~15-16 hours on induction.
However, EVERY woman is different, and every labor is different. I think the biggest thing is to just go with it...
Of course like everything in pregnancy, it can vary greatly.
I went to the hospital around 8:30pm and was 3-4 cm. They made me walk for a couple hours until I was a definite 4cm and her head was engaged. By that point it was 11pm and I was in pain. I ended up having her at 7:58am so I was in active labor for 9 hours. This is pretty average for a labor.
2pm- water broke (slow leak that I thought was pee)
6-7pm- back labor started, still wasn't sure I was in labor
11pm- pitocin started (only dilated to 2cm), got epi
5am- 10cm, started pushing
7:30am- DD was born.
So, about 15.5 hours, but it certainly wasn't hard work until the pushing because of the epi.
My Wedding Bio!
12:30am on April 6 - Went into labor with immediate painful contractions - only 1/2 centimeter dilated
1pm - Only 1 cm dilated/ Got Epidural w/pitocin
11:30pm - Started pushing
12:18am on April 7- My son was born after about 45 mins of pushing. (His hand was up on his head so that made it more difficult to push him out.)
So I'd say a good 24 hours of labor and that doesn't include the contractions I had the day before...
I had my membranes swept Monday around noon and contractions started around 6pm. Labored at home all night.
Tuesday morning around 8:30am we got to the hospital.
DS was born Wednesday morning 12:40am after 3.5hrs of pushing.
I had an appt at 4 pm, and I was dilated to 5 cm so they kept me at the hospital. I didn't really feel my contractions until they broke my water at 7 pm, and DS was born at 11:23 pm. I pushed for 1.5 hours.
So in total of me actually feeling it, 4.5 hours
My first contraction was at 1am & I delivered at 5pm.... so 16 hours
edit: I pushed for 20 minutes (but only during contractions)
m/c '08 DS born 8-13-09 2 m/c in '11
When I woke up for the morning, I lost my MP and had bloody show. I was also continuing to have contractions. I spent the morning running errands (yes, knowing I was in early labor). I came home and had an early light lunch.
Contractions continued to get longer, stronger, and closer together. At 5 pm, I threw up (as I started heading into transition, most likely). This is when I would have headed to the hospital had I been birthing there. (We had a homebirth.)
I had my only internal at 7:30 pm when I demanded to be taken to the hospital for relief - at which point I was fully dilated. It was another hour or so before I really had an urge to push. I then pushed for 2 hours.
J. was born around 11 pm. So that's about 24 hours after my first contraction. But really, it was only hard work for about 6-7 hours.
I had mild contractions all day Monday but didn't pay attention to them because they didn't bother me at all- just thought they were BH's. When we got home from the mall it was about 9, I went to bed at 10:30 thinking "Man, if these keep up I might need to time them!". Didn't sleep and got out of bed at 11:30 to time them. By then they were getting hard to talk through, but not exactly painful. (Not as much as everyone had told me they'd be.) We arrived at L&D at 1am and I had my beautiful little man at 9:35 am after 20 minutes of pushing.
I would consider my labor 'active' for about 10-12 hours.
From the time my water broke to fully dilated was only 4 hours. I pushed for almost 3 hours though then ended up with a c-section so I guess about 8 hours total.
I promise there is an end in sight! Once you are in the moment, you really aren't thinking about how long it's been, you are just excited to see that baby
Good luck!