TTC After a Loss 6 Months+

I don't know what to say...(Surprise BFP)

I am sitting here and not knowing what to say or how to say it, especially after my post the other day about DH not wanting to do IVF and my anger and sadness.  You all showed me so much of your love and support.

I realized that I should have started or getting really close to AF coming. I haven't been tracking since we were told we were done.  I had an extra HPT and it always makes me feel better, or stop obsessing about it, when I see "not pregnant".   But I didn't see that this time.  I am pregnant....today....and totally shocked.  

When I had my post op laparoscopic appt my RE told us getting pregnant naturally would be almost impossible since my left tube was totally blocked, and my right tube was not totally blocked, but "abnormal" so it wasn't impossible.  I had accepted the fact that it wasn't going to happen naturally.  Plus the fact that we've been trying for over a year without getting pregnant, losing 2 babies in 2 years prior to that and being 38...IVF was the way to go.  I pray this pregnancy doesn't end like my other 2. 

I totally understand if y'all never want to see or hear from me again.  I hope this post is not upsetting to you.  I feel so foolish for making that post just a few days before my BFP, but I had no idea and I was so sad.  I love you girls.  There isn't many people you can talk to who actually understands what you are going through...this board gave me "friends" to talk to, cry with, and the support we all need.

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GEAUX TIGERS!!!

1st pregnancy: BFP- 6/28/09 - Found out we lost our little girl on 10/9/09 at 19w 4d - D&E- 10/14/09

June 2010, corrective surgery for Septate Uterus and large fibroids

2nd pregnancy: BFP- 10/18/10 - Slow rising, non-doubling HCGs, no heart beat. Non-viable pregnancy, D&C- 11/12/10

Started Metformin 6/30/11, Started Clomid 7/20/11 - Unsuccessful

HSG and Laparoscopic surgery revealed blocked tubes and lots of scar tissue...IVF here we come!!!

Surprise BFP naturally!!! IT'S A BOY!!!

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Re: I don't know what to say...(Surprise BFP)

  • That's wonderful news!  Congratulations!  
    3 ectopic pregnancies (EDD's 1/30/12-tube removed, 6/2/12-methotrexate and 10/2/12-methotrexate)
    IVF and Natural FET resulted in BFN's and a hole in our wallets
    Natural BFP #4 on 9/7/12 gave us our miracle on 5/18/13
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  • This is 100% wonderful news!!!! Congratulations! Happy and healthy pregnancy!
    TTC #1 since January 2011
    BFP#1 April 12, 2011, EDD December 24, 2011, strong heart beat at 7w3d, d&c at 10w6d
    BFP#2 Oct 24, 2011, natural miscarriage, EDD unknown
    After RPL testing my losses and subsequent infertility are considered unexplained.
    Cycle #22: Femara, TI, and progesterone = BFP!! 
    BFP#3 Dec 21, 2012. Beta #1 @14dpo = 134, progesterone 67.8. Beta #2 @ 17dpo = 664! Team green, EDD 9/1/13, healthy baby boy born 9/12/13!
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    Congratulations to the fabulous KGS2003! Her sweet boys are here! Grow boys grow!!!
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    Woot woot!!!! So happy for you hon! H&H 9 months!! 

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  • CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!! Happy & Healthy 9 months!!!!!!! much sticky dust!!!!
  • So happy for you hon!  Congrats!

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    This is so exciting. Congratulations! I have to say that this pregnancy was the one that happened when we had a canceled IUI due to failure to respond, a high prolactin level that was too high and could cause anovulation, and then we were doing IVF the following month. I was so sad and frustrated that it was all happening and then I got pregnant. 31 weeks later I'm sitting here with fingers crossed for you!

  • OMG, OMG!!! I am so happy for you!!!! This is incredible news!!!

     I thought we'd be doing IVF this summer for sure - so I was so shocked when our last cycle worked as well. It is scary, but we just have to hope and pray that things work out. 

    This is just great news!!! 

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  • Great news!!! Congrats! Wishing you a happy and healthy 9 months!
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    No longer trying to conceive at all.
    BFP #1 12/1/02 DD born 7/25/03 
    BFP #2 7/23/10 EDD 3/30/11 m/c 8/17/10 We will always miss you Angelique Marie! 
     BFP #3 4.13.11 EDD 12.18.11 m/c 5/13/11 d&c 5/18/11 We will always miss you Sprout Ryker! 
     Lucky Lee (furbaby) born 1.29.12 
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    Missing our twins Zachary and Madison, lost at 19 weeks on 11/13/09, edd 4/9/10

    BFP 7/17/10, m/c 7/25/10, edd 3/25/11

    Ectopic, lost left tube 4/20/11, edd 12/6/11

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  • Oh my goodness! That is wonderful! Congrats! I hope this is it for you and that you have a very happy and healthy 9 months!
    BFP#1 12/18/10 EDD 8/28/11 | 2/14/11 discovered that our baby girl had anencephaly D&C 2/17/11 at 12.5 weeks | no O or AF post loss - Dx: AO + mild PCOS = secondary infertility Provera after 70 days = AF but no O | Provera + 50mg Clomid after 110 days = AF but no O 3 rounds of 100mg Clomid + Estrogen + Progesterone = mixed O results, all BFN hysteroscopy 1/6/12 - removed fibroid tissue injection cycle #1 - 75 IU follistim + ovidrel (triggered 2/9/12) + endometrin = BFP! EDD 11/3/12 | Beta @ 13dpo = 184, 17dpo = 993, 26dpo = >5000 IT'S TWIN BOYS!! Tommy and Charlie arrived on 9/10/12 after less than 6 hours of labor at 32 weeks Image and video hosting by TinyPic Image and video hosting by TinyPic Image and video hosting by TinyPic Lilypie Premature Baby tickers
  • I am so happy for you!!  This is terrific news!!!!  Congratulations..and I hope and pray this pregnancy results in a beautiful Rainbow Baby!!!

               ((HUGE HUGS))!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • Congrats!!!  Don't feel foolish about your posts - at all.  H&H 9!
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    My beautiful Ella/ToT arrived 10/10/12. 
  • Thank you everyone.  I don't want to go away.  Your support means everything.

    I've had 2 HCGs, the first was 290 and the 2nd was 497.8.  Not quite doubled, but it was a little less than 48 hrs.  My doctor was good with those numbers and I won't go back until next week.  I hope things progress like they are supposed to and my numbers are better next week.  

     

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    GEAUX TIGERS!!!

    1st pregnancy: BFP- 6/28/09 - Found out we lost our little girl on 10/9/09 at 19w 4d - D&E- 10/14/09

    June 2010, corrective surgery for Septate Uterus and large fibroids

    2nd pregnancy: BFP- 10/18/10 - Slow rising, non-doubling HCGs, no heart beat. Non-viable pregnancy, D&C- 11/12/10

    Started Metformin 6/30/11, Started Clomid 7/20/11 - Unsuccessful

    HSG and Laparoscopic surgery revealed blocked tubes and lots of scar tissue...IVF here we come!!!

    Surprise BFP naturally!!! IT'S A BOY!!!

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  • Oh my goodness - congrats girl!!!  I'm so happy for you!

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    BFP #1 11.4.10, EDD 7.12.11, HB 12/9/10, MMC 12/27/10; 11w6d
    BFP #2 9.12.12, EDD 5.24.13, Baby Boy Born 5.15.13!!
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    3 Clomid (100mg) cycles + TI + Trigger = BFN's, Femara + Trigger + IUI#1 = BFN
    Femara + Trigger + IUI#2 = BFP!
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  • Congrats! Here's hoping the rest of your pregnancy is uneventful!
    dd(Brianna) 11/01/94, ds(Bram)10/17/95, ds(Jesse)9/26/97, dd (Annie Ruth) 7/27/05 5mc Jan '08, May '08, Feb '09, Sept '09, Apr '11 "And can it be that in a world so full and busy, the loss of one weak creature makes a void in any heart, so wide and deep that nothing but the width and depth of vast eternity can fill it up." - Charles Dickens

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    That's amazing and wonderful news! Congratulations! 

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  • Yay!!!  I couldn't be happier for you!!  Much love and many many (((hugs))) on your journey over the next nine months!!
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  • OMG!!!! This is wonderful news!!! I am so so happy for you and wishing you a H&H 9 months!!! Wooooo!!!! 


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    Aurora Rose born sleeping at 35w on 4-21-10
    BFP#2 {Almond} - 2.1.11 EDD 10.12.11 C/P 2.11.11

  • Absolutely wonderful, huge huge congrats!!
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  • Congrats!!! I pray this is your take home baby!
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  • Yay, congrats.
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  • so happy for you! Congrats
    The key to life is to enjoy the journey IUI#1 & #3=BFN (2010) IUI #2=c/p (2010) IUI#4-BFP,but ruled ectopic(2011) IUI#5: Feb 2012 (clomid, bravelle & ovidrel)
  • That's amazing!!!  Congrats!!
    Mom to Eliott Alexander, born sleeping at 37 weeks on 8/13/10. Most of us only dream of angels - I held one in my arms.
    BFP #2 - EDD 2/26/12 M/C 6/28/11 @ 5w2d
    BFP #3 - EDD 4/7/12 M/C 8/2/11 @ 4w2d
    Too beautiful for this earth
    BFP #4 - EDD 12/09/12, Lucille arrived 11/26/12
  • That's awesome! I hope things progress like they are supposed to!  Congratulations and good luck!

    TTC since 5/2010
    DX with Diminished Ovarian Reserve - AMH of 1.1 - 7/2011; AMH of .42 8/2012
    BFP 9/1/10-M/C confirmed 9/8/10-Methotrexate 10/6/10
    IUI #1 (w/clomid)-9/5/11-BFN ; IUI #2 (w/clomid)-10/5/11 - BFP - 11/1/12-No sac seen; 11/2/11 and 11/9/11-Methotrexate 
    IVF #1- ER 2/2; ET 2/5;-Two 8 cell embryos transfered = BFFN
    Surprise BFP - 5/7/12
    U/S on 6/8/12 - H/B at 128 BPM; U/S on 6/14/12 @ 9wks-No H/B-D&C on 6/17/12
    IVF 2.0- ER 10/17; ET 10/20-One 12 cell, one 10 cell and one 8 cell embryo transfered
    BFP!   11/16/12 U/S- Two nuggets with perfect heartbeats! EDD 7/10/13

     

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  • Fabulous news!! Congrats!
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  • Oh What amazing news! So happy for you! Will be thinking and praying for you and your rainbow!
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  • Congratulations!!!!!!!!
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  • just joined the group today and did not read your prior post , but i'm so happy for you it is a true blessing

    we are all in this blog because we are ttc and seeking that bfp so no one should feel mad at you

     

  • congratulations! I am so happy for you. Nice to see another septum girl have success :)

    Married 11/27/09 and TTC right away
    Dx: Complete septate uterus with cervical duplication, endometrial polyps, PCOS, endometriosis, hypo thyroid, luteal phase defect
    4 uterus surgeries to correct my complete septum and to remove polyps and 2 years of seeing the RE, medicated cycles and IUIs
    Baby 1 and 2: BFP 3/3/11 with 2 babies EDD 11/1/11, M/C 4/6/11
    Baby #3: 8/11 pregnant EDD 4/27/11 and m/c:(
    Baby #4: 10/12/11 BFP! EDD 6/16/12m/c 10/26/11
    Baby #5: 3/13/12 BFP! EDD 11/25/12 ANOTHER m/c :(

    Baby #6: 2/14/13- BFP! EDD 10/24/13, CP 2/19/13
    Baby #7: 3/15/13- BFP! EDD 11/27/13, another CP
    Baby #8.  BFP 5/19/13 EDD 1/22/14. 8 was not our lucky number

    4th septum resection on 5/31/13.
    Baby #9: 6/29/13 BFP. C section scheduled for March 5th!

    My miracle baby was born March 5 at 9:33am. He was 8 lbs 12.5 oz and 21.25 inches long!

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