I've tried a few different ways of wrapping, but I never feel like it's tight enough on her. I've looked at Youtube videos and follow the directions exactly, but it doesn't feel right. I'm going to a babywearing group meeting in a few weeks, but I'd like to get her in it now!

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Re: I cannot for the life of me figure out the Moby
I only ever used it for the front carry.
I would wrap it around me and put her in it like the instructions said. Then, I would untie it and sort of pull the two ends tighter behind my back. Let me rephrase. I would untie it and hold the two ends behind my back. then pull them tighter a few times. and retie. Then see if there is any loose fabric and repeat. For a visual think of putting your arms behind your back and touching your upper ribs, then pulling down to your waist.
Sorry for the horrible explanation. I would generally be trying to get my screaming kiddo in the wrap, and then once she was in and settled, I would tighten it up.
While wrapping are you pulling it tight? You want it to fit you like a snug tshirt, don't leave space for her while wrapping. It will stretch to fit her snugly.
I put it across my belly then x over the shoulders and smooth those out well so it's comfy across my back/shoulders. After tucking them under the middle piece, I will pull everything super snug. And then wrap the ends around my waist tightly and tie.
I'm not sure if that makes any sense but I hope it helps. You can also try washing/drying it - mine shrinks up a bit and always feels tighter for the first few wears after washing.
Honestly, I never got the moby quite right. I find wovens so much easier.
Keep practicing though, and I'm sure you will get the hang of it!
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