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so....i'm out

Ashbear2Ashbear2 member
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DH just told me he's getting deployed for 3 months.

Just as well, with this whole CD 80 situation. Not sure what my game plan will be to get my cycle under control while he's gone, tho.

Just kinda was a blow to the gut, and totally caught me off guard. So now I feel like sh!t cuz he didn't even mention TTC being put off. Not important enough to mention, I guess :( 

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  • TeamEdwardTeamEdward
    Sorry to hear that, but like you said at least you can get your cycle under control and you wont be stressed so maybe when he comes home you both will be fresh and ready to try making babies! Good luck
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  • hunnygirlhunnygirl member
    So sorry to hear that. So disappointing. I doubt your DH doesn't think putting off TTC isn't important, there are probably a lot of things going on in his mind and he doesn't know what to say since it has been such a long cycle. :( Hugs!

     

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  • Blondebombkels10Blondebombkels10
    That sucks.  Sorry to hear that.  Hopefully he's home soon and you can TTC again!
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  • LovestruckAJLovestruckAJ member
    I am so sorry. I agree that he was probably hesitant on telling you because he knew you'd be upset. Hang in there.
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  • ToriablesToriables member
    I'm sorry....Hope your DH makes it home safe and sound!
    Me- 35 Dx endo; DH- 33 no probs.
    BFP#1 (totally a wonderful surprise)- 3/10/11. IUFD 6/25/11. 
    TTC since 8/2011.
    BFP#2- 11/1/11. EDD 7/6/12. Blighted ovum 12/1/11.

    New OBGYN 12/2012- CD3 labs, SA, HSG normal. 
    First RE appt 1/16/2013. Unexplained infertility. Lap planned. 

    12/2012- Clomid 50mg + TI= BFN 
    1/2013- Clomid 50mg + TI= BFN.

     Lap 2/11/2013- Removed endo. 

    3/2013- Clomid + IUI= BFN
    4/2013- Clomid + IUI= BFN
    5/2013- Clomid + IUI= BFN

    June 2013- Time for a new RE!

    July 2013- We're in Shared Risk! Love my new RE!
    August 2013- IVF#1- 14 R, 11F, transferred 1 perfect blast, 5 day 5 frosties= BFN.
    Sept 2013- Let's get ready for FET October 7th ish!< transfer 2 embies 10/11/13.......BFP 10/18/13!!!!/div>

    PAIF/SAIF and everyone is welcome. If I can make even one person's journey less painful, I will consider my experience here successful. Thank you to all for sharing their stories, the intimate details of their lives, their knowledge, and their hearts. I hope this experience changes me, always for the better.
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  • Ashbear2Ashbear2 member
    Thank you everyone, I just need to take a deep breathe and look at the positives!
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  • WiscoMom67WiscoMom67

    I must admit that I've been feeling sorry for myself about DH being gone for work (past and future) and missing our fertile windows.  And I actually caught myself wondering how in the heck military families do it -- both emotionally and physically.

    Tell your husband thanks for doing what he does.  And thank YOU for supporting him.  I hope your cycle straightens out while he is gone and your both ready to make babies when he returns.  :)

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  • rrdiva1rrdiva1 member

    Awe Ash, I am sorry that you are going through this.

     I think he cares, I think he maybe got wrapped into him leaving.

    I know it is a dissapointment, but on brighter side you can get your cycle under control. GL!

    Married BF 6/29/2002/
    TTC Since Aug 2011/
    ME:34 all clear/DH:41 DX Severe MFI/
    IVF w/ICSI OCT 2012 Stims started 10/8/ER 10/19/12/ET 10/24/Beta#1 11/2=BFN (beta was 1.2)

    IVF 2.0-Baseline 11/7/12 beta 0/All Clear
    Stim start 11/7/12//ER 11/19 11M//10F
    ET 2 embies 11/24//Beta#1 28 Beta #2 23 Beta#3 29
    stop meds Beta#4 37/C/P 5W5D EDD:8/12/13/IVF#3 in Jan

    Ivf 3-frozen 3 poor 3day/fet=bfn

    Ivf#4 New dr. New protocol=beta1 197 beta#2 677 beta#3 1557
     u/s 8/13 =TWINS 2 strong hb
    Due Date 4/4/14

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