Late AF - When to call??

katharine25 · February 2012

So this cycle is officially one week longer than my post d&c cycle (which was 31 days) I didn't temp or opk so I know I don't really know when I o'de... Maybe TMI but every month mid-cycle I will get this rush of moisture when walking down the street that feels like AF... I've always assumed this is my ovulation.... AF comes 2 weeks later. I know things are different after being pg, but this happened after my d&c too. This happened this cycle on the 13th. That was 19 days ago. I took a HPT on Saturday with FMU which would be 15 dpo based on this. Stark white negative. I don't feel slightly pregnant.

Additional info: the 13th was also the last time we had sex. That weekend it became apparent that I had an infection (turns out it was both bacterial and yeast... yay). I've been using homeopathic treatments (under my nurse practioners direction) and the bacterial has gone away. There's still some cottage cheesy product left over from the yeast, but otherwise I am symptomless (ie, no itching or discharge).

I can't get an appointment for 3 weeks with my regular gyno', and I really don't like my OB - but haven't found a new one yet so would go to him if necessary. He at least knows my recent history.

I don't knew if she's not coming because of stress/depression or if this was anovulatory or what. Her not coming is stressing me out so much more...

Would you call you OB or just wait it out? Is there even anything he cando other than tell me cycles are wonky after m/c?

ToiKenne · February 2012

I would call just to let your dr know what is going on. It can't hurt.

lebongo · February 2012

ToiKenne:
I would call just to let your dr know what is going on. It can't hurt.

agreed. Hope things get cleared up soon so you can stop stressing/worrying about what's going on

Deethebee · February 2012

Call the gyn and even if you can't get in, maybe you can talk over the phone? Also, take another HPT today! Mine wasn't positive until 14dpo and it was a very faint line then!

ecmleo · February 2012

They probably will tell you to wait it out a bit longer, but it can't hurt to call. It may take some of the stress off of you if you just call and hear what they have to say. I hope things straighten out for you soon!

VikingQueen · February 2012

ugh so fustrating.. I know most places are going to tell you to wait til atleast 60 days with no AF before they will put you on provera or whatever. But it wouldn't hurt to call IMO

glaw · February 2012

I think you should call too b/c it will put your mind at ease. I've read a lot about how things with AF can be very different after m/c. My AF is much heavier and shorter now. Sometimes like you said stress can delay it as well. I would call to ease your mind. Let us know what happens!

mijakach · February 2012

Uggh that's a tough call. Knowing me, I would call just to see what the doctor thinks. They might make you wait, but it can't hurt to at least call.

jinxycat24 · February 2012

I say call even just to be able to talk to someone and hopefully help you to stop worrying.

dutchess546 · February 2012

i kow EXACTLY how you feel! i am CD36 & no AF & no + tests ( everyone keeps saying "dont worry, it will come. your just stressing your self out even more now. just dont think about it". Really? i want to scream every time someone says that to me... there is no way to not think about it when it is happening in your body, every minute, of every day... why cant people understand that with this??? argh! make me so frustrated! if im not PG then please, bring on the AF ASAP so that i (we) can move on from this cycle!

hope things change for you & i... in a good way of course ;o)

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