I met with my RE today (not about yesterday's false positive -- it was a previously scheduled appointment). I mostly had a few quick questions to ask about IUI timing, DHEA, odds and ends like that. I have to say that I really, really like my RE -- every time I meet with her she gives me plenty of time, is open to my suggestions, explains things thoroughly and without dumbing them down, and helps me move along quite quickly -- often even more quickly than I've dared hope for. What's really great is that she's also at a really strong practice (NYU) you'd expect to be more like a factory -- so it's great to have those resources and still get personal attention. I've had a really good experience there so far. (Yes, I know this reads like an ad -- but it's true and makes a real difference in my optimism and comfort level.)
Today was no exception. One of the things I asked her about was how many more IUIs she'd recommend before moving to IVF. I'm at the end of IUI cycle #2, and she basically said I could do anywhere between 1 and 4 more, but that there are usually diminishing returns after ~ 3 total. I asked her what I needed to start doing soon to begin getting my ducks in a row for IVF. After explaining the whole process and explaining pros and cons of things like ISCI, she sat me down right away with the program coordinator so I could get on the March calendar if I wanted to do it straightaway after my next IUI. Not sure yet if I'll do March or April (assuming my next IUI or two fail -- I haven't lost hope yet) -- I might take a break cycle after February or try a fourth IUI, but I'm happy to have the option of diving straight in in March. My RE said she saw no reason why I wouldn't be able to expect to get 10 or 12 eggs at retrieval. Obviously no guarantee but I'm glad she seems optimistic about how I'll respond.
So -- IF sucks and going through treatments sucks but at least I feel like I'm fulfilling my 2012 resolution of all systems go, no more wasting time.
Anyone else think they'll be doing IVF in March or April?
Re: Cruising toward IVF -- anyone else cycling in March or April?
I will be dong IVF in March/April.
I'll start BCP with my next cycle scheduled to start around 2/27 which would have me on stims in late March and an ER around the first week of April.
I had the same diminishing return on IUI conversation with my RE. His opinion was that it would eventually work, but what what cost (physically and emotionally). I decided I need something more concrete with better odds so on to IVF.
Good luck with your decision.
We'll be cycling for IVF either March/April or April/May. We have our meeting on Thursday to discuss timing and strategy.
I bet you'll do well.
ETA: Actually, I hope you don't need to do IVF.
Me! Not sure if it will March or April yet.
How exciting. GL!
Me: 36, DH: 42
Dx: DOR and MFI
DH: low count + very low motility; hormones all normal; Sperm DNA Frag. test = poor to fair; male karyotyping normal
Me: FSH 13.4 + AMH 0.26 + hypothyroidism; Scratch the hypothyrodism (?); Blood clotting and immune panel all negative; endometrial biopsy normal
IVF #1 (MDLF - Jul/Aug 2011): BFN (9R, 5M, 3F with ICSI, 3dt of 1 10-cell grade 2, no frosties)
IVF #2 (EP-antagonist - Sep/Oct 2011): BFN (6R, 4M, 3F w/ ICSI, 3dt of 1 6-cell, 1 7-cell, grade 4s, no frosties)
DE IVF #1 (shared cycle - June 2012): c/p (6R, 6F w/ICSI, 3dt 1 8-cell grade A- and 1 7-cell grade A-; no frosties)
DE IVF #2 (shared cycle with new donor - Nov/Dec/ 2012): - BFP!!!!! 12/14/12. U/S on 12/27 shows twins!!!!!
SAIFW/PAIFW
TTC #2 since July 2010
March 2012 IVF (MDL Protocol) Started stims 3/3; ER 3/11 (9R, 8M, 7F) ET 3/16 (5dt of 2 blasts graded 3AB and 3BA, 3 frosties(!!) Beta 3/26 = 386; Beta 3/28 = 827; u/s 4/11 says TWINS! Boy/Girl Twins delivered at 36 weeks 6 days
**ticker warning**
::butting in::
Just wanted to mention that a friend of mine had a great experience working with NYU-- they helped her get her DS in spite of DOR issues after several failed IVF's at another clinic. I hope you don't need to resort to IVF, but you're definitely in good hands there. Good luck!
ETA: And best of luck to the other ladies cycling too! Still keeping my fingers crossed for all of you!
F.ino.
Having a great RE is so so important in all this!
We are looking at FET#2 in early April. I will have a better idea of the suppression schedule in a few weeks, once CD1 arrives. Although I still hold out hope for a surprised BFP.
And hope you don't have to worry about cycling in March/April either!
TTC #1 since 2009 with unexplained infertility
IUI#1-4 Jan.-Apr. 2011 = BFNs
IVF#1 Aug. 2011 = c/p, FET #1 Nov. 2011 = c/p, FET #2 April 2012 = BFP!
Beta #1 = 153, Beta #2 = 269, Beta #3 = 675
1st U/S = TWINS!! EDD 12/29/12
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