Update on meeting piglets future parents again :-)

Graciepregnant1 · January 2012

So i am 99% sure they are the couple and plan on telling them this weekend when we next meet up. I want to be so certain before i tell them although i think they are very optimistic and sure.

I completely love the woman, she is one of the most down to earth gorgeous person i have ever met. my heart breaks for her though when i hear more of her story, she sas had 3 miscarriages and all her babies were concieved through invitro (spelling), this woman deserves a baby so much and i hate the fact that i can just get pregnant on the pill when she has struggled so much.

We asked so many questions but also just chatted, she is 100% agreement with open adoption and said that she is even willing for us to come and see piglet during christmas and everything if we pick her. she told me that she would let me be involved as much as possible.

I am not going to go into any more detail of what else we talked about as alot of it is her stuff but everything went well.

I must admit though my heart does sink abit when i think i will be missing alot and won't be her mom, I have gotten to the point where i think i know that whether or not baby hates me later on i know she will have a great life, i will still see her and she will have open and amazing parents.

I hope you guys do not mind me still being on here and comstantly updating it is nice to just be able to write somehwere i know i will not get judged, i have been on other pregnancy sites and it means so much to me that i can just write. I am truly going to miss you all when this pregnancy is over. i also know i don't comment alot as most of them is about getting stuff and when the baby is here so it is does not apply to me but i do read alot.

So that is my update :-)

mrs_j_may_08 · January 2012

You are doing a wonderful thing for that couple hun. You're always welcome to come and post here about what you're feeling.

AshleyC0117 · January 2012

I think I speak for all of us when I say that you are always welcome to post on here! Adoption or not, you're still an April mommy.

I think it's great that you've found such an awesome couple. It must be such a relief to have found people who you feel so comfortable with. It sounds like they're great for you and the option to have an open adoption will give you so much peace of mind because you will always know she is doing well. I think you're doing such a brave and honorable thing. Your daughter will thank you one day for sure. Hugs!

MrsGreen620 · January 2012

Your little girl is going to be so lucky to have two loving moms. From what you've shared, it really does sound like this is going to be an awesome opportunity for you, your baby, and this couple. Congratulations on making such a difficult decision, one that will truly benefit everyone involved. My prayers are with all of you!

Crazijewel · January 2012

I am so impressed with your attitude toward the whole situation. Looks like you found your little girl great parents. You never know, your little girl may completely understand when she is older and appreciate all that you gave up for her. I truly admire you for making what you think will be the best decision for your daughter, as well as yourself.

Ruby412 · January 2012

You are making a brave and selfless choice giving your baby a life that you can't give her. This is truly amazing and she will never hate you for this. She will still know you and have double the love from her bio mom and her adoptive mom. It also sounds like you really adore the couple you will most likely choose, which makes it even better since you will be linked together forever. You should be very proud of yourself for taking the road less traveled and putting your baby's needs above your own wants!

westrose · January 2012

You are doing such an amazing thing. I am sure that it will help you transition as you know that you have picked out a wonderful family for your LO. Thanks for the update.

stacieann15 · January 2012

I am so proud of you for doing what is best for your daughter -- especially since it is such a difficult thing. I would be shocked if she grew up to hate you -- she is going to know you and know how much you love her.

I do hope you are coordinating this through a lawyer or an agency. I am sure there are a lot of odd legal issues involved in any adoption, and I just want to be sure you are protecting yourself (this is none of my business of course, please don't be offended by this suggestion).

Luvmy2sons · January 2012

I also agree that you're doing a wonderful thing for your baby. I hope you continue to stick around, because we're definitely a sisterhood here. No matter what we'll be here for you.

gisa886 · January 2012

I got all teary eyed reading this. I think you are doing a great thing and your statement about how you got pregnant on the pill while she has suffered hits home to me. I had two surprise babies and sometimes feel overwhelemingly guilty that I got pregnant to easily while others suffer. You are welcome here always

Johlise · January 2012

I'm glad that you are feeling so great about this!

Also, you are more than welcome to come here and post! (HUGS)

katcarls · January 2012

Thanks for updating. I'm glad the meeting went well and they're willing to keep things open for you! I really don't think your baby will hate you later on so try not to worry about that aspect too much.

stephlas8 · January 2012

Gracie, you rock girl. You. Rock.

adamstodrake · January 2012

I am always thrilled to see your updates! Keep us posted, you are still an April mom. But now you are making someone else an April mom too! That is just so awesome and brave of you. I really believe piglet will grow up knowing that you are a selfless young woman which put her needs before your own. She is going to be proud of you! I know we all are :0)

loveheaven · January 2012

Gracie you are doing a beautiful, amazing, selfless thing, and your daughter is going to be forever grateful to you for giving her the incredible future she deserves. You are always welcome here, as the definition of being a mother is doing what is right for your child. I think I speak for all of us when I say you are ABSOLUTELY doing that by putting her needs and future first. We are all proud of you- this is not an easy decision, but you have handled it with maturity and clarity.

Congratulations on finding suck spectacular, deserving adoptive parents for your little one. Best of luck to you!

Christina_Diane · January 2012

Everything from your update sounds like wonderful news! You are incredibly brave and selfless to do this, and the family will be forever grateful to you.

mrsadamc 05 · January 2012

I haven't read all the responses but i think you are doing an amazing thing. and if you are open and honest with your daughter as she grows up she will see that and know you did the best thing you could for her. i highly doubt she will ever hate you for giving her the best life you could!

jenwet · January 2012

stephlas8:
Gracie, you rock girl. You. Rock.

This sums it up nicely. I'm so glad everything went well and that you've found wonderful parents for your precious little girl. No one deserves a baby more than people who've tried as hard to have a family as this couple has. Your daughter could never hate you for that. Your bravery, strength and maturity will take you far in life, Gracie. I'm excited to see where you go and what you do after this. Please keep us posted, and whenever you worry about whether or not you're doing the right thing, come back and read all these responses, k? hugs to you.

jesbeth · February 2012

adamstodrake:
I am always thrilled to see your updates! Keep us posted, you are still an April mom. But now you are making someone else an April mom too! That is just so awesome and brave of you. I really believe piglet will grow up knowing that you are a selfless young woman which put her needs before your own. She is going to be proud of you! I know we all are :0)

This made me smile! What a wonderful thing!!

shelly3333 · February 2012

You are doing such an amazing thing for this family! You are so brave and you are really putting this baby first. Good luck to you!

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